With Tumblr’s record of totally fucking things up anything could happen.

I just wanted to take this opportunity to thank you all for following me. Most of you have been wonderful and I’ve been lucky to have had very few hateful anons.

As much as this site can be a hell hole at times, I have met some amazing people. Some who will be friends for life. You know who you are. I thank you for your friendship. Should this ship sink then you have other contact details for me. To the mutuals that I’ve never spoken to but we have followed each other for a long time: take care of yourselves and keep doing you.

I’ve been thinking of late of deleting this blog anyway. I rarely post anything anymore and really have no need to come here. I won’t be looking elsewhere for something similar but it’s been a blast for the last 5/6 years.

I’ve been lucky enough to have found my “special someone” and she gives me everything I could ever want and more. So I do have many things to be thankful to Tumblr for. Finding treasured friends and the love of my life. I can’t even tag her anymore. So another reason to go. @softbutchdiary you’re the best 🤗😘

I’ll keep this blog active for a short time after the 17th because I’m curious to see what will happen plus I don’t want to make life easy for Tumblr. If they want to delete my content then they’ll have to do it themselves.

If that doesn’t happen then I’ll just quietly slip away.....

As promised, I took @softbutchdiary for her first ever taste of a cupcake today.

Thank you lovely Anon 🤗

We’ve certainly made the most of our first day here. I can’t tell you how wonderful it is to have this amazing woman in my arms again.

Thank you, kind Anon. That’s so lovely of you to say. I’ve said it before but I’m going to repeat myself here, I’m so lucky because @softbutchdiary Is such a wonderful woman. She is truly amazing and makes me feel so special. Saying that has made me laugh because I can hear her saying “that’s normal, baby” 😅

She has made me see and feel so many things that I never have before and made me see how fantastic “normal” is. I love being a part of her life and I’m extremely grateful that we will be spending next week together.

The “B” is for Birmingham. We will be living it up in the heady heights of Brum 😂