THE NEXUS AND RUIN FAN PROBLEM.Â
If you havenât noticed(which is kinda impossible at this point) Nexus and Ruin fans donât get along. Really big stans for the characters at least. It something Iâve noticed. Ruin fans donât like Nexus fans and Nexus fans donât like Ruin fans.Â
Now what I was asking is why? Why donât they like each other? Because itâs two people who like villains! They should be getting along! So I had a few questionsâŚ. When did they start hating each other? Whatâs keeping the tension? And why is the tension being keep?Â
Now for new people who havenât seen me before. I am a Ruin fan so I did know Ruin fans perspective of things. But Nexus fans on the other hand. I know as a Ruin a fan, Ruin fans get a lot of hate from Nexus fans because âThey did it usâ.Â
Now I havenât seen this but I knew it probably had to do with Nexus. So I looked through the Nexus sams tag. And what I have found. The hold Nexus and Ruin fans dispute is because a post about âRuin VS Nexus Whoâs worse?âÂ
Now whoever had this post. I hate you. Like you know âworseâ is very different to people. AND actually making the debate hotter because you would respond to people thinking Ruinâs better or just a Ruin fan saying âRuinâs bad but I like him!â In a passive aggress way.Â
This was the start because it got Ruin and Nexus fans to go back and forth. Creating aggression. But why was this aggression created? WellâŚ. It trauma.Â
Nexus a character who had pressure to keep his family safe and fall into deep despair once someone he saw as family was killed. With no way to bring him back.Â
Ruin a character who was never loved right and everyone who got to close ended up hating him in the end. Living in fear and hatred for himself.Â
Nexus fans are Nexus fans because they relate to that pressure. Pressure to be perfect and have so many eyes on you.Â
Well Ruin fan have the same problem as Ruin. Feeling like a shadow and disappointment. Wanting to feel loved like everyone else.Â
The Nexus VS Ruin argument didnât start get because âdifferent viewsâ it got bad because at some point. It turn into a trauma comparison.Â
Not who is worse now. And when trauma start to get compared it never ends goods. Nexus fans said âNexus had it worse!â Because they had the same issues. They had a problem with everyone thinking so highly of them and would kill to not have to worry about that pressure.Â
Well Ruin fans said âRuin had it worse!â Because they had the same problems. Not feeling seen and feeling like a ghost that no one would ever love. They would kill to have someone who relied on them and thought so highly of them.Â
It wasnât about the character anymore. It was about themselves. No one wants to think that their trauma is invalid. That someone who has what you want has it worse. Creating a hate towards each other.
It was jealousy. I want what you have! Why do you hate it?Â
Creating friction between the two fans. That still last. Â
In short, they hate each other because they have what the other wants. And they just happen to express that in Ruin and NexusâŚ..