OSDD side blog

shout our to nonbinary folks

No actually they're loud as fuck

UP is "am I real? I dont feel real" *asks one of my friends if I'm "dreaming" (which looking back was probably just headspace) and she answers with idk*

NOT supportive to your system friends:

people need to talk about socially acceptable abuse more. it's literally why we're a system. the spanking that people refuse to believe is physical abuse when there are multiple studies showing it affects kids just as much as any other type of physical abuse. the way a parent might talk down to their kid their entire life and make them feel like they cant make any choices themself or be independent that they only notice when someone else points out how their parent(s) talk too and about them. the parentification of the oldest kid(s) when they have a single parent. the unnoticeable praise towards the "easy" child that all the other children pick up on. the neglect the "easy" child has to go through. a kid being punished for going to their parent(s) when they mess up and need help. not being taught how to clean or cook or do laundry or even how to wash certain parts. it all destroys a kid and it was all socially acceptable in my family and in the communities i grew up in.

unidentified plurality is finding a dozen of vague drafts and notes wondering what the fuck i was on about...

*Starts crying over something*

unidentified plurality is no one ever bothering to help us make the distinction between “my anger makes me do irrational things” and “I genuinely feel out of control of my actions when I am angry. I am yelling at myself internally trying to make myself stop and I physically can’t.”

When headmates are fighting in-sys but none of you look normal so it just looks like this