jay

do you guys ever like forget you’re interested in something until you start engaging with it again and you go “oh wait i’m like crazy crazy about this yeah”

the wisdom ive learnt is that becoming part of a friend group 1) takes a long time and 2) involves a lot of feeling awkward and left out at first. there’s nothing terrible about this but if you grew up chronically lonely or have any kind of trauma relating to social isolation this likely feels Really Wrong and activates danger signals. but both fortunately and unfortunately it’s just how becoming close to new people works most of the time

another thing that was not intuitive to me as someone who grew up an autistic loner: basically everyone on the planet is starved for connection all the time and almost everything people do is an attempt to reach out to another. most seemingly illogical interactions and behaviours can be explained by this. you have to take as many of these invitations as you can. even if you're wrong you still attempted to bring more warmth into the world

god's weakest soldier is scrolling tumblr instead of being productive or participating in any of their hobbies

I have mastered the art of being hard on myself for things I would tell anyone else are not that deep

dating to marry? i’m dating to bind our souls together eternally so we'll find each other lifetime after lifetime without an end.

🐾when he lets me be a man hater without getting offended🍓🍰

*noticing you’re getting an erection* dude your genital is becoming a heckin chonkerino

You ever try to take time to just do nothing and relax, but the time you took was time taken from something else, so you feel bad for not doing the other things and then you feel bad for feeling bad because you're not able to relax or enjoy yourself in the time you took because you feel bad about it, so while making the choice to either do something useful and productive or to simply rest and recharge, you instead chose neither, and wasted an entire day by having the most anxious and stressful time doing fucking nothing and getting nothing done.

girl who started a load on laundry: I’m gonna change my life I’m gonna clean my whole house I’m gonna go on a walk