I saw a post that Mila Kunis posted on Facebook. She talked about how it took a while to be with Ashton Kutcher, but in the end it was worth it because he's her soulmate and that it was their destiny to be together. Well while going through the comments I found one person who said "that why can't you celebrate the fact that you have a family and that you two made the choice to stay together". At least something very similar along those lines. The commenter also said that she didn't believe in destiny/soulmates, because "life is full of choices. You either decide to stay together or you don't". All of this got me to thinking, I used to never believe in love at first sight, destiny, or soulmates. I think that yes, if you do put in commitment with someone that you care about and both put in 100%, then yes there a chance of a good marriage. But I also believe that you can spend how ever amount of time with someone but that doesn't mean that you'll fall in love with them. You either have feelings for that person or you don't. When I met Casey, I never believed in love at first sight and I still don't, I admit that I had a huge attraction to him but it wasn't love at first sight. I also admit that I've recently became a believer in destiny/fate. Only because I wished/prayed at night to meet a guy that had all the characteristics that I look for in a man. He didn't enter my life right away, but when I least expected it. I believe in destiny because I feel like Casey came into my life for a reason, and it hasn't felt the same since he left(along with a various of other reasons why I believe that notion). I'm not sure if I believe in soulmates, but I'm not against it either. At the end of the day, I believe you need actual "love" to keep a marriage together. It may have not been destiny to bring you two together, but "all you need is love."
