To the anon who asked why breaking boundaries is okay if they don't know about it:
It's because you're not breaking boundaries. A person's boundaries exist as their own personal comfort level and should be respected when you're interacting with them or their space. Someone cannot enforce boundaries onto places they don't control or have any involvement in. Boundaries are lines you set for yourself and enforce for yourself. You cannot demand things of other people or insist they cater to your comfort level in spaces you do not own or have presence. And simply going to a place like ao3 does not give you the right to authority.
If you cannot personally enforce something (eg blocking a user or banning a chatter) after establishing what you are comfortable with, then it isn't a boundary; it's a demand that everyone else exist in their own spaces with the constant thought of hypothetical interaction.
It is okay to be uncomfortable sometimes. You are enforcing a boundary every time you warn someone of consequences or block them. You are not enforcing a boundary by creating rules and expecting everyone else to cater to you when there are already mechanics in place that you can use to make your online experience more comfortable.
If the thought of someone making art of you that you don't like is uncomfortable, that's normal. Use the tools in place to enforce your boundaries by blocking and filtering.
Demanding a creator talk about shipping when they've already established it makes them uncomfortable is crossing a boundary. Writing a fic on a fan website and minding your own business is not.
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Okay, HEAR ME OUT: Tengen falling for a male reader hashira. Like he is genuinely flustered at the fact that he wants a husband. He is nervous for the first time. The flashy attitude POOF GONE! He is like a high-school girl in love. Then he tells his wives about his feelings and how he wants the reader as a husband. His wives agree and BOOM relationship! So how would he ask the reader out, how would the relationship be like?
AHHH, YOU MUST KNOW OF MY LOVE FOR TENGEN… HERE YOU GO!
Uzui Tengen Falling for Male!Reader Hashira
I’ve dropped the banners cus I’m too lazy to add them…
When He Realizes His Feelings
For the first time in forever, the self-proclaimed god of flamboyance finds himself tongue-tied.
He notices how his heart races when you’re nearby and how his usual over-the-top lines die on his lips.
He tries to act normal at first, but the wives notice immediately: “Tengen-sama, you’re… unusually quiet.”
He blurts out during dinner with them: “I think… I want a husband.” Dead silence.
His wives burst into laughter and joy, instantly supportive and curious about you.
Suma starts squealing, Makio teases him for finally being flustered, and Hinatsuru smiles knowingly.
They encourage him: “Go for it! You deserve someone who makes you feel this way.”
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How He Confesses / Asks You Out
For once in his life, he doesn’t plan some flashy performance — he’s too nervous.
He spends forever rehearsing what to say, then scrambles last-minute and blurts it out.
“I… uh… listen, you’re… more flamboyant than anyone else I’ve ever met. And I—dammit. I want you to be my husband.”
His ears turn bright red as soon as the words leave his mouth.
If you tease him for being nervous, he groans, covers his face, and mutters, “Unflamboyant. So unflamboyant.”
If you accept, he immediately regains some of his flair, sweeping you into a dramatic hug — but you can still tell he’s trembling with relief.
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The Relationship
Tengen brags that he now has “the flashiest husband,” and his wives are just as proud to show you off.
His wives adore you. You’re folded into their family seamlessly — they treat you as much their partner as his.
He’s affectionate to a ridiculous degree, but there’s a sincerity in it that wasn’t there with his usual theatrics.
He absolutely melts when you call him out for being soft. “Don’t… don’t say that in front of them!” (while blushing furiously).
He trains with you constantly — partly to stay sharp, partly because he likes watching you move.
At first, he tries to outshine you, but eventually, he realizes he loves when you outshine him.
Protective, but also deeply respectful. He brags about your strength endlessly: “Did you see him out there? That’s my husband!”
His wives sometimes tease that you’re the only one who can truly quiet him down — and it’s true. Around you, the world slows.
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Overall
He goes from being the loudest, most confident man alive to the most nervous lovestruck fool — and it’s adorable.
His wives love seeing this new side of him, and they welcome you wholeheartedly.
The relationship becomes a blend of warmth, affection, banter, and yes — plenty of flashiness (once he stops being shy).
But at the core, he finally found someone who makes even the god of flamboyance blush.
Oh Tengen, my flamboyant king, they could NEVER make me hate you.
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