a mess of unfinished thoughts..♕

Please stop apologizing for having a heart that feels everything so deeply. It's a gift, wear it proudly.

Even though it took me years to heal. I deserve to celebrate my small and slow winnings in life. Way to go self. ✨🌻

Please stop attacking the past versions of you. They were doing their best at the time and they got you here. It’s amazing how much progress you’ve made and how much you’ve grown but please don’t think your past self lacked worth in any way.

Also, even if you weren’t doing your best, past you still deserves compassion.

Thank you for seeing me as good and whole when the world made me feel like I was bad and broken.

It’s okay to have limits about what you can give to others. In fact, it’s so important and necessary. Please learn your limits and respect your own boundaries.

the sexual tension between a 20something year old and having emotional stability

Kala ko ako lang. Emz! Haha

i don’t have the healthiest coping methods but i haven’t killed myself yet so where’s my fucking medal

A love language is understanding your partners trauma.

And never repeating it for their sanity 🥺

Being pursued and prayed for is better than being constantly flex on social media yet little did you know they're already cheating or slowly falling out of love.

repeat after me: trauma does not make people good or kind. trauma makes people scared and angry and sick and wounded.

I just wanna be happy. Not confused, not hurt, not stressed, just happy.