Hi Mrs Edge. In your comments you say that you have not allowed your husband to have sex with you for three years. Is he sad or angry about that? And don't you miss how he feels?
It seems to be hard for other men to understand that my husband gets plenty of pleasure and satisfaction making love to me with his penis locked in a tight steel tube. A lot of the men who message me ask about this and they really are confusing "having sex" or "making love" with "being inside." When we started this, my libido went up, and we made time for regular dates, usually a couple times a week. Over the last 3 years, we are actually making love more often than any time since we were first married. And every time we make love, it is good, passionate sex.
A long time ago we tried other faux cocks (sorry, I hate the terms dildo and strapon), but they felt weird nor smelt weird. A few were okay, but they didn't feel "natural" to me. Finally, Tom discovered the Vixskins. I sound like an ad, but they are very lifelike, and the best part is that they are made a lot like his own.
A lot of women don't like how faux cocks are cold. They are room temperature, but when your room is 70 and the inside of your body is 95, that's a big difference. What Tom does is, before we begin our "date", he puts it into a tall hot thermos mug of hot tap water. By the time we get into the good part where he puts it on, it's warmed up to over 110 degrees. That's warmer than body temperature, and the feeling when he enters me is... exquisite. I can't even describe it. It's so warm and filling that it's honestly better than lifelike.
You might think that he would be sad or jealous or hurt, but he loves pleasing me, and as the months went by, I've felt more free to express how much I enjoy what we do... which makes him very excited and aroused. When I'm finished, he says that he actually feels satisfied (even though he's still aroused).
We are going into our 4th year of this. He says that he still gets a funny feeling in the pit of his stomach when I tell him that he will never be inside me again. But the idea also excites him at the same time. Even better it makes him so passionate when we make love, and we both end up enjoying it.
