hey it’s me, shameeater
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What’s this blog? (updated 02/22/26)
Kinks! Sexy stuff! Weird shit! Humiliation! Desperation!! Depravity!!! Don’t say I didn’t warn you!
I’m also a person! A proud disabled, queer, transmasc person of color! Call me shameeater or SE or mr shame or something skeleton based cause its funny! Ask questions if you've got em but be respectful! My pronouns are they/them! I’ve survived DV and homelessness! I’m mentally ill! I’m physically ill! I feel very strongly about not treating other people terribly and doing well by our siblings! Being educated and considerate! It’s all connected and oh my dear let me tell you how!
I make art and write - and very rarely post IRL content I want to make to make more, and I want to create videos and voice acting someday as a big future goal. Along with more (anon) pictures. Because I’m hawt and seggsy and it’s fun!
I will make a tag list someday for easier navigation! I struggle with consistent tagging :p this is a goal for me!
I can have long stretches of absence Due to personal life things and suffering from chronic illness and disability. I’m around rn! I have drafts and whatnot. I have to take extra time because existing is very hard. This blog is for my fun and enrichment first and foremost.
Getting Business Out of The Way First - DNIs and Whys
If you are a minor and/or I do not see an age on your blog
I don’t want minors interacting with my account at all, unless it’s specifically an informational post. Strictly only then, and I will specify that this is a NSFW blog and not to continue onto my account. This is my own boundary, and for MY safety as well as your own. Do not continue reading this if you are not an adult. Just scoot, will you?
NSFT stuff below
(Hey hey hey - I get it if you just skim the titles i also have adhd and I’m trying to make it so the keynotes are there, just read the rest if you need any clarification or have question or whatnot)
If you wanna DM or Send An Ask - you can! But be cool.
No “hru” or “do this thing for me” or “lemme do this to you” Don’t ‘oui oui marie’ me, man. Asks and DMs are open with the trust that you’ll be respectful.
Send stuff that you think we’ll both find hot! Concepts, questions, curiosity. Or just chatting very casually. Fun stuff. I’m open to RP. I won’t send you pictures of shit or info about me that’s personal or fetishistic don’t ask. By sending me an anonymous ask, you are interacting with this blog and acknowledging you are an adult.
MAPS, ZOO, TERFs, SWERFs, bigots of any kind
I will happily block and report where it’s due.
Community Infighting
Special mention - along with kink community, I will also not tolerate LGBTQIA+ or BIPOC community members attacking each other in or outside other groups - this is a safe space.
You are my siblings, even if our experiences are different, those differences should be seen and heard without defensiveness and without additional hatred, approached with compassion and understanding. I see you and I love you.
Oh yeah, fuck! Fuck gen-ai!
Support artists! Support humans! I’ve always felt this way even before and after having issues with a cai addiction, but support real artists, do NOT use AI and claim it as your original work (it’s not), be mindful of the horrific environmental and psychological impact of your clanker gooning please. For fuckssake there’s nothing good about any of this shit.
ED blogs + fatphobia + SH blogs
I don’t want to see my or anyone else’s content used for th1nspo or ED reasons. I don’t want to see someone demonizing being fat and being horrible to fat and chubby people. I have kinks but again, respecting other people is number one. I don’t want to be exposed to your or someone else’s s3lf h@rm. This is an adult blog rooted in exploring fantasies, being healthy, being creative, exploring, and also honestly having fun. I have my own triggers.
Detrans centered blogs
I respect other trans people’s business and fantasies and kinks! But it can make me uncomfortable, so I may block. Nothing personal, you do you boo. I will report accordingly if it is genuine, hate and/or uses people’s images, bodies, and content non-consensually.
I want to put an extra fuck you in particular to zionists!
Get the fuck out of my space you nazi fucks! this jew says Free Palestine and may isntreal fall in our lifetime 🙏🙏🙏
IMPORTANT: Fiction vs reality / “anti and proship” business:
“B-b-but I thought you were cool and didn’t support THAT evil nasty kink!” If you don’t click on that post explaining how I feel then just. Listen. You gotta stop insisting fiction must cease to exist and people must be punished for it because you find a concept and someone’s enjoyment of a concept uncomfortable and therefore have deemed another human being to be morally repugnant, wrong, disgusting, predatory by nature. Stop weaponizing your discomfort. Stop enacting and propagating what is, guess what, all shit from the conservative + white supremacist playbook.
Truly reflect on how much energy you spent ousting someone because you got uncomfy and the nothing else happened until you made it into a thing. Get therapy like you tell to them to do... you know... those victims of abuse who are actually IN therapy and are exploring things in a safe fictional space. Or more simply if you really fuck with this purist bullshit DNI just block me don’t waste both of our time.
Anyway TL;DR freaks only but only freaks that aren’t terrible people.
Now for fun stuff!!! YAYY !!
My tastes, likes, loves, kinks, etc:
Not all of these have been posted in this blog, and those that have been I try to keep properly tagged, but I’m just keeping it open! Not all of these are entirely or mainly sexual either.
WORK IN PROGRESS, OVERHAUL IN PROGRESS SORRY
from here down I’m working on this part, everything above is updated!
Humiliation
(hence the name) Probably the core of what arouses me the most is loss of power and control. I’m a diehard sadist who’s main taste is shame and embarrassment related to the body being the main betrayer.
Age dynamics / age gaps placeholder
Dubcon/Noncon/CNC - comes with the territory of being a ravenous sadist focused on humiliation
Office and semi formal clothing <3 especially if it’s also paired with- Overly tight clothing yummm <3 <3dilfs/milfs/every ILF can get it babie
Clothing
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Bellies
Everything to do with bellies pretty much. I can think of fewer things that DON’T get me going around bellies, but my favorites are:
Upset, tortured, overstuffed, inflated bellies Coincides with the next one!
Desperation / Loss of bodily control Bloated bellies grumbling loudly and straining against clothes, bladders too full, backed up bowels triggered by ‘something they ate’,
Pregnancy All of the pregs! Everyone pregnant!! Every gender! Any equipment! Any humanoid! Either the carrier or getting carried!
Breeding / birth denial / labor Another kind of desperation/loss of bodily control that makes me wet :3
Pear-Shapes! I love boobs but I have a hard time with dysphoria sometimes so bottom heavy figures are my faaaavorite for characters and subjects of any gender. (It’s kind of just a very exagerrated version of my own body minus my chest). I love focus on someone having a big ass, round belly, thick thighs, wide hips, (if they have one) a plump pussy, and a small/flat chest to really highlight how swollen their belly and lower half is. Either from expansion or pregnancy or weight gain or just cause they’re shaped like that. waaaa
Stomach gurgles and bubbles I love hearing and reading about gurgling upset stomachs, bubbly/wet farts, and verbal / whimpering subjects, the more embarrassing the better
HUGE audio based arousal I love hearing and reading about gurgling upset stomachs, bubbly/wet farts, and verbal / whimpering subjects, the more embarrassing the better
Desperation (omo, messing, scat, gas, sickness, etc)
Loss of bodily control in general
Weight gain! Chubbiness! Fat! Rotundness! Fat people hiii!!
Stretchmarks <3
Size difference (realistic and no) and every kind of dynamic paired with it
Macro/micro
Preg of all kinds with all genders and offspring (no stolen content though)
Breeding / birth denial / labor
Sick fics!
Hurt/comfort
Body horror / horror in general
Gore (FICTIONAL ONLY)
Monsters / Inhumans / Aliens / Androids / Creatures
Intoxication (fictionally with drugs+alcohol, IRL with THC)
Vore and hard vore (typically unwilling)
Exploring age regression, both kink and as a mechanism
Appraisal / loving objectification / body worship
med kink
I really like different exploring ideas and situations and dynamics even if it doesn’t get me off!
I’m not really into:
I’m happy to explore what I like and don’t like, so not everything here is a limit, but it has to be done a certain way or specifically be paired with one of my beloved kinks/concepts for me to be interested or not repelled...
Hunger / starvation I don’t really have feelings on it either way - I can be interested in ‘horror hunger / unnatural’ leading to stuffing but just realistic starving being the main draw isn’t really to my personal taste
Real and Graphic Scat Visuals I stick to drawings, text, audio, and clothed messing pretty much
Real coprophagia (I can tolerate fictional stuff but it’s very situational and I’m not into it on it’s own)
Toilet Usage Not really into it. The sounds and visuals are kind of just... technically my but without my kink at all, you know? Not appealing to me. Unless it’s extremely heightened or paired with a hyper or desperation situation to introduce my Things back in there.
Graphic Vomit Smut writing is fine, not super into art with it graphically shown, more into emesis than vomit itself
Pure whump / dead dove With no reprieve for an innocent or non-cartoonish character - it can make me sad! :’0 Some of the time I explore and have interest in really intense situations, but it doesn’t tend to be my default. Approach with caution!
Please note that sadly I am not a furry Tragically, I default towards humans and humanoid over furry - I don’t really mind something with my kinks or whatever that just happens to have furry characters, but I’m deeply prefer otherwise. Regrettable considering furries make the best fetish content / porn :[
Hard no’s:
Sexualization of non-consenting people Sharing and posting non-consenting people for fetish/sexual reasons, including hidden cams, pregnancy fetish blogs, creepshots, and unapproved photo editing. REAL PEOPLE, not fictional characters, not written things, not drawings, (although I’m iffy on characters with the likeness of real people)
Raceplay Other BIPOC, explore fantasy how you want ! Is not for me. I will block if you’re posting this as a Yt person, though. See above. I can tell the difference.
Feral / domestic animals Meaning straight up realistically depicted dogs, horses, etc. It’s fiction so I’m not judging but it does make me very uncomfortable and I want to see it
Specific enough to grant warning, I don’t really like things depicting interspecies pregnancy including feral/domestic animals. I may explore things including that kind of pregnancy but again, sexual depictions of the animals is a no for me.
Detrans Again! I am into trans pregnancy and humiliation scenarios around that but not focusing on detrans - the idea of being stripped of one’s preferred gender is very personally discomforting, and again, I’d rather detrans blogs not interact with my blog in most situations. You do you though!
Sometimes just not into seeing certain characters here If it comes up I’ll say so lol, probably won’t though!
L0li/sh0ta art Again, it’s fiction so do what you want IDC, but visual depictions are very uncomfortable for me personally. I do like playing with ages and dynamics in characters but mentally I tend to default to visualizing myself / adult figures in these scenarios acting out these scenes!
ACTUAL GORE - see hard no number one I don’t want to see fucking real dead bodies and gruesome injuries being posted to spank it to. Don’t post that shit you sick fuck.
Sexualization of current events, racial groups, fascists, etc I have a lot of tags blocked on R34 about that. I find it’s important to acknowledge we’re not in a place systemically and interpersonally where we’re provided a general and thorough education and understanding of these situations - therefore I don’t want to see porn about horrible things that are happening, horrible people, and marginalized people that are suffering both, because it disgusts me, and I find it too similar/inseparable to propaganda, stereotypes, and rape culture. Concepts can be explored, real people and their pain is to be respected.
AI generated ANYTHING I will throw you into the sun.
Other Warnings
- Along with the above mentioned kinks, again, I’ve got a formal non-con warning here. Again, I am into those scenes and fantasies, so take caution.
- I’m into horror and that’s included in some scenarios and things probably, so there's that too. I’ll try to keep everything properly tagged and CW’d.
Anything else?
I’m disabled in a plethora of different ways, so suffice to say my memory is pretty shit and my mind is foggy, so if I forget to tag something I do apologize. If I make you uncomfortable, I most likely won’t remember if I’ve been soft-blocked, so please feel free to just hard block.
If I reblog or post something that seems ill-informed (I doubt I will, I try my best to pay attention if I can, but things can still slip through), I beg of you, feel free to send me a message about it so I can make a note to keep it in my leaky brain and react accordingly.
Anyway, this is a kink centered blog, and I’m just chilling out here for the most part. I love these communities, I love uncensored and unsanitized queer and kink content, and am just enjoying my interests and other people’s works in it. Connecting with other freaks is always nice. I like being nice. I like when other people are nice.
If you’ve read this far and have the same silly goofy interests, feel free to scroll the archive, the tags, even shoot me a message and we can discuss 🤷 and maybe possibly RP
(only if we’re mutuals or we’ve talked about fantasy stuff prior, do not just come out and be pointedly RP’ing and sexual in my DMs, asks or comments)
Anyone can send asks though, and I love it! Just be mindful!
Anyway yeah, thanks
