we all need some softness

be kind. be ridiculously, radically, endlessly kind. be a part of someone’s good day. send nice thoughts, send positive vibes, send support and love and well wishes. be kind. so often we wish for tomorrow to be a good day when we are at our lowest. some sort of sign that it gets better. be a part of that better day for someone. the world does not magically decide that it will be softer on you today, tomorrow, the next day. and sometimes it starts with a message from someone else, maybe a little bit of inner strength to pull yourself up and take a shower, maybe a bit of sunlight makes the day better. but it’s these small things, these soft things that make a day better. so be kind. don’t ever think about being anything other than kind. be a part of someone’s good day because you don’t know how desperate they might be for it. 

being soft is not weak!!! kindness is not weak!!! being sensitive is not weak!!! being sympathetic is not weak!!! you can be soft and powerful!!! you are soft and powerful and kind and deserve love!!!

look, tomorrow you will wake up and feel a bit better, a bit calmer. you are going to figure things out eventually, it dosnt have to all be done tonight. take a deep breath, relax your shoulders, and get some rest. you will manage.

february is the month of: doing your best, trusting your ability, taking time to be proud of your achievements, not being too hard on yourself, going outside your comfort zone, gaining more confidence, being optimistic, living in the present, not falling into old behaviours, and taking baby steps for a big goal.

It wasn’t meant to be. You’re not missing out. Your life has different plans for you.

Someone once said to me, “I hope the pain eases soon.” It struck me as the purest blessing that had ever been offered over my head - I hope the pain eases soon. It’s so gentle, so kind, so hopeful. So to everyone who’s hurting: I see how hard you’re trying, and I hope your pain will ease soon.

I hope you all fall in love with someone who never stops choosing you and I hope you feel at home when you look at them

find small things to do to make yourself feel better. clean something, take a shower—just wash your hands thoroughly. brush your hair, look up puppy photos on google, make yourself a cup of hot cocoa. be kind to yourself

for anyone’s heart who may be hurting, for whatever reason: i wholeheartedly pray that something beautiful finds you, that you are protected, and that this hurt will wilt with time. i hope that through this difficult situation you can remember that you are loved, that you are cared for, and that hopefully soon you will graciously pick yourself up, piece by piece, if you feel this broken. remember that acknowledging and accepting love and support from others is strength. i love you, you will be okay, im proud of you.

someone out there feels better because you exist

u know what’s really fun and in style right now? making others feel loved and valued