SB Academy

You should share this for people in DC and close to you!!

there’s a rapist hanging out at Boom Boom Room and probably other clubs. he does try to take dancers home. i have ZERO other information about him right now (what he looks like, what name he goes by) but i am trying to get more, for now tho, just either don’t go home with any customers, or make sure you have security and be prepared: this guy locked the girl in, threatened her, ripped her money, told her she couldn’t leave, and just sounds scary as all get out.

physical description: white male, NJ accent, originally from New Jersey, used to be a personal trainer in Miami, very tall, white hair, out of shape

lives in the Pearl District on the 15th floor of the Wyatt.

there’s a new site called bustedescorts.com that grabs information from backpage and falsely claims the phone numbers they grabbed are associated with law enforcement. my work number is on there as someone working with law enforcement to bust clients, but the only interaction i’ve had with cops my whole life is calling 911 for non-work related medical emergencies.

the site is obviously fake, because nearly every entry is identical save a few words being switched for similar words. also, on every page it’s like “click this link to get sex without being busted!” and the link takes you to a scam site. however, we all know clients get paranoid and no call no show for less.

i saw a guy today who said he found me on the site. he booked me anyway because he’d booked me before and figured it was fake, but he also said he would not have seen me if it was his first time contacting me and he saw me on that website.

what you should do: - google your number to see if it shows up on sites like this - if it does, change it. sideline is a free app that can give you a new number - remove your number from your ads. put your number on your photos instead as a text overlay. i don’t think it’s real people pulling the numbers from ads, probably a program, and i doubt the program can read images

So I feel like I’m getting used to escorting now so I thought I’d share some wisdom.  Many people are very anti-agency.  And generally speaking, I get it.  You’ll make so much more money, have more control, fewer clients, and in many cases it’s safer.  However, reading some of the posts on Tumblr, some of these girls are pretty naive and I wouldn’t advise going Indy right away unless you really know what you’re doing and have the money to invest in branding yourself.  Agencies can be a great starting point and good ones (like mine) can provide support as well.  Still, it’s important to do as much research as possible so you choose the right agency, rather than a scam, or worse, a pimp.

1.) A legit agency will not find you, you will find them.  They usually don’t advertise on Craigslist, etc and they will not contact you on any site. Find legit agencies by reading through reviews on The Erotic Review and other escort sites in your area.  Make sure they have a website that looks professional.

2.) Make sure the pictures are of actual escorts at the agency.  When searching for agencies in NYC, I found that a lot of so-called agencies all had pictures of the same 12 girls.  Huge red flag!

3.) A legit agency will not ask for nude pictures!  They may ask for lingerie pictures however.

4.) Read through their screening process for clients on their website.  They should ask for name, work info, and at least 2 references.

5.) Once you’ve applied, they should set up an interview.  Make sure it’s in a public place and prepared a list of questions.

6.) During your interview you should find out: rates, what percentage they take, if they’ve ever had any problems with law enforcement, how much you can expect to make in a night/how many clients you will see, whether they offer a driver (not a deal-breaker if you live in a big city), what costs they cover (hotel rooms, photoshoot, transportation, etc), how scheduling works, how they handle problems if they occur (like an aggressive client), where in calls typically take place (nice hotel vs. trashy motel).  Also make sure to find out how and when you get paid.  You should be paid upfront after a day of working (i.e.: you just pay out their cut).  Other pay structures may indicate more of a pimp-like set-up.

7.) Compare with other agencies in your area.  It’s best to interview with several so you can get a better idea of what is legit.  Also compare rates, but note that if it seems to good to be true it probably is.

GUYS PLEASE SIGNAL BOOST THIS!!!!! THIS SICK SOB TOOK ADVANTAGE OF ONE OF THE SBs. HE JUST POPPED UP ON MY SA SCREEN AND IM SO PISSED OFF HES ONLINE RIGHT NOW AND I WANT TO CUSS HIS ASS SMOTH THE FUCK OUT. LETS ALL PLEASE GO TO IT AND REPORT HIM. I HATE FUCKING SLIME BALLS LIKE THIS. HER STORY IS SCREEN SHOT !!!!!!

You’ve started your sugar journey, signed up on sites, upload some fire ass pictures and started messaging dudes. Now you shrinked from 1000 to about 10 and 3 want to meet. (Yea it dwindles that quick). Out of the 3 you’re really excited about 1 because he has just sold your your dream arrangement, (You should be too cheap to buy it like that site membership). Conversation is flowing and now he has asked for more pictures….

I don’t give a flying fuck shit anymore because these dudes want to be straight forwardly ruthless. I’m going to be pretty, intelligent and ruthless. I always ask “Of?” What the fuck do you need more pictures of? This has been floating around for ages. You should already have 3-5 (+ if you desire to have more) pictures on your profile. 1-2 of them should include your face. Think model portfolio. You have a headshot, a plain full body shot, a swimsuit shot (which I think should ALWAYS be a 1 piece because 2 pieces send guys into sexual overdrive) 3 dressy, 4 casual, 5 your fav activity based (riding a horse, golfing, etc). These 5 pictures tell a story of who you are while displaying YOU!

Why the fuck does he need/want 3-7 more photos of you?

Because he’s a fucking picture collector. That’s why. In case you didn’t know let me tell you this:

PICTURES DO NOT PROVE ANYTHING, EXCEPT THAT YOU HAVE SEVERAL PICTURES OF THE SAME PERSON! 

One more time for the people in the nose bleeds

PICTURES DO NOT PROVE ANYTHING, EXCEPT THAT YOU HAVE SEVERAL PICTURES OF THE SAME PERSON!

That’s how Catfish became such a huge thing. It wasn’t only that these people were pretending to be someone else, but they were actually continually using their pictures to send to the people to keep the antics going. How many times have you went on a date and asked yourself “Wtf happened to the person in the ‘recent’ picture he sent?”

I recently had a guy tell me that and I quote “ Keep an eye online…You may see yourself places you might not want to be….Oh internet, so much fun.”  It didn’t stop there. I kept replying simple “Please do not contact me anymore” and he up the antics by saying he was going to hack my phone and send out all my pictures to all the contacts in my phone. Lucky for me I have a separate heaux phone with no pictures in them and hardly save any contacts because they come and go. In the middle of the night I started receiving texts from online porn sites. That was the best he could do? Granted their are much more crazy people who will do worse these days.

Can you believe this was because I have all headless photos and refused to send him nudes? Vets/Successful SB’s will tell you that their SD did not ask them for 50 million more pictures (1-2 maybe) once off the site. They want to see you in person. I always tell guys my experience of the reason why I have headless photos before moving things off line and tell them I’d be willing to meet in a public place to show that I am the person, but I’m not sending additional photos. If they ask for more once we’ve moved things offline; I just stop replying.

If he don’t respect my boundaries in the beginning before even meeting me; he won’t respect any of the others I will have entering an arrangement.

I DO NOT COMPROMISE MY SAFETY AND NEITHER SHOULD YOU!

• Make a fist with your thumb outside, not tucked inside. If it’s tucked inside your fist, when you punch someone, you might break your thumb. The thumb goes across your fingers, not on the side.

• Don’t be like in the movies—don’t aim for the face. Face punches don’t usually stop people, and you can miss when they duck their head or break your hand on their jaw. If you want to get away quickly, or end a fight, aim for the chest, or the ribs. If you really want to do some damage, e.g., you’re being attacked, aim for the throat, which will make it hard for your attacker to breathe for a hot minute.

keep your wrist straight.

if your attacker is male, go for his junk - especially if he’s wearing loose pants. There’s no sportsmanship when it comes to assault so fuck them balls UP

punching pretty much ANYWHERE in the face is going to actually hurt you a LOT (just think - you’re punching your bones into their bones and ow). If you’re going for the face, my suggestion is to strick upwards with your palm.

see that meaty portion highlighted in red? There’s a lot of muscle and fat right there which makes it excellent for striking. Hold your hand as shown and aim for the nose or chin (though I’ve been told in extreme circumstances, doing this to the nose can be fatal but I’ve never really heard if this is true or not) and just aim upwards

other delicate areas: 

the shin (hurts like a bitch if you kick it right - also, you can hit this spot if you’re being held in a choke-hold and if your attacker has to move in order to stop you from kicking him, he’ll have to angle his body so as to expose his stomach and crotch to the wild spastic jabbings of your elbows)

the solar plexus (either jab while holding your hand in a sort of spear position or use your elbows - unless you’re super strong, your punch probably won’t wind your attacker. Your elbow or a spear hand will, however)

Originally in (most) martial arts, you hit the solar plexus because it supposedly contained an important chakra. Now we know that it actually also contains like a bunch of necessary organs that are exposed just below your ribs and is also (roughly) where your diaphragm lives so getting punched there is not pleasant.

the clavicle (from experience, getting hit in your clavicle HURTS LIKE A MOTHERFUCKER. If you strike downwards with your knuckles, the person might just cry. Like I did.)

the ear (this is probably the best place to punch besides the throat. It’s all cartilage so it probably won’t hurt you all that much and most people will be like “DUDE YOU PUNCHED ME IN THE EAR WHAT THE HELL”)

the kidneys (this is harder to hit without training but if you somehow get your attacker’s back to face you, try to hit’em in the kidneys. Again, from experience, this FUCKING HURTS. You can’t really hit the kidneys from the front with any effect but from the back it is super painful)

-Draw blood if you can, especially if you can draw it from the face or the eyes. Blood in the eyes is not just a good way to impair your attacker’s vision, it’s also a really good way to freak them out and let them know that they might be getting more than they bargained for by picking a fight with you.

-Elbows and knees are really powerful weapons. Elbows are very sharp and very strong and if you are in close-range they are often more effective than trying to throw a punch.