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Wait for someone who tells strangers about you.

Kiss like you mean it. Remember their birthday, every year. Make them feel special, even on a monday night with a forecast of rain. Befriend their Mom, she will tell you stories that no one else can. Order each other food at restaurants, just to try something new. Shower together, you may learn to love your body, by seeing the desire and passion in your partners eyes. Leave notes when you go out for the day, it will make you feel safe. Watch the Breakfast Club, and pump up your fist in the end, even if it only happens once. Care for each other when sick, soup is the easiest thing to make. Make chocolate covered strawberries in summer simply because you can. Go fishing with their Dad, and listen to what he has to say, even if he may have trouble saying it. Give each other little presents, even if its just a rose on friday the 13th. Get angry, but forgive. Love, love with all you’ve got.

Don’t think about what can happen in a month. Don’t think about what can happen in a year. Just focus on the 24 hours in front of you and do what you can to get closer to where you want to be.

If you are not ready for her to call you at 3 AM freaking out, if you cannot handle her at her worse, if you only crave for her curves and not her mind, if you cannot deal with her mood swings and if you want her just for sex stay the fuck away.

The boy who takes your virginity is only going to love you long enough for you to stay in his bed. Your first job is never the best job. But you’ll meet some of your best friends there. Sometimes things don’t go the way you expect them to at all. People are usually never who they say they are. If you love someone, you need to tell them. Nobody is good at the guessing game. If your best friends don’t like the boy you’re involving yourself with, chances are he’s bad news. If a boy starts an invitation with, “Are you home alone”/”I’ll be home alone”, say no. You are a human being, not a toy to be played with. If some boy invites you to “the backseat of his truck”, he’s a piece of shit. Tell him to fuck himself. “Sorry” doesn’t always fix what you messed up. Stop wasting time wishing you could take back what you already did. You are at fault sometimes. There’s going to be a boy that you let get away. Yes, you loved him. It’s for the best, though. Toxic people hardly ever start off toxic. It’s always nice to make new friends, but never forget who your real friends are. Never lose the friends that would answer their phone at 3am if you called Never lose sight of who you are because of a boy.