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Moving forward in your level up journey, it helps to understand the kind of woman you are, your brand. This list isn’t to tell people to be something they’re not or to take on personalities that do not appeal to them. It is to help any of you in your journey to better understand who you are and what you want and how you want to present yourself to the world.

The Powerhouse: 

These women are the Olivia Popes and Annalise Keatings of the world. They command attention and respect the minute they step foot into the room because they put in too much work to receive anything less. They have no problem going toe to toe with anyone brave enough to step up to the plate, and they will do it all with an air of class that leaves their offender feeling incredibly small. Some refer to this type of woman as “a boss”. She has her own, and men are an afterthought. A nice little treat to indulge in or have, but unnecessary. Any man who is even considered as a serious contender needs to be on her level or higher.

“a man is not a necessity, a man is a luxury.” Cher continued, “My mom said to me, ‘You know sweetheart, one day you should settle down and marry a rich man. And I said, ‘Mom, I am a rich man.’”

The Goddess:

This woman has a sultry and serene presence that may give her an unreal or other-worldly quality about her. This woman is usually very spiritual, and the peace within her reflects on the outside as well. People flock to her because of her calming spirit. She always thinks before she speaks, and articulates herself in a way that makes others feel comfortable. Her higher vibration may even have people referring to her as angelic because she exudes positivity, love, and compassion.

I hope there are no persons that would want to think ill of me in any direction or any behavior.

- Diahann Carroll

The Sophisticate:

This woman exudes elegance, worldliness, and has an air of mystery about her. She is intelligent, charming, and kind. She knows there is a time and place for everything, and acts accordingly no matter how she personally feels. Even before she became the Duchess of Sussex, Meghan Markle was always a lowkey woman. An actress on a popular show about lawyers, yes, but her personal life was kept mostly under wraps. Even with the frenzy in the media and all of the backlash, until she and her husband distanced themselves from the royal family, she never spoke a word about the vitriol that was spouted about her. She always remained graceful and was hardly seen without a charming smile in the public eye. Of course, we can’t know what her personality is like, but I believe it’s safe to say she is kind and charming to not only catch and hold the eye of a prince, but she seemingly has the man smitten and completely wrapped around her finger to the point where he’ll do just about anything for her happiness and health.

Melanin_matryoshka, who now goes by creme_de.la_femme, was pretty well known in the hypergamous community. Still is. The thing about her that had people talking the most wasn’t just her luxurious lifestyle, but her touch of mystery as well. Hardly any information was known about her whether it was her real name or where she was from or what she did for a living. We see her life through her pictures, and through them we seem to see that she is well read and keeps herself looking very put together.

“I believe in pink. I believe that laughing is the best calorie burner. I believe in kissing, kissing a lot. I believe in being strong when everything seems to be going wrong. I believe that happy girls are the prettiest girls. I believe that tomorrow is another day and I believe in miracles.”

- Audrey Hepburn

The Ingenue:

This woman perfectly mixes her natural charm and sensuality to exude an aura that is magnetic. Her womanly sex appeal is a contrast to her girlish innocence that both confuses and intrigues her admirers. In my personal experience, I’ve noticed that Pisces women tend to have this down to a T (see Lupita Nyong’o and Rihanna). Rihanna has sex appeal but it’s paired with a go with the flow, devil-may-care attitude. Lupita also possesses that sensual charm from her physical appearance down to her voice, but there is a girlish quality about her that when paired with this, keeps people entranced. This woman is often mystical and very in tune with their emotions.

There have been rumors and rumors and rumors about my love life. That’s the one area that I really like to hold close to my heart.

Real first date questions lol