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like yeah, it’s “sexist against men” or whatever, but stop giving them a platform by replying to them. these people genuinely are harmless. there is no male oppression. this goes for literally any other minority vs their oppressors argument. oppressors cannot be oppressed for the very thing that makes them an oppressor.

this isnt even political. someone making a dumbass post on their blog is just that. stop replying to them. stop talking to them. stop interacting with them. block them and move on. who gives a shit if its cringey? no one is paying you to point out all the cringelords on the internet and you’re going to drive yourself crazy trying to do so.

incels, terfs/radfems, the "alt-right", anti-shippers, and every other extremist slactivist community is just a cesspool of the internet's most lonely, most angry filth. the world is watching you and we all hang our heads in shame to know we share a species with you morons. when all you do is spread hate and negativity, that’s all you’re ever going to get back. and that, my friend, is the fucking tea on that.

I think a lot of minors are made to feel this way, not just me. i constantly hear of situations where a predator can easily make themself the only outlet where a minor feels able to be sexual. I know a lot of adults think that more control of minors, by restricting their access to sexy blogs, will solve the problem, but I think we (adults) too often think that's true when it's not -- part of a larger social system that makes kids vulnerable to abuse by normalizing controlling behavior. (2/4)

i think there's a huge difference between a minor viewing art / reading stories posted publicly online and having a sexual interaction with an adult. I want to notice and legitimize kinds of sexuality that minors can engage in with low risk of being exploited by adults. for me, sexual de-agentifying caused sexual exploitation that I'm still dealing with a decade later. for most kids, they probably just don't get to look at sexy pictures -- but that's still bad, they're people with feelings.(3/4)

all I'm trying to say is that what seems like "playing it safe" isn't risk-free or consequence-free. minors are always welcome to follow my nsfw blogs, and i never ask anyone if they're lying about their age. i apologize for the length of this ask chain -- this is hard for me to talk about so i kinda had to get it all out. and please accept my sincerest thanks for creating the space in which i felt safe to do so. (4/4)

Hey! Always happy to hear some genuine input on the topics I touch on on this blog. Thanks for being so respectful and helping me to understand what your views are, and I can’t help but admit I’m really impressed.

The thing is, the reason I choose to “play it safe” isn’t just because minors  ‘shouldn’t be looking at porn’ (because believe you-me, I know theres 1) nothing we can do about that and 2) no harm in being curious in a safe environment), it was also because it is illegal to expose minors to pornography, from my understanding of the laws where I live. That is why so many websites require you to label your account NSFW, or simply don’t allow NSFW at all. The likelihood anyone on here would ever be punished for willingly letting a minor follow their porn blog (without any other interactions previous or post) is slim to absolute none. But it’s still illegal nonetheless.

And since, in my personal case, I post a lot of porn (and often messed up porn) that even stem from children’s shows and not just adult ones, I prefer to do all I can to keep myself safe. I don’t judge others for letting minors follow them. I just personally don’t want that to happen.

However, your messages did strike a chord with me. Even though I still prefer that minors don’t follow my porn blogs, I do see another side of the story and can sympathize. I feel as though now, I have no say in the matter, since it can be such a personal experience for someone. Ahahah

Please wait until you’re 18 to start interacting with adults in NSFW spaces. I can’t stop anyone from looking at what they want to look at (especially since I myself looked at plenty of things I wasn’t supposed to when I was a minor) but you need to protect both yourself and the creators you support. I know 18 seems forever away, but it’s really what’s best. And trust me when I say that it goes by faster than you think lol.

Although, I can almost guarantee you wouldn’t be attacked. There’s actually a pretty popular artist in the rickmorty fandom that’s a minor. I have them blocked, not because I don’t like them, but because I am personally very uncomfortable about minors in fandom since I primarily post NSFW content to my blogs. And I know others are appreciative that they are open about their age and are okay with other’s refusing to engage with them due to that fact. I’ve never really seen them get hate for their age, but then again, I can’t speak for everyone’s experiences. I’d actually encourage you not to hide your age, so that we adults can take our own measures to ensure we are safe as well. I would never knowingly expose a minor to NSFW content. And I like knowing that I’m not doing that when I post my art.

I think it’s important to not take blocking as a form of personal attack. You should really think of it as just someone shaping their experience on the internet the way they want it, and you’re just not a part of that experience. And there’s nothing wrong with that. I encourage you, young anon, to block others as well to help you create your own safe experience in fandom. When you decide to be mature enough to look at NSFW, you have to take responsibility for yourself and make sure you don’t end up hurting yourself or others.

That’s just a part of being on the internet.

I do not know how to respond or react to this, since I myself am pretty much done with shipping discourse (what with being completely impartial to discourse to begin with) but honestly, this is a fucking mess.

Why are they doing this? Is this?? Fun for them? exposing minors to the very thing they are trying to keep away from them? Where is the logic in that? Honestly every anti is a fucking moron who has no ability to recognize that other people have feelings and thoughts that might not be the same as theirs. They’re so caught up in their own little worlds that when they find someone who challenges their ideas, their first reaction is to attack.

And like.. I’m so fucking done. This is pathetic at best. Harmful at worst.

I would never in my life knowingly expose (let alone encourage exposing) a minor to pornographic content. And the very fact that an anti, someone who is supposedly all for the protection of minors, is willing to do this in the name of their shitty, self absorbed agenda is just living fucking proof that every last one of these morons is incapable of empathy.

Anyway, if you have/are a part of a fandom Discord (especially one that involves or allows any sort of “taboo” ships), PLEASE stay safe and stop accepting people into your servers.

I have catered my experience on this website to fit my interests. I am not interested in antis. Therefore, I no longer have to deal with them.

The same can be said for people who ship that ship you don’t like, sweetie.

Never mind the fact that minors make up a *fraction* of nearly all fandoms, and let’s ignore the fact that fandom spaces are NOT safe spaces and everyone should do their own duty to make their own space safe (by not following certain ppl, purposely avoiding certain tags, blacklisting, blocking, and minding their own business) but uhh, when I was a kid, I had absolutely no problem looking at fucked up shit. Lmfao. Just sayin dude. I was 12 and I knew incest and rape and underage stuff was wrong IRL and I never once felt like I didn’t belong or that I felt unsafe.

And to be honest? I probably shouldn’t have even been on the internet anyway. Especially in fandom spaces. If you’re so worried about children, maybe promote the use of content blockers rather than let children roam free on the internet. The internet is literally Fucking endless. They’re gonna find some shit they shouldn’t see.