but then you think, “oh shit-”

                                                                psa: this ideal of people not being allowed to post their problems on their own blogs is by far the most ridiculous. people are now unable to share their feelings afraid of loosing followers. I get that some people don’t want to know about your problems and that’s totally okay, but never EVER think it’s okay to make someone feel ASHAMED of it. If you’re having problems and you need to vent out you have EVERY RIGHT to make a post about it. someone having problems does not make them dramatic or seekers of attention. C’mon you should know better than that.                                      if someone is having a problem or crisis the last thing you should do is message them claiming how horrible it is that they dare write about their problems. People’s problems don’t effect the roleplay community…that’s a whole other thing caused by roleplay problems. Just please remember that people are humans and no matter how you deal with problems doesn’t mean others do the same thing. At least try and keep an open mind when it comes to to other people.