Becoming adult is realizing that summer wasn’t the villain . Tom literally would ignore what she was saying and have his own fantasy in his head. Someone said “only to become someone else’s wife” . She wasn’t ready at this point in time that didn’t mean that she would never be ready and it’s a tough pill to swallow but sometimes you just aren’t the one for somebody. (2)
I don’t like Summer’s character back then but I do understand her now. The last guy I dated was like this Tom guy but he’s a bit more absurd.. tho actually parang most of the guys I’ve talked to were also ganito. I don’t like it. You creating a fantasy version of me in your head and also putting me in the situation where I feel obligated to do things a committed person would do. In the first place, it’s clear enough naman na I’m not ready yet. Rushing things.. yeah a way for me na mawalan nang gana. Super uncomfortable. I can tolerate it before but after a while meh.. it’s tiring. They don’t deserve second chance and I shouldn’t have given it. If there’s a red flag or I find you draining, I’ll stop wasting my time. That’s it. Potential lover maybe but again that’s it. I’ll cut off ties. Ya, sounds mean. (coz I am) Right now being in a relationship is not my priority.
