hi. we're the homebase system. 24 years bodily, traumagenic DID system (official diag), neglect survivors, fictive heavy, AFAB, mostly transmasc. intersex.
pronouns vary, they/them is fine as a group.
system-wide DNI page: https://homebasesystem.carrd.co/#dni read it.
headmate sideblogs below the cut
not all of us have sideblogs and some of us who do keep theirs private due to paranoia reasons. so, here's the headmates who do have public sideblogs and are okay with people following them:
*treat everyone with respect. even if someone is a fictive of your scrunkly blorbo, they're not a toy for you to play with.
*introjects do not equal defending fandoms. not all introjects show up because other headmates really enjoy xyz media. keep that one in mind, ok?
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Anti software club is the group that started and manages cohost.org. They have a nice website were they list their team members. Anti software club are the people behind cohost. Kara (or Kaara Raven) is listed there as a member.
Kara is Kaara_raven on twitter, but formerly she was under the online handle allthefoxes. It was the Discord Trust and Safety team member that stated that cub porn is allowed on Discord and behaved incredibly unprofessionally. There was also some, insane unprofessional behavior between it and Quackity, the minecraft youtuber when she worked at Discord.
i mean why am i not fucking surprised, i remembered their community guidelines being completely ass backwards when it comes to explicit underage content, and sure enough their stance on underage porn went from:
"uhh pweetty pwease dont post it because we dont know how to make rules about this stuff we're asking the community before we do it eheeehee"
to,
"well we're not gonna allow it but if you want to post written explicit underage fiction, drawn aged up shit, or suggestive drawn minor characters be our fucking guest!! lawl 👍"
I started looking into this because it felt weird that the post I reported for deadnaming my friend and cruelly lying about their attempts at suicide had its ticket closed without comment.
You know what? Sure, whatever. Maybe they don’t want to look into the details of Jolly’s situation and maybe Eevee lying about what happened to my friend isn’t grounds for moderation.
But the deadnaming is clear as day - Eevee uses my friends deadname multiple times in her post. A dead name that has been dead for years. A dead name that Eevee knows is dead. Cohosts rules on deadnaming are very clear.
....So why was my ticket closed without comment? This is a very cut and dry case of Eevee violating the no deadnaming rule.
Could it have something to do with the fact the Eevee is seemingly friends with Cohosts co-founder Colin Bayer / Vogon?
Does the “queer friendly” cohost really allow deadnaming so long the person being transphobic is friends with the co-founder? Really?
Well, the corrupt behavior lines up with Kara’s history as a Discord staff member. At the very least.
Sorry to all the survivors of pedophilia & incest who’s abuse directly correlated with your abusers’ internet role plays, fics, etc and those of you who were exposed to them to groom/coerce you into it who now have to see ppl insist you play semantics over who gets labeled a pedophile or incest fetishist over online behavior bc “it’s not real”, as if it’s even possible for these things to exist in a vacuum untouchable by real life ppl & issues. So sorry. It’s not a non-issue, it’s not totally separate from real life abuse, you’re not crazy & what happened to you matters
Reminder that there’s a list of resources & support groups for incest survivors (& I believe maybe some for general csa survivors, but it’s centered on incest) here
link leads to page not found. here is one of survivor resources on the same site: here, many different ones not just focused in incest. some are in spanish as well
The youtuber W*ndig*on, the youtuber, said that he was the originator of the term “boogaloo boys”. (original thread)
Which is also primarily known as the nazi alt-right extremist militia hate group movement.
He claims they strayed from his ideals by being “anywhere from antifa to fascist” instead of just about “freedom”.
He says he renamed himself from boogalooboi to his current username to rebrand.
That he is what the boogaloobois model themselves after, presumably as his fans.
So it’s not that he coincidentally looks and acts with fascist dogwhistles, it’s that according to him, the fascists model themselves after him.
And still for whatever reason, he keeps wearing and saying things the Boogaloo boys are known for after supposedly renouncing them. The hawaiian shirts, the gun collection and fanaticism, military fatigues, the fixation with “freedom”, using “boogaloo” to mean ‘revolution’, etc.
He is a white devout christian man that makes those long conspiracy theory iceberg videos, as he considers conspiracy theories to be fun and interesting, but barely if ever addresses the antisemitism of most of those conspiracies.
And named himself and his Youtube channel after the taboo winter hunger spirit of the Algonquian native peoples. It is a part of a closed-off religion where you aren’t supposed to mention the spirit by name or it will notice or manifest.
It also conceptually symbolizes the imperialism and colonialism and greed - “the consuming forms of exclusion and assimilation” - that affected the Algonquian peoples. The further cultural appropriation and misrepresentation of the taboo spirit into a quirky cryptid and using it for branding and merchandise is inappropriate. (forum thread with article links about the taboo spirit)
He has also said stereotypically transmisogynistic things just because it was about Chris Chan.
He was inspired by shoe0nhead, an “anti-sjw” youtuber that claims to be a “leftist populist”, but is an anti-feminist that believes in 9/11 conspiracies, and he regularly interacts with her.
Image shown: His tweet, “step on me @/shoe0nhead”. End of Image. (Tweet Here)
And is a Kyle Rittenhouse fan. Someone who killed three people at a black lives matter protest and is affiliated and supported by the proud boys - a white supremacist neo-fascist group. He follows his official Twitter and agrees with tweets defending Kyle. (reddit threads on his official subreddit, on the subject of him following all kinds of people and his community’s political stances, like him being anti-vaxx and following alt-right people)
Images shown: First is the Official Twitter account of Kyle Rittenhouse, followed by his twitter account.
Second image is his tweet saying “The moment it was announced not guilty on all counts”, with a 42 second video showing Kyle Rittenhouse scared then relieved when the court said he wasn’t guilty and believed his self-defense claim. (Tweet here)
End of Image.
Do with this information what you will, but he does not have good politics.
not to be a hater but i fucking despise the youtuber wendigoon for making an entire brand out of a native american legend, but not even the fact that its blatant appropriation, but that its based around one of the things you arent even supposed to acknowledge or say the name of out loud. and now theyre making plushes out of it like its something cute and quirky...
....its not like people arent telling them this is not fucking ok, but whatever right
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Last week, in the wake of his face reveal on stream, the YouTuber Dream was accused of grooming, igniting vicious and intense debates across the internet. This essay seeks to expose Dream's common manipulative tactics and techniques he uses to control his audience.
It is important to recognise that grooming is not exclusive to age dynamics, but also power dynamics. Many in positions of power use said power to manipulate and control those who they groom. For example, Bill Clinton grooming Monica Lewinsky. Sure, Lewinsky was not underage, but it still counts as grooming because of the power dynamic. The president of the United States against a lowly intern? There's absolutely a power dynamic there.
Timeline of Events
We start in 2020, September 23rd. Amanduh DMs Dream on Instagram, telling him she enjoys his content, not expecting anything in return. However, Dream replies. This begins their first correspondence until the beginning of 2021, when Amanduh gets a boyfriend and stops talking to Dream. Through 2021, Amanduh does not communicate with Dream (as far as we know).
January 17th, 2022, and Amanduh and Dream are talking again. Dream gives her his Snapchat. From the 17th of January to the 17th of next month, this is where the alleged sexting took place, all the way to her 18th birthday. From April onwards, Amanduh has a new boyfriend.
Then, October 15th, D-Day. Amanduh releases a public video on TikTok exposing Dream for grooming her, showing inappropriate Snapchat texts as well as saying that he sent her inappropriate pictures. This is immediately met by a shitstorm of discussion, hate and support from all sides of the internet. The hashtag #dreamisafreak begins trending on Twitter. Later that day, Dream posts his response, essentially claiming she put her age as 18, that this all happened because Amanduh has a parasocial relationship with him.
Since then, Amanduh has announced she will be stepping away from Twitter to take legal action against Dream. Dream, meanwhile, has posted 2 things of importance. Firstly, he posted a series of funny texts about his cat with his friends on his private account. Secondly, he posted a video with Technoblade's father, which was him "trying to help Techno's family".
Defense Mechanisms
In the wake of Dream's speedrun cheating scandal, Dream hired an astrophysicist to disprove claims that he cheated in order to obtain his place on the leaderboard. Turns out, he lied. The whole time, he knew he cheated, and yet he hired an astrophysicist, had a debate with speedrun mods, caused said speedrun mods to receive an excessive amount of hate from toxic fans, and washed it all away with a 'sorry'. The next month, he was back to posting videos like nothing had happened, and has yet to address the scandal since.
Yet, whenever the speedrun scandal is brought up, defenders of Dream seem to turn a blind eye. This follows behavioural patterns with several victims of manipulation, where victims will automatically defend abusers/manipulators because they develop hero worship complexes towards them, and in their minds, making it impossible to even comprehend that said abuser could ever do wrong. This is exactly what Dream has done, by carefully curating his image as a relatable, cutesy, and most important of all, a safe space.
Of course, influencers are safe spaces for anyone going through internal or mental conflicts. They allow them to get away from the real world and connect with another person that they might not even know. This is unavoidable, and there isn't much of a problem with this. The problems start when influencers who now have influence over large groups of people use said influence to deflect criticism, or denounce it and influence their followers to denounce said criticism as well. Because people are more inclined to follow and believe others who they "know better", this cultivates easy preying grounds. These are commonly known as parasocial relationships.
See, because Dream's followers were convinced he could do no wrong, they attacked anyone for saying otherwise. Moderators, YouTubers, anyone who uttered a word of dissent against Dream was engaged in fierce arguments with his followers. They accused the head mod, Geospace of faking numbers, of being a pedophile (rather ironic), of clout chasing, etc. So, when Dream turned out to be lying, you'd expect his fans to turn on him, right? Nope, instead, they posted messages of support, because once again, he can do no wrong. If he apologises, surely that means he's sincere and it will never happen again?
On the 15th of October, it happened again.
We know the story. Let's skip to the horrific, hateful messages instead.
"thank god, never comeback again. i hope the next time i heard about you is you end up in the prison"
"Cough cough clout chaser cough cough"
"leave social media forever now. and never come back, ty"
"You Girl! Amanda.... You're such a Liar! And think about what is right and wrong because you are a STORYTELLER!!!!!! And I know Dream really is. And you have to put this on your mind! Don't try to say BAD WORDS to you...."'
Well, it sure looks like Dream didn't even have to defend himself. It's always believe the victim until its your favourite white boy YouTuber, huh? Most of these responses can be found under Amanduh's tweets. I don't really want to even get into these, they're just so full of vitriolic hate against someone, victim or not. I'm not here to discuss whether Dream actually did send inappropriate pictures to Amanduh.
But, what interests me is how Dream fans react. The parallels between these messages, accusing her of lying and clout chasing, and the accusations levied at Geospace are scarily similar. Remember, abuse follows patterns. Keep that in mind. Moreover, Dream recently did two things that garnered him more support, at least amongst his fans.
First, he posted that funny chain of messages about his cat. Everyone can relate to cats doing stupid shit, right? Right after a controversy, he pretends like nothing happened and tries to get his fans back on his side. Manipulation 101.
Second, he posted a video with Technoblade's dad, just talking with him. This video was likely filmed weeks in advance, so maybe this wasn't part of any scheme, but what's concerning is that it's only been 4 days since the scandal, and now if you search up Dream on twitter, all you get are tweets about the video, and not the accusations.
Manipulation can take on various forms, but what's most important, and the bottom line is that Dream's tactics of manipulation can be clearly seen each and every time he has a controversy. And it's not about whether the accusations are true or not, what matters equally is that Dream has used his large following as a defensive moat, as well as conveniently-timed social media posts to distract fans. If you consider yourself in any way, shape or form, a Dream fan, I beg you to sit down and really think and evaluate your priorities.
These are the posts of some fans following the accusations. Plain and simple, these display a parasocial breakup. The negative effects of parasocial relationships are everywhere, all around us. Some have tied their whole identities to people who they don't really know, and who don't know they exist.
When these people turn out to be really, really horrible, what happens? We've created a world that is so terrible to live in that we slink away to the depths of the internet to connect with strangers across the world who don't know we exist, to rely on these strangers for emotional support. When that pillow is yanked away, what's left?
Anyway, I'm really tired. Please, believe the victims, be kind to one another. Goodnight.
OK SUMMARY OF THE NICOLAS CANTU (VA for gumball watterson, leonardo the ninja turtle etc) AND DREAM (mcyt with grooming and pedophilia allegations) SITUATION
This is as of November 21st, 2023
tw pedophilia, grooming, ableism, and racism. Antisemitism is also mentioned
Basically cantu replied to a parody twitter account (Nov 15), calling dream a pedo (he knew it was a parody account and joked about it). Dream then replied to that tweet talking about a party that happened a few months ago (september is the time im hearing the most. although it could be vidcon which was in June) Cantu is 20 and Dream is 24
what happened at the party: cantu 'assaulted' him at a party* (punched and slapped him), and later dream said he punched cantu back. cantu tried walking into traffic (extremely drunk n high during a manic episode) and got into an altercation with the cops (thats how i interpret it + people i showed it to. dreams wording is rlly shoddy.) Someone called an uber (dream apparently had a "dead phone" and no contact with the driver. cantu had thrown his phone away at some point in the night.)
cantu and the driver got into an argument, and cantu asked the unknown person to start recording. imo the uber driver was being really straight and chill the whole drive so good on him. cantu was being a dick (drunk, high, manic episode), called the uber driver r*tarded (cantu is adhd autism bipolar) then called dream the f slur (cantu is pansexual).
Cantu: "I am like this because I'm adhd, autism, neurodivergent, i told you"
Dream: "I have adhd as well.."
Cantu: "right, but because you said "that's what the MASK IS," I think you're a faggot, alright, so that's why"
cantu calling dream the f slur is the thing most people are joking about. the other things he said on recording was saying the driver had down syndrome as an insult, and asking "are you jewish?" before the video cuts. but we don't know if cantu made any antisemitic comments. it ends with cantu making some "threats" towards dream (saying he was gonna fight him/paralyze him. but he would constantly contradict himself and it was very obvious he was wasted.) and then telling people to subscribe to his youtube channel (video link here(link))
there are other things in the video like cantu saying he could fight 100,000 ants, and him saying he was like a statue erected in gold and dream was just dust in the wind. cantu also compared himself to michelangelo. but those arent important other than adding further context to where cantu was at mentally
*cantu slapboxing dream in front of the hoes (cantu's words not mine) has varied from happening during the party to after depending on what tweet you're reading
the morning after that whole deal, cantu sent a long-ass apology to dream. dream then posted this apology recently to add credibility???? i guess?????????? (quote from dream's tweet: "You threatened my life, hit me, then shut the fuck up and apologized when I hit back. Grow up.")
i literally have no idea what to make of this other than cantu probably learned more about the allegations against dream at a later date. Also a lotta shit is cut out so we don't know exactly what he said
SO NOW BACK TO NOVEMBER.
dream replied to cantu saying he's not a pedo and called cantu a shitty terrible human being. claimed that cantu made multiple racist remarks (something cantu denied), talked a bit abt the Uber ride, and then mentions every popular character cantu has voice acted for.
I want to mention that NOT FUCKING ONCE during this whole situation has Dream ever referred to Nicolas by his fucking name. Only by the characters he's played.
Cantu then replied saying that "1. Yes i slapboxed you in front the hoes" 2. he was a dick to the uber driver, he was wasted, apologized, and tipped him a lot of money afterwards. also mentioning hes been cutting back on drinking "3. yes i called you fat and a predator." he also added this iconic line*:
"Hire a harvard professor to calculate why despite texting every streamer in Austin not a single one wanted to fuck you."
*for everyone who doesnt know about the popular streamer community, and isnt familiar with dream's past dramas. Dream was a minecraft speedrunner and got into some shit for cheating in his runs. So he did the normal thing and hired a harvard professor to prove he wasnt cheating 💀. When it came out that Dream was talking privately to underage fans on snapchat, he was pretty much blacklisted by the entire streaming and youtube community, aside from his close inner cirlce. A large portion of popular streamers also live in Austin, Texas.
Cantu's tweet has since been deleted, although that was recently. (Past 36 hours? its now the 21st when I’m writing this.) The parody account has also been taken down (suspended, banned, taken down by the user, idk.)
Dream then posted the video, which I linked above, to his main twitter. Nicolas Cantu hasn't been online since. (Nov 17)
And just to give context to how fucking nefarious that was, Dream's main twitter has 6 MILLION FOLLOWERS. Cantu's only had around 250-300k. (I don't know the exact number since he's gained a lot of support during this situation.)
Dream also posted screenshots claiming Cantu never tipped the uber driver. However a lot of people are saying they’re faked and his defense doesn't hold a lot of water.
OK now here is a screenshot of Dream saying he never had contact with the Uber driver:
(the rest is related to what he was replying to and isnt important for a summary)
If you don't know what makes these screenshots unreliable: the "there" in question is a conversation on another app (assuming google voice??) which Dream does not have evidence for, through either screenshots or a recording. The messages are also from yesterday when the uber drive happened months earlier in the year, and Dream said he never had contact with the driver, while apparently being the one to call it, all while having a dead phone.
Dream's defense was that he found the driver on the app, and "why would i fake the messages??" And then saying he's the victim.
"Diego" is REFERRING TO DIEGO FROM FUCKING DORA. Y'know, ONE OF THE CHARACTERS CANTU PLAYED. So saying "Diego" in this situation is such a fucking shitty thing to do.
Keep in mind Dream said Cantu threw his phone out the window. And given how inconsistent Dream's story is with his own phone, i wouldn't trust it. Especially since he apparently tipped “$1000.” Everything about tipping the uber driver is up in the air.
The internet has spent the past few days ragging on Dream for obvious reasons, with the few people adamantly defending him being a very vocal minority of diehard fans. Who have stuck with him through every single, sexual harassment and abuse allegation. It’s also been a major worry that Cantu will lose his career because of this video.
HUGE TW for pedophilia and sexual harassment towards a minor for the rest of the post. I'm only going to be showing screenshots of the tweets, not the actual footage, but it can still be very triggering:
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After this happened, more evidence of Dream sexting minors got posted by a burner account. It includes videos and photos (live video and photos, not screen-recordings/screenshots) of Dream's private snapchat sending snap's of him moaning with inappropriate messages about underage girls' bodies. Here's the burner account (link)
There is also this twitter thread that describes more about Dream’s past controversies, as well more info about Dream’s grooming allegations which have all surfaced this past year. (link)
I would like to clarify this is alleged, and I don't want to look deeper into it for hopefully obvious reasons. But I feel like it's very, very important to mention.
Dream then made this tweet as a response. He said he going to make a video responding to everything going on (a video he claims to be making for the past year), talks about the Cantu vs Dream situation, and says that this situation impacts "actual victims of abuse, physical an sexual." (Keep in mind, the wording of "actual victims" is extremely common language among sexual predators and their sympathizers to discredit victims .)
He also says the moaning videos are "revenge porn" implying it was, in fact, him in the videos.
He mentions he was also a domestic violence victim. He also says "assaulted" in reference to Cantu multiple times, and in this context it's so fucking obvious how he's trying to spin the situation so Cantu looks worse. When at this point Cantu is completely unrelated.
He makes multiple unfounded claims/lies in this tweet which you’ll see if you visit the burner. Also now claiming Cantu assaulted the Uber driver as well
And that's where we're at as of November 21st.
Overall it can be summarized by this:
"guys i’m the victim!! 😣 i’m the hurt one here!! ignore all the grooming allegations and focus on the fact that gumball said bad stuff that’s WAYYYY more important 🥺” yap yap yap (link)
extra info and things I want to mention that i couldn't fit in the post:
From my understanding this tweet is where most people are getting Cantu being bipolar from, as well as a reference Cantu made to him being manic last year
Dream switched the claim from "saying the n word and being racist" to being "ableist and antisemitic" when it was obvious the racism claim couldn't be validated.
It's possible that Dream's phone died after he called the uber, but the story just isn't lining up for me.
This interaction which happened during all this really displays how Dream contradicts himself and co-opts social issues for pity. I didn't talk about it because the situation Robbo was referring to was during TwitchCon, not the party. Simple confusion, it got smoothed out. But I think it gives context to how Dream interacts with this stuff. "You weren't even in the same state as me" vs. "I don't even know who you are." And saying Robbo calling him out for calling a girl a "whore" was "disrespecting women" by making their friend helpless
Dream has defended himself using r*tard in the past, made blatantly racist and antisemitic comments, made jokes about the KKK, as well gifting his friend trump flags "as a joke." As far as I've heard he's addressed this stuff but i feel its still important to mention
Dream has been extremely prone to instigating fights and drama with people, or at least conflating issues into much bigger things than they were. Anyone remotely familiar to his past controversies recognize this pattern of behavior
Cantu and Dream had a minor online altercation before; involving Cantu mocking Dream's merch and Dream responding, which lead to Cantu receiving threats and people joking about his dog dying of cancer.
Dream has admitted to messaging underage fans on a private snapchat, but did not admit to the grooming or pedophilia allegations.
Dream has been saying he’s “making the video” for the past year now, since the first allegations came out.
Cantu played Diego when he was 12 years old
On twitter Cantu normally mocks controversial and morally reprehensible creators. It's kind of his shtick. So as someone whose followed him on-and-off for a while the whole situation was really jarring to see
Cantu is Mexican and Dream is white. I debated mentioning this, but since Dream brought up racism i thought i should
Cantu used to be a minecraft youtuber called Junky Janker and was at least adjacent to Dream community wise
This post is not at all exhaustive and I've had to cut a lot of stuff out to make it more cohesive. Just keep that in mind. Also, if he actually releases it, this is also all before Dream posted video. I have no idea what’s happening behind the scenes (this is a PR nightmare I’m sure.) so things might change if that video is released
"yeah gender is infinite and all but you can only have 1 of 4 sexualities and if you label your sexuality in a way i deem wrong you're a bad person" genuinely how some of you sound sometimes.
someone explain to me why i cant make up a sexuality that best suits myself when i can do exactly that with gender, especially when gender and sexuality are intrinsically linked. it blows my mind that a lot of you still care what cishets will think of this.
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few terms have come to piss me off more than "traumadumping" does like having a sincere conversation with someone about personal issues in your life is not "traumadumping" shut the fuck up
obviously your twitter mutual arbitrarily dming you out of the blue to describe a detailed account of the abuse they experienced as a child is one thing but i often see the word "traumadumping" applied to things as mundane as a friend or relative telling you their girlfriend broke up with them or that they got in a bad fight with their dad and like that is not traumadumping that is simply seeking emotional consolation from a friend, which isn't exactly uncommon nor is it an unreasonable thing to desire. these people are not necessarily asking you to become their therapist or what the fuck ever, usually they are merely looking for reassurance and recognition as simple as "sorry to hear that i hope things start looking up for you soon." i understand that situations like this can still be hard and make you feel confused and helpless and unsure of exactly what you can do/say, but i just feel like it's downright cruel to act as though wanting comfort from a friend when you're going through a rough period is somehow a moral failing and the big boy thing to do in such a situation would just be to suck it up and repress lest you make your emotions someone else's problem
I refuse to continue to be defined by the reinvented binary. We failed when we started treating nonbinary as a third gender and bisexuality as the third sexuality. Every single person has a different conception of gender, sexuality, and sex. There are immeasurable genders and sexual orientations and the lack thereof. I love you if you choose labels, I love you if you don't. Just choose them for you, and I'll choose them for me.
Just like!!! Taking an advanced human sexuality course and I'm so tired of the internet era and young people who genuinely think queerness is this perfect thing that can fit into boxes. Historically we know queerness is vast and messy and amazing. Lesbians have sex with cis men sometimes. They're still lesbians even if they want to have fun sex with a guy. Some people are butch and not a woman and not a lesbian. Transgender people have always existed and been defined in thousands of ways that make no sense to you because they aren't about you. He/Him trans women can just exist. The only issues with these things are the issues we create for ourselves. Also if you're white and queer you need to think more about how white supremacy defines your attitude toward sexuality, sex, gender, and what's "allowed." I know these are things already being said but I cannot stress enough how important it is to stop trying to sanitize and organize queerness.
for gods sake please if you were involved in a riot or a violent protest or any kind of illegal direct action do NOT post about it on tumblr! especially not with pictures! you are putting yourself and your comrades at risk! if you intend to discuss your experience for the purpose of educating others, be as vague as possible about where you were and what the situation was. again, NO PICTURES!
Really starting to think that pretty much all queer discourse on this site could be avoided if people stopped treating the community as a country club when it's actually more like a union
The first split attraction model (SAM) was made in 1879 by Karl Heinrich Ulrichs and described bisexuality as well as heteroromantic homosexuality. There’s literally a whole ass wikipedia article on this. Let’s use our brains here a bit, okay?
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Critinclus is sometimes used interchangeably with radinclus, the main difference is though that critinclus try to educate and spread information on the identities that they protect, as well as always seeking information and personal experience about labels and identities, rather than “you’re valid just because”.
Critinclus supports contradictory labels, microlabels, and the freedom to self identify.
since this post got sorta popular!!! a list of things that count as being abnormal about bigender people
a: making posts like "men dni this post is for women"
b: defining things using terminology like "non-men loving non-men"
c: treating nonbinary people as if they cannot be men or women by default due to being nonbinary
d: just generally catagorizing the world into "men" and "non-men" when in fact some people are both men and women!! or men and agender!! or other categories that u would consider non-men while also being men!!
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