if it takes less than two minutes, do it now
always carry a water bottle!! youâll (obviously) drink more water but youâll also save money on buying drinks when youâre out on hot daysÂ
if you notice something you like about someone, tell them. genuine compliments are way too few and far between.Â
when you meet someone, repeat their name back to them. itâll help you remember it (bc i am the worst at zoning out and immediately forgetting someoneâs name)
give yourself a time limit to get work done. youâll do more up against a 30 minute timer than if you have all day to get something done
also: be specific with your goals. if you want it done by winter, say youâll do it one november 15. itâs easy to let time slip by.Â
no oneâs forcing your friends to hang out with you. they want to be around you. donât try to convince yourself otherwise.Â
never under estimate the power of a hot meal if youâre feeling unmotivated. take a break and make a grilled cheese dude
always keep $20 in your car for emergences
have a binder/folder to keep all your financial/important documents together. even if you donât organize them beyond that itâll make them so much easier to find when you need them
donât sleep w makeup on!! keep a travel size thing of makeup wipes by your bed for nights that youâre too exhausted to wash your face for real
if youâre studying/working and canât focus, go outside and take a walk around the building. stare at the sky for a minute. it helps.
networking: when you meet someone, put some notes in with their contact. remembering their kidsâ names will make you stand out
fold your clothes while theyâre still warm + you wonât have to iron later
get that chair out of your room. we all know your dirty clothes are sitting in it more than you are.
instead, stick some hooks on your closet door for those sorta-clean, sorta-dirty clothes that you wanna wear again
keep a running list on your phone of songs you hear that you like, books you want to read, etc
write down all your friends birthdays!!Â
if you canât sleep, try to imagine something in great detail. design your dream house. plan your wedding. whatever makes you happy + relaxed
get dressed as soon as you get up, even if you arenât going anywhere. itâs hard to feel productive in sweat pants.
if you donât ask, the answer is always no
thrift stores are super trendy lately, but they really are great for finding high-quality clothing for cheap.
donât read the comments section. especially if itâs something you actually care about.
fresh veggies go bad fast, so if you canât get to the store often have a couple frozen bags of your favs on hand!!
also, pasta is crazy cheap and easy to make into a meal. add some olive oil and those frozen veggies and bam, grown up meal in no time.
be intentional with your friendships. if you want to see someone again, set a date instead of the old âletâs get coffee sometime!â that never actually happens
libraries exist!! and theyre fantastic!!!Â
if youâre buying anything, always google â_______ couponsâ while youâre in line. you can usually find one, esp at chains!!
if itâs not something you need, put it back and sleep on it. if you want it bad enough to go back and get it a day or two later, itâs (probably) worth the money.
also, think if youâll enjoy it for the same amount of time if took to earn that money. doesnât work with everything (food, experiences), but for things like clothes/technology/home goods, it can help you save some $$$
you donât have to do something if it makes you unhappy. sure, there are times that you have to suck it up and power through, but 99% of the time you have to option to say no and get outta there.Â
be kind. seriously you hear it a lot but it is so important.Â
