JaiBunny

i was on duolingo, reading a discussion, and saw a link to a free swedish grammar book! and when i checked the website, there were loads of free language books in downloadable pdf form just waiting to be put in a tumblr post. i even used proper capitalisation for the book names! but that was shortlived, as i have a nonchalant online presence to consider. 

Arabic- Grammar of Modern Standard Arabic, Colloquial Arabic (Levantine), Arabic: An Essential Grammar Cantonese- Basic Cantonese, Intermediate Cantonese Catalan- Colloquial Catalan Croatian- Colloquial Croatian Czech- Czech: An Essential Grammar Danish- Colloquial Danish Dutch- Dutch: A Comprehensive Grammar, Dutch: An Essential Grammar English- Colloquial English, English: An Essential Grammar Estonian- Colloquial Estonian French- Colloquial French, Modern French Grammar, (another) Modern French Grammar, Student Grammar: French Georgian- Georgian: A Learner’s Grammar German- Basic German, German: An Essential Grammar, Intermediate German, Modern German Grammar, (another) Modern German Grammar, German Synonyms Greek- Essential Grammar: Modern Greek Hebrew- Modern Hebrew: An Essential Grammar Hungarian- Hungarian: An Essential Grammar Icelandic- Colloquial Icelandic Irish- Basic Irish, Colloquial Irish, Intermediate Irish Italian- Basic Italian Grammar, Colloquial Italian, (another) Colloquial Italian, Intensive Italian Workbook, Modern Italian Grammar, Modern Italian Grammar Workbook Japanese- Colloquial Japanese Norwegian- Colloquial Norwegian Polish- Intermediate Polish Portuguese- Portuguese: An Essential Grammar, Portuguese of Brazil Romanian- Romanian: An Essential Grammar Russian- Colloquial Russian, Contemporary Russian, Intermediate Russian, Russian Grammar Scottish Gaelic- Colloquial Scottish Gaelic Serbian- Serbian: An Essential Grammar Swahili- Colloquial Swahili Swedish- Colloquial Swedish, Swedish: An Essential Grammar Tamil- Colloquial Tamil Thai- Thai: An Essential Grammar Turkish- Turkish: A Comprehensive Grammar Yoruba- Colloquial Yoruba

obvious disclaimer: i don’t own any of the rights etc etc to any of the above etc etc, i just thought i’d share.

and while i’m here, if you want an actual free online course to do, FutureLearn has some language ones (as well as lots of other disciplines too!) i did a few modules of their Italian For Beginners which i really had fun doing and i learnt a lot of the basics- unfortunately they don’t offer those at the moment, but do check back as they introduce new courses all the time! 

Open University offers loads of free courses, including some language ones. i haven’t done any language specific ones through OU, but i have done a few history ones which i enjoyed (although personally, i prefer the format and structure of FutureLearn, if i’m being honest). 

Open Culture seems to have lots of language courses (48 languages, to be precise), although i have never personally used their resources they have been recommended to me, and they seem to offer a lot of languages not previously covered by any of the above, so it may be worth a look! 

I became a student of luxury, reading quality literature, watching classic films and reading Town and Country and Vogue.

I stopped listening to my thoughts that said things like, “Girl, you grew up in a trailer. Who do you think you are?” It’s just needless chatter. You get to write your story from here on out.

I started fully engaging with my world and the people in it, asking questions, seeking answers and constantly putting myself out there. Scary? Yes! Thrilling?Absolument!

I placed fresh flowers in my home. Flowers are nature’s Chanel.

I visited my parents more. They always make me feel like a princess.

I sought out quality conversations that discussed the fascinating stuff of life, like death, love, politics, religion, travel, fashion and food and wine. Well, at least those things are interesting to me. Your list may look completely different.

I attended luxurious events, such as an orientation for women at Duke’s School of Business. Keep in mind, I was working as a full-time nurse and had never been in business. These events also didn’t cost me a dime other than the gas to get there. This is how you begin to call things to you, darling.

I started walking through Saks as if I belonged there, not like some freak whose eyes were going to pop out of my sockets when I saw the price of a Louisbag. Nope, just a shoulder shrug like it wasn’t the bag for me.

I became a major food snob and committed to moving my body daily. I would save up and go to the nicest restaurants.  A glass of Sauterne to wash it down? Of course! I also made moving my body a daily priority. Some days, it was a saunter; other days a full out sweat session. Just move.

I believed I deserved a luxurious life. The most giving people I know live the good life, which is how they are able to help so many others. You’ve got to clean up this thought that you don’t deserve it in order to allow luxury into your life.

I hung out in the lobbies of fine hotels and just experienced the world of luxury. They don’t charge you for lobby space, and they usually have free wi-fi. Great office space, by the way.

Tired of Saying Mutually Beneficial?

Say you’re a traditionalist. Say you want a man to be the man in the relationship - the breadwinner, the provider.

In return you’re the loving, caring, beautiful, and all-around perfect woman. You’ll care for him, love him, and always be there. But for to you always be there, to always look beautiful, and be all-around perfect your man needs to provide for you - financially, emotionally, and of course physically (🙄🙄🙄).

As a full time sugar, I have a lot of things to keep in order.

So, I thought I would share my checklists with you lovely ladies if you 

A) Wanted to know what a full time sugar does 

B) Needed a reference

or 

C) Wanted direction of some kind

So enjoy.

Daily Checklist:

Shower

Leave-in hair conditioner

Lotion

Eyebrows on point

Check websites (SA, WYP, EM, SD4M)

Respond to POTs privately (private email, phone, skype)

Watch news or read up on current events

Workout (I use the 30 Day Challenge workout app for iPhones)

Update calendars (There’s one on my apple account for devices and I keep a whiteboard calendar)

Yoga

Every Other Day Checklist 

Run with Lucky (very fat dog of mine who’s getting in shape with me)

Top coat of nails

Shave/wax

Clear out trash in room and car

Record weight (only to make sure I’m within a healthy 5 lb fluctuation range)

Update POT/SD information (details about them, what they’re offering, how much I’ve gotten from them)

Weekly Checklist

Exfoliate

Tan

Record finances (where my money is going, where it’s coming from, planned expenses)

Check on goal progress

Go out with friends at least once for sanity reasons

Weekly day off for sanity reasons

Actually clean everything that needs to be cleaned

Laundry

Plan for next week

Rock climb

Monthly Checklist

Bills paid

Correct amount of money put into savings, emergency, etc.

Check closet organization

Car check up 

Read at least 2 books (1 for pleasure, 1 for knowledge)

Lunch with sisters 

All POT/SD details updated 

Hopefully this is helpful to other SB’s, feel free to add anything or change it to your personal life if you wanted a template. Most things are general, but some (rock climbing, closet organization, sister lunch, etc) are personal.

 You guys asked for it, here it is! I’ll be editing this to organize it later.

Bettie Fatal: My lingerie line! Offered are many styles of soft bras, wired bras, panties, and bodysuits. I take inspiration by combining both soft and harsh elements to create beautiful unique pieces with a goal to flatter every body type. Every collection is specifically inspired around a theme that I love with interesting fabrics and details, currently available size XS-XL, 30-40 A-G. (Introducing a plus size line in 2017!)

Fifi Chachnil: A beautiful french brand making ultra glam girly lingerie. Unlike most lingerie stores, they also sell breathtaking clothing! I’m not very familiar with their sizing, so you would have to use a converter if you use western sizing.

Karolina Laskowska: Now this definitely isn’t a favourite brand of mine, as it isn’t quite my style. Though it’s very pricey for things like soft bras and harnesses, they have wonderful sales! (Or had…. they seem to have disappeared since the last time I checked? not sure). If you’re into strappy pieces, oriental print fabrics, and lace, I would check out this brand. Available size small-large.

Dotties Delights: A favourite brand of mine, I mean any brand that works with the wonderful Miss Mosh herself definitely has some credibility. They’re by no means cheap, running in at about 200$ a bra and 100$ for a pair of knickers (about 300$ for a bra and panty set). Their lingerie though, is surprisingly more affordable coming between about 80-150$. If you can afford this, I by all means encourage you to purchase so I can live through you (you should also buy me a set). They have a fairly large size range, but isn’t very plus sized friendly. 

What Katie Did: Definitely another favourite of mine. If you’re looking for beautiful vintage inspired pieces at an irresistible price look no further than this sob worthy brand. Their bras run between 50-70$ which is not bad at all for such beautiful products! You can get a full bra, panty, and garter set for about 150$ or less. Unreal! If you have a little money burning in your pocket check out their Gold Label collection. It runs a bit pricier but still absolutely nothing to scoff at. You can buy a whole set from that collection for about 175$. They offer sizes up to a DD!

Agent Provocateur: Now I have a bit to say about this brand. It’s become one of the leading competitors in the luxury lingerie universe, and rightfully so. They were built up on beautiful high quality products. Now unfortunately, I would be more eager to suggest another brand. They’re switched their production to asia, and though their prices have gone up, their quality (and designs in my opinion, which appear to appeal to the mass market more like victoria’s secret) have gone down. They do still carry some beautiful pieces, but it feels like their designs are less than luxurious for the most part now. They have fairly limited sizes, with some styles (usually the prettiest ones, sigh) only going up to a C or a D. Others go up to an E. 

Arabel: Very sweet, feminine, and lacey. Lots of pastel colours and soft designs. Not very plus size friendly, but you may be able to contact the owner to have something made. Their bra sizing is tricky (and on the smaller size), so you may need to use a converter. 

Almeida: They don’t have a ton of stock, but I had to add them to my list. Season after season they produce wonderful designs. Right now, it’s all pink, black, and leather (with some lace). Again they’re quite pricey but so beautiful!

Gossard: As you guys know Gossard is a brand i have nothing but good things to say about. I own 4 bras from them (unfortunately the panties and garterbelt i wanted sold out). They offer a huge range of sizes, styles, and colourways. My favourite is the Retrolution line (you will die, honestly it’s beautiful). On top of it all, their prices are beyond reasonable. Not to mention they have unbelievable sales on old seasons. They’re definitely big-boob friendly, and have ultra flattering styles. 

Bordelle: Bordelle is definitely another favourite luxury brand of mine. Super strappy, lots of elastic and hardware (wonderful if you’re in the kink community). Their sizes go from small-large, so unfortunately it’s kind of limited. If you have the means, I would absolutely recommend purchasing from them. Be wary they can be quite pricey! But totally worth it.

Journelle: Journelle is basically a distributer of various luxury lingerie brands. If you want to browse a bunch of beautiful lingerie in one convenient website La Journelle is a great place to start. With the large variety of brands that also means you have a wider variety of sizing, designs, and colours. They have something to fit everyone’s budget. 

Lascivious: Drool worthy! Lascivious consistently pumps out beautiful designer products. They also have amazing sales from previous seasons, so any budget can get excellent designs. I have nothing bad to say about this brand, honestly haha. Please check them out! Their designs are so, so beautiful.

La Perla: Not a personal favourite of mine, but a classic. They’re very expensive, but if you’re looking for more basic designs in luxury quality La Perla is a wonderful option. Be wary that only some countries can access their website, so you may have to shop their products through other shops like Nancy Meyer. 

Astuko Kudo: More latex, couture latex. Out of all the latex shops i know this one is my favourite. Atsuko Kudo leaves me speechless; literally. I’m trying to find the right way to describe them but no words i can string together does this justice. They offer sizes XS-XL, or a made to fit option. In addition to lingerie they have dresses, skirts, jackets, tops and more. All of which are to die for. Do yourself a favour and browse around.

Buttress and Snatch: I really believe this brand has something for anyone. Their designs are just too adorable for words, taking obvious influence from disney, burlesque, and kitsch. Unfortunately their sizing isn’t very generous (for most products), but if you can fit I envy the heck out of you! The bra pricing runs from about 140$-500$. 

Bluebella: Ok bluebella is so absolutely adorable, and totally affordable. You can even get bras for as low as 20$. They have a huge variety of styles, and generous sizing up to an E cup. To say the least, I really want probably about 80% of their products, and am happy to say they will actually fit me.

True & Co.: True & Co. is honestly wonderful. They even offer a quiz at the beginning of your shopping experience to help you find out what bras are best suited for you based on how your current bras fit. Most of their bras  run between 50-65$. They have lots of basics, as well as some more elegant and pretty bras. Their lingerie sets are also super pretty and really really cheap. Like 50$ for a set kind of cheap. Jump on that.

Mise En Cage: Like Journelle, they’re a market place for fine luxury lingerie like Bordelle, Tatu, Mise En Cage originals, and Kriss Soonik.

Bella Bella Boutique: Probably my favourite market for lingerie, they have unreal prices that give a total range. They stock some of my favourite brands and the most beautiful pieces so you can do all your shopping in one place. Mind you, the website isn’t much to look at, but their products are amazing.

Angela Friedman: Luxurious, beautiful, lavish pieces for beautiful ladies. Unfortunately it’s way out of my price range, but if you have some extra money kicking around and would like to give it to a small designer, Angela Friedman offers great lingerie and wonderful designs.

LaBellaFairy: For the corset loving crowd, they offer impeccable corsets. I would do just about anything for one of these. They’re ultra luxurious, beautiful, and have options from edwardian, to off the rack, to wedding pieces. 

La Lilouche: Ultra beautiful, girly, feminine pieces. If you love ruffles, satin, pastels and jewels this brand is definitely for you. They’re on the pricier side, but are still completely worth it to buy from such a talented small designer. 

Coco’s Retro Closet: Speechless! They are by far my favourite vintage inspired independent designer. They’re a smaller company, operating off etsy, but their designs are impeccable and absolutely gorgeous. This list would not be complete without them.

Sugar Lace Lingerie: Marie Antoinette would blush at these beautiful pieces. They are pastel, pretty, luxurious and ultra feminine. They currently don’t have a huge selection of products but I would encourage everyone to check out this new designer with tons of potential. 

Lonely Lingerie: Lonely lingerie is a great brand for people who, like myself, aren’t a fan of bright overbearing colours and patterns. Instead, their detail is added into beautiful lace, straps, and interesting designs. Their bras are soft or unpadded bras. Unfortunately, this bra is quite obviously for girl’s with smaller cup sizes. Their bras appear to offer little support, and only go up to a D (sorry largest chested girl). If you are a smaller cup size, this brand is a cool one to look into.

Playful Promises: Pretty designs, and gorgeous models are found here. Though I’m not usually a fan of some of the colours they use (and I really don’t like their patterned fabrics), their lingerie designs themselves are beautiful, AND they offer a larger variety of cup sizes! They have lots of open cup, soft, balconette and longline bras. I’m personally a fan of this brand and follow their releases. There’s always at least one piece I tend to fall in love with.

Marlies Dekkers: You’ve definitely seen knock off’s of their designs on cheap sites, but i encourage you to take a proper look into their line. Dekkers work can be described as simple, strappy, and sensual. I really like the shapes of bras they offer, and the slight fetish-y vibe they give off!

Panache Lingerie: D+ girls! This one’s for you. Whether you want your lingerie simple and supportive, stylish and colourful, or more of an elegant sexy, panache has a huge array of options for stylish lingerie. As a larger breasted girl myself, I find it really difficult to find super sexy bras that can actually still support me. I’ve fallen in love with this brand and plan on making an order as soon as I can.

intimissimi: So much pretty lingerie in one place. Even the name feels luxurious to say, but the prices are fabulous! No more than you’d pay on a cheap VS bra, you can get something more unique. The only issue is that their collections (in my opinion) are hit or miss. Sometimes I’ll want everything, sometimes I’ll find it painfully dull or cheap looking. Check back frequently so you don’t miss out on the good stuff.

For Love and Lemons: I have mixed feelings about this brand, mostly because it definitely feels like it caters to small girls. Offering sizes XS-L, it’s definitely leaving out larger chested ladies. There’s lots and lots of lace which I love. Everything looks super delicate and feminine. If you’re on the small size, I’d give it a little peak.

Myla: Definitely on the more expensive side, but it just screams luxury. Beautiful silks and fine laces adorn bras, panties and more. Luckily, if you aren’t willing to break the bank they do have a sale section where you can find pieces for up to 75% off. If you’re into the more elegant sexy, this brand is worth looking at.

SIL: A new favourite of mine, this brand is so worth checking out! There are tons of gorgeous retro-looking finds that make my inner pinup girl scream with excitement. They have a great stock of sizes, styles and colours, and their prices are pretty great. Not too high, but not cheap. I made my first order of two bras and a garterbelt and I am over the moon with how great I look in them. 

Chantal Thomas: I’m a big fan of this designer, every season she puts out beautiful pieces of lingerie. I have yet to purchase something for myself, but I definitely have my eye on a few pieces. Her brand is relatively easy to find and stocked at a variety of places. 

Jolidon: *heart eyes* I am never disappointed by Jolidon. I could probably pick something out of a hat and be happy with anything I got from it. They have something for everyone. Really. Whether you’re into simple elegance, luxurious laces and silks, more young and flirty styles, or simple and sensual there is literally something for any style. Just beautiful!

Aubade:  Love love love! They offer some of my favourite kinds of bras (black and white lace, in extraordinarily sexy designs) as well as bright patterns, colours and styles following the seasons. They definitely aren’t cheap but they’re a brand I personally cannot wait to add to my collection.

Von Follies (by Dita Von Teese): well…. What to say of this brand…. it’s quickly become one of my favourites. The quality is great and the designs are impeccable. It screams luxury. I can’t wait to buy even more from the lovely Dita! Be careful though, it definitely runs small in terms of sizing. If you’re between sizes, I would suggest sizing up. Be generous, because buying lingerie only to have it be too small is never fun!

Fraulein Annie: I recently stumbled across this brand and have slowly become obsessed. The colour schemes and styles are absolutely fabulous, right up my alley. Very classic, beautiful, super flattering… The next bit of money that comes by way will most definitely be going to this brand. I’m hoping to have quite a few pieces from their current collection.

Else: Lace lovers, rejoice! This brand will have you drooling. Handmade in Istanbul, they offer superb styles in fashionable fabrics and lovely colours. Whether you like soft bras, light support, or wires, they have a great variety of options. Unfortunately for my fellow bigger busted ladies, this brand is definitely geared towards smaller chested girls.

Chantelle: A brand I can personally stand behind, I would highly suggest taking a look. I sell Chantelle in high quantities at the bra shop I work at and my customers love the quality! You’re guaranteed to love your purchase. They offer lots of sizes, colours, and styles for everyone. Whether you’re looking for a great supportive bra, something conservative, something colourful, or something sexy, you’re bound to find something you will love from Chantelle.

Curvy Kate: Yay! A great brand dedicated to large breasted girls (especially girls who love colour, because they offer lots of that). They’re very well known for having one of the best strapless bras for large chested girls! 

Harlow and Fox: To be frank and honest with you, I’m happy that the lingerie industry is stepping up its game and trying to start making bras more accessible in larger sizes. What is lacking still, is beauty, fashion, and sensuality. Harlow and Fox is one of the brands trying to fix that gap. They offer sizes 30-38 DD-G and in my opinion, are a brand to look out for. They’re smaller in size, but their quality and designs are impeccable. If you like retro inspired pieces in sizes you don’t have to squish into take a peak. Mind you, they’re definitely on the pricier side, but makes up for in luxury and bridging the gap.

Sonata: I’m very surprised I haven’t added this brand to the list yet. If you have any interest in the lingerie industry whatsoever, you’ve definitely seen one of their trademark lace bodysuits floating around in a photo, and most likely drooled as a result. Though they’re known for their bodysuits, they also stock soft bras, robes, and panties.

Made by Niki: You’re probably seen her fringe bras, panties, and bodysuits (or replications of them). In addition to these pieces which are beautiful, though not very practical, she makes a surprising amounts of beautiful lingerie in other styles! I avoided looking into this brand for awhile because I’m not a fan of fringe or tassels, and I regret not doing my research sooner. Their price point is excellent and their styles to die for!

Eberjey: I came across this brand on my search this past summer for cute PJ sets and they did not disappoint. Though they sell lingerie, it’s nothing particularly special. They’re currently in their winter collection for PJs (still cute) but definitely check back come spring, that’s when they have the cutest stuff.

Paloma Casile: An amazing lingerie designer I could not leave out of this list. As a lover of black, lace, and black lace, Paloma Casile has captured my heart (and I’m sure soon, my wallet). 

FairytalesbyAF: A pastel dream! Fairytales is a side project from Angel Friedman, and I have fallen in love with it. It’s dainty, pretty, and super girly. It’s like cotton candy but you can wear it. If I could wear a bralette comfortably I would love to buy one of her sets!

Ludique: Ludique is one of my favourite brands and I am very mad I do not have enough money to buy everything they make hahaha. It’s strappy, sexy, kinky, and my king of undergarments. The layering and mix and matching possibilities are endless. I will be making many purchases from this brand in the future.

Mimi Holliday: The lingerie industry is making a lot of changes, and adding lots of new styles and ideas. I mean this in the best way possible, Mimi Holliday feels like a classic. It’s what you expect when you think of lingerie. It’s girly, it’s flirty, it’s sexy, it’s feminine, it’s beautiful. I have yet to see them release a collection I haven’t either ogled over or at the very least, appreciated. I surprisingly do not own anything from this brand yet, but will definitely be doing so soon. Check it out if you love sugar, spice, and everything nice (so to speak).

Simone Perele: I’ve grown to know this brand quite well since starting my job at the lingerie shop. They definitely aren’t the most exciting brand, and won’t make your jaw drop or cry, but they’re reliable, excellent quality, and great designs. This is for you conservative lingerie lovers who wants something pretty and good quality, but something more practical.

Edge O Beyond: One of my new favs (they happen to have a collection named after me!). They are super fashionable, super sexy… lots of lace and straps. Although they don’t have a huge depth of sizing, they do offer up to a DD-E. Definitely check them out, they have awesome sales!

b.tempt’d by Wacoal: For those of you who are a little too bored by Wacoal, their sister company offers really cute, young, sexy styles up to a 38DD/36DDD. Their styles are super limited (they only offer a few bras at a time) but what they do have is often really cute! They also have awesome prices, with no bra currently over $50.

Passionata: Not a personal favourite of mine, the quality is good but not great and they’re definitely geared to a younger/smaller cup sized audience. They’re owned by Chantelle, a more classy/classic company that offers more simple but wonderful bras. Most of their prettier bras are limited in sizing unfortunately, but if you’re in the smaller bust range and are on the hunt for something cute at a good price definitely check out this brand.

Lise Charmel: An ultra-lux brand specializing in intricate laces and soft silks. They used to be a truly wonderful brand but lately their collections seem a little less “wow”. I thought I would include them because if anything, their fit and comfort is phenomenal. When they do release a nice collection, it’s really something else. Lise Charmel is French and definitely worth keeping an eye on.

Empreinte: If anything, Empreinte is an amazing brand for someone with larger heavy breasts! The cups are so deep that often people have to go down a size. They make a few pretty pieces per collection usually, but for the most part I wouldn’t call them a favourite. 

Love Child Boudoir: You’ve without a doubt seen these beautiful harnesses floating around social media, but often without proper sourcing! They incorporate beautiful floral patches, fringes, and laces to create something totally new in the harness world. They’re definitely pricey pieces but they’re absolutely beautifully unique. 

Ludique: Without a doubt one of my absolute favourite designers. Unfortunately, their sizing is super limited, and quite pricey for a brand that doesn’t offer cup sizes (in my opinion. I wouldn’t pay for a wired bra that wasn’t sized). If you are lucky enough to fit between a small to large I would take a peak at this beautiful brand.

But in a higher class establishment, people barely blink. Some still judge of course, but no one’s craning their neck to get a look of the mystery ho, or ogling like they can’t believe I’m holding his hand over the table.

Stopping at a convenience store to get some water for a roadtrip? The girl at the counter’s tryna ask me if he’s my father. 😂

But a 4 or 5 star restaurant in the business district? It’s “hello, what can I get for the lovely couple?”