sedJammer

I’ve been having a lot of fun with a journal dedicated to selfshipping, and I saw a couple people saying they wouldn’t know what to do with their own version, so here are some ideas for a selfship journal and what you could include!

write down how you met your fictional other

sticker page of things that remind you of your f/o! (you can start them mostly blank and add to them in the future if you don’t have a big sticker collection)

collage of images of your f/o

if you enjoy art, draw your f/o and doodle some things that you associate with them

playlists for your f/o: if one song is especially meaningful, you could write it out in full

make a list of things you love about your f/o

make a list of things you would like to do with your f/o

poetry or quotes that remind you of your selfship

print out a shipping template, glue it in and fill it out!

list of favourite quotes/moments from your f/o

collect a colour palette for your f/o

use the notebook as a journal, but write from the perspective of your self-insert in their universe

design some fankids and what they would be like

brainstorm what relationships you have with other characters in your f/o’s universe (friends, enemies, family members)

if you have dreams about your f/os, write them down! or you can write down what you would like to dream about, and try to manifest it

letters to your f/o (or from your f/o)

use an OC template to write details about your self-inserts

wedding plans, if applicable

use the journal to explore some AUs for your ship

review the media your f/o is from (do you like it? do you recommend it? what do you think are the themes and how well are they explored?)

collect photos of fashion you think your f/o or your s/is would wear

use the journal to vent to your f/os and write down what you think they would say to comfort you

list the things that remind you of your f/o: smells, sounds, activities, locations, colours, foods, anything at all

if you ever gets stuck, you can always use a selfship ask game and fill out all your answers in the journal as well!

REBLOG IF YOUR ACCOUNT IS A TRANSFEM SAFE SPACE.

We need to show these higher ups how much we truly value them.

Edit: Changed the wording of the post and decided to put in a reminder that this extends to refusing to believe in bogus call-out posts for frankly minuscule thinks such as being horny or kinky, especially if the target is presenting in an ‘unconventional’ manner, (therians, etc.) this double standard where it is seen as ‘degenerate’ for transfemmes to merely exist in certain spaces, yet everyone else is fine to do so is disgusting and part of the reason for the backlash.