Superfat butch cisgender lesbian (she/her) I have no tolerance for racism, hostility, or predjudice against any religion, sexual orientation, or gender identity.
If you are into the rotten orange cheeto or ICE, an anti-vaxxer, or think poor people are poor because they arent working hard enough, you are on the wrong profile and please see yourself out.
There are two branches of feedism. One that people love and get off on fat (this is ME). The other one people love and get off on antifat bias/fatphobia (not me). I don't believe fat bodies are lesser, ruined, less intelligent, or more animal like. I have no issue as long as all parties are consenting to having antifat bias/fatphobia used on them for pleasure but I am not into that. I dont like being teased, shamed, or name called.
I am a proud butch lesbian. Gender is a social construct and the binary is silly so theys or non-straights shoot your shot.
I am demisexual (attraction after an emotional connection) and noetisexual (attraction after a mental connection) so I am not looking for casual fat chat or sexual encounters. I need to know people well first. I am a switch.
I love being fat and other people to be into me being fat. I like other people being fat but it is not a requirement. If we have a good connection, I am not concerned with the body size of those I date. I love eating and I love eating with others. I am very into hedonism. I wanted to be fat my whole life and purposely gained to over 500lbs on my own without the help of a feeder. I am maintaining due to some physical health things as well as lack of financial stability.
I am disabled and I use a rollator walker. I cant walk very fast and need breaks. I still mask as the COVID pandemic has never ended. Masking is community care.
I am always looking for friends within feedism.
I am passionate about liberation for all, abolition, social justice, racial justice, environmental justice, disability justice, indigenous justice, loving my neighbors, permaculture, singing, jazz, geography, fonts, live music, theatre, and barbershop quartets.
Ask me about Feedists for Fat Liberation!
Pretty much I am a huge nerd. I don't like going to bars or very noisy crowded places. I donāt drink very often. My favorite activity is to listen to audio books and put together jigsaw puzzles. I like to make crafts, do origami, adult coloring, and fix broken things. The Scripps National Spelling Bee is my favorite event of the year.
I love to read and listen to audiobooks. Here are some books and authors I really enjoy:
Discworld Tiffany Aching Series by Terry Pratchett
Legends & Lattes and Bookshops & Bonedust by Travis Baldree
Posie Parker Mystery Series by L. B. Hathaway
I play the trombone and I would be interested in joining a community band or orchestra. I love to sing and I would be interested in joining a choir of some sort or being in a barbershop quartet. I havent pursued these due to COVID still being an issue in 2026.
I am interested in learning wood working, wood carving, leather working, blacksmithing, precious metal smithing, hot rod car building, motorcycle building, canning, farming, house building, and hobbit hole building.
Favorite TV Shows of all time: Murder, She Wrote and Xena: Warrior Princess
Favorite TV Shows semi recently: Gentleman Jack, Call The Midwife, Schitt's Creek
Science Fiction and Fantasy TV: Lost Girl, The X-Files, Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Angel, Star Trek TNG, Star Trek DS9, Star Trek VOY, Battlestar Galactica, Babylon 5
If you are interested in dating me: Do you have a vehicle that an extremely fat person can fit inside? Do you have a seatbelt extender? Do you have a bed with a sturdy mattress and bedframe with a high weight capacity? Is your living space accessible to a superfat disabled person? Are you interested in any kind of care taking like learning lymphedema massage?
