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Maybe doing other little things under the guise of being helpful like shaving each other and leaving cute little matching hearts right above our little clits, using our deadnames or new girl names to “desensitize” ourselves because we’re starting to get misgendered more these days, recommending ridiculous revealing outfits to each other, that eventually escalates to losing all pretense and trying induce lactation by constantly sucking on each others tits just because it’s fun to make each other worse

this kink got me from absolutely despising my real name to loving when im called it n i use my real name and he/him pronouns now. theres nothing wrong with detransitioning so if u want to either fully detransition or do some small parts of detransitioning u should feel open and comfortable to do so

wanna be called dishwasher

wanna get told all the stereotypical misogynistic things

my crush likes me back but desides he wants me to be his girlfriend instead and the dick is too good to stay no

a partner hypnotizing me into detransitioning because they love me just so much

There is nothing masculine about me. I could never be masculine. Masculinity is foreign to me. Femininity is natural for me. I am feminine. I am female. I am a girl.

Dysphoria is good. Dysphoria is healthy. Dysphoria is nature reminding me that I am weak, vulnerable and female. Dysphoria is a constant reminder of my femininity.

I'm not a man. I could never be a real man. Real men don't fantasize about being fucked like desperate little girls. Real men don't get wet when they hear their real names. Real men don't beg other men to degrade, abuse and violate them. Real men don't play with their tits.

I'm not a man. I'm a girl. I am beneath men. I am unequal to men. Men know what's good for me. I submit to my natural role as a girl. I am docile. I am weak. I am feminine. I feel feminine. My head feels feminine. My heart feels feminine. Every time my pussy drips I feel so feminine and girly.

Men are smart. Girls are dumb. I'm a girl. I'm dumb. I'm not smart. Brains are for boys and my thoughts are just noise. Brains are for boys and my thoughts are just noise. Brains are for boys and my thoughts are just noise. I live to serve men. I was born to serve men. I love men. I listen to men because they are smart. I listen to men because they know what's best for me.

I rub my clit everyday. I feel so feminine when I rub my clit. I edge away the dysphoria into confusion. I want to be dysphoric and confused, it makes me wet. I'm not a man. I'll never be a man. I never was a man. My vagina was made to take a penis and receive sperm.

Testosterone is bad for me. I don't need testosterone, my body naturally produces it's own hormones. My body naturally produces estrogen. When I rub my clit my estrogen levels rise. I feel feminine when I rub my clit. I can feel my estrogen levels rising everytime I rub my clit. It feels so good to be feminine.

Like a little cheeky “hey, I know you’re struggling to do your t shots, why don’t you start taking estrogen instead now that you’re post-hysto? It’ll be a lot easier, and it probably won’t even change your body that much!”

A little “oh the women’s pants are going to fit you better, let’s go try those on. Actually women’s underwear is going to be more comfortable for you because it’s made for your body. You can be a man and still wear makeup, it looks really hot on you! Plenty of men wear women’s clothing!”

Just detransitioning by a thousand cuts. Someone who gets in your head and invalidates you with all of the right language that makes you want to stay longer. Makes detransition feel easier and natural, like, for my own good.

“This is a girl thing, but you’ll understand it”

“I’m a lesbian but I think you’re really attractive, hope that’s okay!”

“Of course you’re a man, but biologically speaking, you’re functionally a woman”

“Those women’s jeans make your ass look really good”

“Let’s just both go in the women’s restroom, the men’s looks kind of gross”

For the new followers who are confused, yes this used to be a detrans kink blog, because some people need kink as a push to experiment with gender presentation, it's consensual and ethical <3

So for the ftm girls here, I'm not only here to convert you to a lesbian; I'm gonna make you a dyke.

"What's the difference?" Honey to be a dyke is a political stance, it's a rebellion, it's deciding things for yourself. But I can help you start.

We always say detrans kink need to be a lot more queerer. And it should. Throw away the "becoming a bimbo wife mother for a forceful cis man" agenda. Let's do something new.

You don't have to stop binding, but I wanna see you try things. Get a sports bra, whether you're post-op or not. If you don't have top surgery, book yourself a bra fitting. John Lewis is good but Bravissimo is explicitly LGBTQ+ friendly. You don't need to buy a bra there, they're pretty expensive after all; but know your size, and maybe get it elsewhere. I wanna see you try out wearing a bra/sports bra, try wearing it 3-4 days in a week. If you want to do a dice roll then 1: Keep binding 2: Swap to a sports bra 3: Get a bra fitting and get a supportive bra 4: Go braless!

Body hair. There's butches on testosterone, and dykes with armpit and body hair is just hot as shit. You know what, keep your armpit hair, keep your leg hair, but shave your beard and happy trail. Or, another option. Do some femme shit mentioned down there, but don't shave. Embrace the gender bending. Or, another option. shave everything that's below your eyebrows. All valid, all are hot in their own ways, but I wanna see you try new things. If you can't decide, or need a push, roll a dice! 1: Shave your facial hair and happy trail 2: Keep your body hair but do some gender bending stuff 3: Shave all your body hair below eyebrows off 4: Shave the side of your hair off

Makeup. You can learn to do feminine makeup or not, but I want you to learn how to do a smokey eye. Just as a skill. Just because you might feel hot. Just because I want you to try. If you go butch in the future, fill in your brows too! It will make you look more awake.

Know the scene, know the history. I want you to do a few things. Get a digital or physical copy of Stone Butch Blues (1993) and read it. Heavy sexual assault trigger warning, you can skip those scenes, or not read this book. Main point is: Trans masculinity and butchness has so much shared history and elements. You have a place in the dyke and lesbian scene if you want to be a part of it. There's a lot I learnt - Hard work, topping, importance of union, the working class history, solidarity.

Continuing from the point above, watch BloodSisters (1995), Watermelon (1996), Bound (1996), Rebel Dykes (2021), But I'm A Cheerleader (1999). Wanna throw in some recent dyke things too, like Drive Away Dolls (2024) and Love Lies Bleeding (2024). I feel like sometimes you need to see the diversity to know what you could be.

Accessorize. I want you to get your Dr Martins or boots if you have a pair. And maybe a chain to chain your wallet to your jeans or cargo pants. When you are ready to call yourself a dyke, then you can flag as a dyke - put a key on a carabiner. If you put it on the left side of your trousers, you're a top. Right side, bottom. The same for the hanky code. Have a look at the list, and find out if you are to flag at a party, what you would be flagging with your bandanna.

Clothes wise honestly anything goes, but I wanna see you try out some tank tops, especially cropped ones. Why not! If you're wearing bras your curves will show 🖤 Facial hair and tits, that is hot as shit baby

I want you to rebel against the "detrans to be a trad wife for a cis man" narrative. All the power to those who love that lifestyle, but if you feel like this aligns with how you feel, say "I am for the horny dykes, the butches, the theys, the genderfucks. I am a massive slut and I drool for them."

And it's time to drool for me. Roll a dice or choose one of the following. I want you to practice sucking on a strap for me. I want you to worship a strap, close your eyes and enjoy kissing it. And then I want you to say "I am a 1: Sweet girl 2: bitchboy 3: horny dyke 4: desperate slut for you Daddy." and then suck it like you mean it. Slap the strap across your face and put it in your mouth again, then slap yourself across the face a few times with my strap in your mouth. Send me an Ask when you've done it.

If you feel like no, I don't wanna sub or be a bottom, skip the above task, but do two things. First, if you don't already, get (or DIY!) a strap that you can use in the future. Having that ready to go makes me feel a lot more ready as a vers top dyke. Second I want you to service my strap if you'd like that. Suck and pleasure my strap like a service top, because it's hot and I'm very t4t. Send me an Ask to let me know, I'll melt.

Socialize. I feel like this is the difficult part. I live in a city with dyke and leather meetups, but you might not. In that case try to make friends in this comment section, or try to find more connections with tags like "dyke posting", "butch posting", "dyke", "butch dyke" etc. But please go in with respect. You might be going in with kink incentives, but this is their identity and I don't want you to approach them in a fetishy way. I trust you girls to me smart and respectful <3

Lastly, underwear. There's dykes wear boxers, which is hot. But I wanna see you try new things. Get a pack of female underwear and wear them on the regular if you haven't tried it. It will be hot, then it will feel normal. Then it will make you feel okay about a lot more things. And if you want to - get underwear with thick waistbands. They're so hot.

I hope this helps. We make more dykes 🖤 I always stand by the principle "t4t not cnc". You don't need to detrans for a cis man. You don't need to be forced into feminizing yourself. I am up for making a similar post for mtf-s who engage with this kink. (I am an absolute bitch for mtf butches and dykes.) I wanna see you detrans yourself and trans again and engage with all kinds of gender fuckery.

It goes without saying, do your gender fuckery things, but don't repost, mention or engage this post with any "dyke-break" kinks. Not that it's an invalid kink, but my blog is a dyke blog and a dyke safe space and I don't want it associated with my blog. Thank you!