Something that really pisses me off is how it’s 100% okay for straight couples to talk about sex and ask for sex advice and how all movies have a straight sex scene and all magazines give sex tips for straight people or talk about a straight person’s sex scandal but as soon as a gay person even barely mentions having sex last night, or even holds hands with their partner or kisses their cheek then suddenly we are being “inappropriate for children” or “shoving our gayness in people’s faces” and people react with such disgust to barely finding out that gay people can have sex too because that’s not something they want to have to think about unless they seek it out themselves (in the case of porn or fanfiction). Like the only time we aren’t being unrealistically desexualized is when we are being grossly hypersexualized. People think we’re disgusting deviants and even religious people are obsessed with our “sodomy” until we actually want to talk about it, in which case they act like straight people’s sex lives aren’t in all of our faces 24/7 and like we are asking far too much to want to actually see ourselves in sex ed classes or a goddamn lube commercial or some shit lmao.
