Stonkpilled resident of hell

I don't usually discuss such topics on my blog but you know what - I think it is important to address them from a feminist perspective for once. My personal opinion about the matter is that when you look at it objectively - giving a man a blowjob is essentially the same thing as eating a woman's pussy - both classifies as oral sex and without any outer influences or stigma, both of these things would be regarded entirely as equal.

But as we know, nothing exists in a vacuum and it is true that there is a certain power dynamic ascribed to pleasuring a man orally, unlike a woman. It is often seen as an act of submission and portrayed as a symbol of degradation in porn. Does this mean radical feminism tells you that blowjobs are inherently degrading? Well, no. Inherently they are neutral, just there to create pleasure and usually the person giving and the person receiving should have fun during that experience.

What radical feminism is supposed to do here, is to give you a new perspective and the tools to critically examine what society often labels as "average sex". Because "average sex" has long become something that is heavily influenced by porn. And because it has become something that people are already used to, it is rarely questioned anymore.

While giving a blowjob - the woman is in control, regarding depth and rhythm. With "facefucking" it is entirely different. Whereas I regard the first sexual activity as something that can be enjoyable with the right person, the second is something I cannot possibly warm up to. Alone the name of it is in such poor taste. It is not something the woman can control and the risk of her getting hurt is big.