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i am being actively bi erasured by my friend but in potentially the funniest way he could possibly be doing this: i am currently incredibly down bad for a man but he still refuses to believe that i am not a lesbian. direct quote from him: “you could marry that man and i would still be like ‘are you SURE you’re not a lesbian?’”

talked to the man i am currently down bad for and going out with and he said before i asked him out he was like “why is this lesbian hitting on me” so yeah i am not beating the allegations i guess

what they don't tell you about making friends is you gotta be a lil annoying. you gotta push past the fear of "what if they don't want to talk to me" and simply ask someone how their day is going, send a meme. you cannot connect to people if you're both just awkwardly waiting for the other to start.

i think a loving thing u can do for yourself before a solo trip is to have a line item in ur budget, as critical and untouchable as Plane Tickets and Lodging, called Stupid. this money cannot be used for anything other than bailing u out of stupid situations

sometimes the Stupid moments are obvious like “my designated in-bag phone charger™️ is missing and my phone’s dying” or “i can’t find the goddamn bus stop it’s getting really late”, but sometimes they’re small like “huh the food at this bar i wanted to go to is pretty expensive”. the temptation to do the risky but cheap thing (walking around with a dead phone, getting lost, drinking on an empty stomach) over the expensive but safe thing (buy another charger at the closest shop, call a cab, pay too much for some mid-ass chicken gyozas bc though you do want to try the signature local beer it’s been a minute since you ate anything) is mitigated. it’s fine, u can assure yourself. take it out of the Stupid Budget

as somebody personally touched by autism i really need this in my living room

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