b l a u s i c h t

This.

That’s why I will always listen

The urge to make a group of men fall in love with me just from walking by

I promise you things will get so much better when you start processing people’s behavior as information rather than a verdict on your self-worth. If someone doesn’t text back, suddenly pulls away, whatever it may be, the solution isn’t to put on a tap dance for them and try to regain their approval. It’s not to crash out on them and try to force them to react a certain way. It’s just to take a step back, take a deep breath, and assess what this tells you. What’s this saying about them? What’s this saying about you??

May you have the courage to disappoint people who benefit from your self-abandonment.