Sweetest Sarang

When you're levelling up it might be tempting to post your progress online to share with others and people who you consider "loved ones" how much progress in life you are making. This is a terrible mistake. Misery loves company and most people who are in a path of amounting to nothing in life will not only resent you for trying to do better, they will try to actively hijack you out of your goals, sometimes with devasting consequences.

There is a reason why we out grow certain communities, certain groups and people we knew for the past, because their tiny (and often times toxic) way of being and thinking represents a cage for you to be locked in. You must learn to move on and place your future self before anyone or anything who's isn't conducive to your betterment. Furthermore, people who we may considere friends and acquaintances might hold grudges against us when we make big moves, remember: we see faces, not hearts.

I need this new decade to be a time of saying less and doing more. Let them think you're struggling, do not show them your progress, act broke, keep a specific image if you need to, but do whatever you need to do to keep your dreams and ambitions to yourself while you reach them. Keep the jealous and energy sucking vampires away from the baby you are creating with your hardwork. Once you've made it far away nobody can hold you down. Your results will do all the talking you'd ever need.

She drastically improves her appearance.

She upgrades her knowledge of etiquette and manners and improves her social skills.

She changes her environment in order to increase the chances of meeting men with money.

She makes a conscious decision to stop associating herself with men of lesser means and inferior position.

She continues climbing no matter what, because settling is never an option.

All men know that they need money to have quality women.

They reference it in rap songs. They discuss it over beers after a 12 hour day at their financial investing jobs. They whine on the internet about gold diggers. They fantasize about someday flashing their wealth to girls who previously rejected them. They over-compliment women who stay with broke dudes. They envy men who can spoil women and call it an “unfair advantage.” They suggest dinner dates to girls they find high quality and “Netflix and chill?” to girls they don’t. They complain about women only liking them for money. They complain about women only liking other men for their money. They entice women into conversations and dates with drinks, gifts, and experiences. They reference their job and/or salary when flirting.

Every man has a different relationship with the fact.