Soft Kitty

(Tbh idk if there is one lol)

Is kiten collared by u? How did u choose to collar her? Do fellow kink people see u diff than vanilla people do w/ur disability?

🤣🤣🤣🤣 why is this always the question I get when I say 4 years? No ring yet, but I know which ring to get. I wanted to wait to settle some debts before I popped that question.

Yes she is collared by me she got collared 1 year or so into our relationship. First full year was long distance & she was still planning her escape from an asshole.

As with most things this is a yes, and conversation. While I feel some kink people are more accepting than vanilla people they to bring in their implicit biases when it comes to my condition. It can be that they haven't unpacked how they feel society will look at them, concerns over safety. They might see me as fragile, delicate, or have concerns regarding hurting me.

Then you get the type of people that will look at a D type who is in a wheelchair & will outright make the comments like "this isn't your scene, you shouldn't be here, you're not a real Dom, I could never submit to someone in a wheelchair, there's no way anyone can take you seriously, you can't dom cause you can't toss me around/pick me up/use force." These are all direct quotes by the way. 🤣