why stag?
what are stag/fox/swan?
in 2017, tumblr user marlowelune outlined a three-way system of nonbinary presentation labels, named after animals, in this post [link]. (they also provided a separate axis of ostentation or drama in presentation, but weāre focused on the first three labels for now.) the terms were further expanded on by tumblr user nonbinary-culture, including flags and more formal definitions [link]. the three proposed terms were stag, fox, and swan. what do they mean?
stag is a gender presentation interpreting masculinity through a nonbinary lense, without necessarily conforming to cis concepts of maleness or masculinity. it taps into concepts and expressions of nonbinary strength, courage, and boldness.
fox is a gender presentation interpreting androgyny, fluidity, or mixed presentation through a nonbinary lense, without necessarily conforming to cis concepts of these termsā definition. it taps into concepts and expressions of nonbinary rebellion, transformation, and independence.
swan is a gender presentation interpreting femininity through a nonbinary lense, without necessarily conforming to cis concepts of femaleness or femininity. it taps into concepts and expressions of nonbinary beauty, softness, and grace.
these terms were always intended to be agnostic of individual sexuality or gender identity, to reject cis ideas of what it means to be masculine or feminine, and to be defined by the people who identified with them. they are not genders (except in the way thatĀ ābutchā, for example, can be used as a gender), and they are available to all nonbinary people.
sadly, these labels enjoyed a brief period of popularity, circa 2017-2018, and then seem to have largely faded into obscurity. this blog argues that they should be readopted and popularized, and is specifically aimed or centered on a stag presentation.
why use these terms?
regardless of your stance on discourse, or your agreement or disagreement with the termsā creators, stag/fox/swan labels offer nonbinary people a useful tool: concrete ways of identifying our presentation without labeling ourselves asĀ āmasculineā orĀ āfeminineā. think of them as similar to a term likeĀ ābutchā, which is usually used to express that the bearer has aĀ āmasculineā presentation that is explicitly centered in WLW identity, is not cis male, and does not conform to cis menās ideas of what it means to be masculine.Ā
there are certainly nonbinary butches, and this post isnāt to say they should all call themselves stags, it merely intends to point out that specific existing labels like butch donāt meet the needs of all nonbinary people-- not all of us are comfortable identifying in that way. these terms are important and historic, and the goal is to create the use of new terms, not supplant anything.
the only inherent limitation to stag, fox, and swan as labels is that they be used by nonbinary people. a butch nonbinary lesbian, a transmasc gay man, a transfem genderfluid person, and an unaligned agender person could all identify asĀ āstagā. and what you think stag looks like doesnāt have to be what i think it looks like.Ā the point here is just to find common ground, and shape terms for ourselves as a nonbinary community that can encompass many different individuals. this blog aims to contribute to that.













