Yield to the tickles

having two lers who instead of talking to you and directly teasing you they only talk to each other about you but it’s like… indirect teasing?

like making observations, pointing out things, noticing every little reaction

”ticklish little thing, isn’t she?”

”very. yeah seems like you’ve found a good spot”

CW: mentions of child abuse/grooming

I wanted to make this post because I have several young followers, some fresh into the community as young as 18, and I'm sure you've been preached to about being careful on the internet. Here is a huge reason why: F_Stop_Fitzgerald, aka vstopfox, aka Richard Burdett was arrested for several offenses against minors. (general TW for Toronto police report page)

He was a well-known and popular man posting on gonewildaudio several years ago. He fell off the internet and people wondered where he'd gone. FSF had MANY fans.

Those of you may know I used to be a performer on GWA, it's where I got my start. So I found out this information on that subreddit and immediately felt sick. I want to mention I am not an online victim of his, I am a victim of a different online predator who was in the GWA community (but deactivated long ago).

Are you young and feel preached to sometimes about being careful on the internet? This is why.

You don't know who is on the other side of the screen. They didn't know Fitzgerald. Predators will lie, lie, lie until you are so invested in them that you don't know what's real & what's not. If you ever find out about their crimes they can convince you it wasn't "that bad".

No one is saying you're dumb because you're young. What I am saying is they are good at finding vulnerable people. Are you a 19-year-old with depression who blogs about it? Predators see that. Are you an 18-year-old fresh to the kink community and has self-esteem issues? Predators see that.

I'm not saying you can't make friends with older people in the community (and vice versa). All I am asking is you watch out for some red flags:

Are they moving things too quickly? As in wanting to know your real name, where you live, your phone number, and what you look like within days.

If they show you a picture of themselves: do they look their age? Do not feel bad for guessing, predators will lie saying they are younger than they are to make you feel more "safe".

Do they mainly talk to other very young people? I am 32 and have made friends of all ages in this community. If someone is talking to only young people that is a bad sign.

Do they say early on you can confide your troubles with family, school, and friends with them? Please be wary of this. This can be used to manipulate you into isolation.

Do you ever want to tickle and edge your lee until they’re a begging soaked mess?   “What’s the matter tickle toy?  Do your soft feet want a break?  Been oiled and relentlessly tickled too long?  Aw but I love the noises you make, all those little moans and whimpers…  And those armpits, so smooth, my fingers and tongue glide so easily across.  So sweet and ticklish.  You taste amazing. You keep bucking these ticklish hips sweetie.  If I didn’t know better I’d think you were humping me…  Do you want to get off that bad?  Feel my touch.  How absolutely adorable.  But still… you know that you have to be a good girl and beg for it.  Beg me to touch you, tell me how ticklish you are, how you’re my toy who loves to be tickled. Leaving hickies on your thighs to match the ones on your neck that let everyone know you belong to me princess.