Milli.

I am a friend to all cats. Yes even the mean ones. They have their reasons.

at the department store and saw a shirt w just the word “queer” across the front. kind of feel like companies have gotten WAY too comfortable taking our words and slurs that have been used against us, to belittle and harm our community- and then selling them back to us.

Eldest daughters be like: at this point I don’t know exactly who am I protecting and from what. I just feel a crushing sense of responsibility

don't know how to tell some of y'all, that if you are unable to disagree with a woman without using misogynist language & doesn’t matter what position you're defending and championing, you are indeed a misogynist.

compassion for previous selves

Whenever I meet fundamentalist Christian families with like 7 kids I just feel this impossible-to-express surge of pain and sympathy for the mother of the family, because you know damn well that her husband pressured her into this life of just... CONSTANT creation of babies and solo caretaking for these children. The patriarchy in the evangelical church is so crippling that most of these women have never had even the slightest chance to escape the system that basically drafts them into domestic servitude. It’s so fucked up and depressing to see.

youve done it! youve boiled being in your early twenties down to its bare essentials!

Actually, life is beautiful and I have time