music and porn are kinda the same.

You'll see trans folk, who cannot afford to begin their transition; non binary people, who chose to present as masculine today; people so early on their self discovery journey, that they're apprehensive about expressing themselves; closeted teens, trying to test the waters and questioning teens, wanting to find themselves. All of those people can pass as a bi woman's boyfriend. Many LGBTQ+ experiences are too complex and nuanced to fit in a binary, and by extension, to spot at first glance.

Passing is a privilege. Being out is a privilege. Snap judgments have NO PLACE at Pride.

"But hey," you say, "If someone is coming to Pride, are they not out?" No. Because if you assume they're only going for their dreaded bisexual partner, so can their parents. You don't know people's stories, and they don't owe them to you.

MUSE

MATT BELLAMY IS OUT OF CONTROL

Matt Bellamy of Muse on the front cover of a Subscribers-Only issue of Q Magazine (October 2009)