localdeadguy

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It's not?

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I don't necessarily think suicide is selfish sure it can be but at the same time it isn't

It's such a complex thing and to label it as "selfish" ewww no, I get where they are coming from but if you haven't been in that head space or had a friend or lover/family go through it just idfk shut up, suicide is incredibly complex and nuanced in a way it can be selfless it can even be for safety love servivel and so much more

Depression doesn't always = suicidal it doesn't it could be a build-up of stress or a way to escape something or a way to ensure another's safety even

Sure, it can be selfish and cruel, and I'm well aware intentions mean nothing more than half the time but also people contemplating or are actively in a bad place it's not that simple other people don't factor in sometimes and it can even be a reason to commit

The first time I heard it be called selfish made me absolutely furious it made my blood boil with rage how dare you call someone's pain selfish I can't explain how angry it made me

Because most of the time people who commit have been hurt so throughly that the idea that those same people who hurt them or even met them could care that much about doing exactly what they basically pushed them to do and want is unthinkable

You know that saying "sticks and stones can break your bones but words can't hurt you" I was raised on that saying and so was my dad and people tend to believe there actions and words hold no big impact when they do they hold so much so that it can end someone's life or save them

If u suicide bait someone, and they do it the next day or whatever. You have no right to be angry at them AT ALL after all they are just doing what has been told what they believe is what people want and then to call them selfish for making them believe it is ridiculous

Before you call someone who is confiding in you or a victim selfish take a minute and listen to do your research or maby just keep that thought to yourself,

people can have it all and still went to die it's a mindset it's more then you could understand unless you have been there in that place or have experience in it if not and you have nothing decent and understanding to say don't say anything at all because your apinion on something u have no experience in is worthless

I WAS suicidal especially my last few years of high school it's the reason I dropped out before graduation.

If I hadn't, I 100% believe I would have tried to end my life, I hurt my friends because of my mental state and distanced my self during that time because I felt so unwanted and confused stressed to the point I'd break down and stay home

I have and still struggle with suicide ideation (the constant thought that "things will be better If I wasn't here" or "I'd be better off dead" "what's the point")

it's one of the things I'm working on to be better.

suicide is a temporary solution to a temporary problem

And that mental state is a parasite and almost impossible to claw out of,

The first thing to get out of it is recognizing where most of it originates from and removing yourself from the environment that's making it worse

For me a chuck of it was the stress of failure and communication in an environment I struggled to understand and was a simple solution to leave it, especially since I've been technically finishing it anyway

For others, it's not that simple, and for them pls be patient but stern. Get them outside to things they enjoy when possible it helps

Tip don't baby them be harsh but not cruel what they need is tuff love and an ear to talk to, baby them is only gonna make them feel like more of a burden and encourage the behavior be honest and stern make them understand that them hurting themselves is also hurting you

Make them understand that what they are feeling is real, but it's time to get up

"Oh hey these people have their own style of [language A's word for thing. Say, what do you call it?"

"Oh it's [language B's word for thing]."

[item] the way [culture] makes it. 

If you don’t want sliced bread, you want bread the way Eastern Indians make it you ask for Roti, not bread. Because Roti is bread THE WAY [EASTERN] INDIANS MAKE IT. Like fuck, it’s not that complicated a concept. 

Here's me trying to interpret how Danny's hazmat suit would look like if it were more realistic, based on my experience with biohazard PPE.

More fanarts for "Dance in the Dusk" by @sareyen!!!!

https://archiveofourown.org/works/64877248/chapters/166749796 I just read the new chapter and it gave me brain bugs about this master and disciple pair again. It's a fic of Shen Yuan as Shen Jiu's demonic cultivator shizun Wu Yanzi btw. PLEASE GO READ IT. IT IS SO GOOD.

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