Shi'a Islam

The Messenger of Allah (ص) Mishkat ul-Anwar fi Ghurar il-Akhbar h. 1373

Focusing on Quran, Quran Commentaries like Al-Mizan and Enlightening Commentary of the Holy Quran, and Biographies of the Infallibles. We advise this because it is better to have a good foundation before delving into the details of why some hadiths are considered invalid and others are not. We are not hadith scientists, so we recommend you looking at the hadith collections and literature on al-islam.org.

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https://www.al-islam.org/enlightening-commentary-light-holy-quran-vol-19/surah-nabaa-chapter-78#surah-nabaa-verses-1-5

It's not necessarily fate, because we have a choice in the matter. We are the ones that talk to, learn about and make the final decision about who we are going to marry. Fate would remove choice from the decision. Think of it more as a kindred spirit. When you've met the person or spirit that you're supposed to marry, it will be easy. You won't have to fight for it. It's not going to be all peaches and roses but it won't be so hard that you want to give up. As for the ayas mentioned, they do not actually refer to soulmates but to Adam and Eve. In the Name of Allah, the Beneficent, the Merciful1."O' people! be in awe of your Lord, Who created you from a single soul and from it created its mate and spread from them (the couple) many men and women. And be in awe of Allah through Whom you demand one of another, as well as any ties of kinship; Surely Allah is watching over you."The first verse of this Surah addresses all human beings. The content of this verse is a message to mankind as a whole. It invites them to piety and being in awe of Allah. It says:"O' people! be in awe of your Lord..."Then, to introduce the Lord Who is aware of all deeds of human beings, it points to one of His attributes which is the origin of the unity of human race. It says:"... Who created you from a single soul ..."The phrase 'a single soul' refers to the first human being whom the Qur'an introduces as 'Adam', the father of all human beings. The application of the term /bani'adam/ 'the children of 'Adam' in the Qur'an refers to this meaning, too.Then, in the next sentence, it says:"…And from it created its mate ...This means that He created Adam's wife from his nature, not from the limbs of his body. Basing on a tradition from Imam Baqir (as) the creation of Eve from one of the ribs of Adam has intensely been rejected, and it has been stipulated that Eve was created from the rest of Adam's clay.In the next verse, it continues saying:"... and spread from them (the couple) many men and women..."This idea leads to the comprehension that the multiplying of the race of the children of Adam has been performed only through Adam and his wife, and no other creature has had any hand in it.Then, for the sake of the importance that piety has in the structure of the foundation of a safe and sound society, again it invites people to observing piety. It advises people to be in awe of Allah, the One Who is Great in their view, so that when they want to demand something from others, they apply His Name. It says:"... And be in awe of Allah through Whom you demand one of another..."And it adds that:"... as well as any ties of kinship..."Mentioning this subject here is a sign of an extraordinary importance that the Qur'an maintains for strengthening blood-kinship.At the end of the verse, it says:"... Surely Allah is watching over you."That is, He sees all your deeds and intentions and, by the way, He protects you against unpleasant adventures

You cannot bring forth a Quranic text and than assume this is what it says. This is speaking about the primary knowledge, in the infinite undisclosed knowledge of God there lies a soul out there that God knows about but than there is our choice, we tend to use our own nafs and conclusion in picking our spouse. When our parents choose for example a spouse, you cannot say that that is ‘written’ it is actually considered disbelief for you to ascribe to God that He forced you to marry. It is a long discussion for sure but isn’t as simple as the verse aforementioned.

Dear Anon, it is difficult to explain Qadr in just a couple of sentences. It needs research and throughout understanding.

If the question is in regard to soulmates in marriage, then, no. There is no ‘this was written for you to marry fulan and fulan’. There is two types of knowledge, God’s infinite knowledge that He alone possesses than there's the secondary knowledge in the tablet. This knowledge changes due to our actions. Our spouse/soulmate is our choice and we choose. The common Arab phrase, ‘Qism wa Naseeb’, is flawed and against our beliefs and doctrine.

When it comes to our traditions, we don’t analyze everything by saying ‘Sahih, Dh’aeef, etc.’ Since the matn (content) is just as important. In terms of this report you would need to provide more information, the Arabic text would help and the chain would help us analyze. But, in essence most of these traditions that speak of signs are either weak or weak in content.

Ziayarat of Sayeda Fatimah Zahra (س)

Daily Tasbihat; Call on Me, I Answer You p. 409

Imam Ja’far al-Sadiq (ع) Haqqul Yaqeen p. 508