PSA TO PEOPLE WHO VISIT STAGEDOORS
Ok, everyone, quick story time.
Iām currently in New York for college tours, but I managed to go to the āMean Girlsā stagedoor yesterday to try to meet anyone who would come out. Everything was fine at first, a little chaotic, but nothing terrible. After a while, Stephanie Lynn Bissonnette, an ensemble member of the show, came out to sign Playbills and meet everyone. The girl standing next to me saw her when she came down and asked, āCan I ask you a question?ā, and Stephanie, of course, said yes. I could tell she was excited to talk and not just sign things. However, the girl said āWhen is Barrett coming out?ā and āDo you know when Barrett is coming out?ā and āI just want to meet Barrett!ā, and I froze. Stephanie just said she didnāt know and kept walking, saying hi to everyone.
Now, guys. I cannot begin to explain how incredibly rude it is to ask a cast member for someone else WHILE THEY ARE TAKING TIME TO SIGN AN AUTOGRAPH, POSE FOR PICTURES, AND SAY HI JUST FOR YOU. Just think, if you were in a hit Broadway musical, you wouldnāt want people asking for someone else when youāre kind enough to come out to begin with.
Please do not be this person. Respect and appreciate each actor for the work theyāve done and everything they put out on that stage. Itās ok to be a fan. Itās ok to want to see Barrett (or any other cast member) and be excited about it!! Itās ok to hope that and want your favorite cast member to say hi to you. But please, please, please be respectful. Donāt ask other actors, crew members, or people who work on the show for other people. Many of the girls around me did also want to meet Barrett, and when she didnāt come out they were disappointed, but they were completely understanding. Actors are not obligated in any way to come out to the stagedoor. Some were annoyed, saying things like, āWe pay their bills. The least they can do is take a pictureā. When you see a show, you are paying to see the show, and if an actor comes out, thatās great!! But no one is obligated to come out, and you should be grateful for the ones who do. The performers need to protect themselves, their voices, and their bodies. You are never paying for a meet-and-greet with the people. I KNOW how much it can hurt when your favorite person doesnāt come out; trust me I KNOW how much it hurts, but getting mad isnāt going to make anything better. Meeting people at the stagedoor is a privilege.
So moral of the story is please donāt ask actors in a show for other actors, and please donāt blame the actors for not stagedooring every night. Remember that you got to see a Broadway show!! Thousands of people only dream of an opportunity like that.