My ex had the balls to say I was an evil bitch for leaving him before he left for 2 weeks at the army.
I don’t care what you had to do after. You mentally and emotionally abused me for months. You don’t get to call me evil.
I did nothing wrong. I finally did something right.
He proceeded to talk about his pain and the happy face he carved into his thigh to remind him to be happy. To go that deep into manipulating me is unreal. He really blamed self harm on me, and told me that I did it to him, and that it was my fault; And of course I felt guilty but, I shouldn’t.
He never considered my feelings. In the one year that we were together, I begged him to stop hurting me and he always blew it off. He knew I’d stay, until I didn’t. I will not aplogize for freeing myself and I am not the villain for doing so. I removed myself from a horrible situation and I’m proud for doing so.
I took away his control and that is the biggest power move on my part and I don’t regret a second of it, because in the end i know I’m not heartless, I know I’m not evil; I’m strong and he can’t stand it.
If a person mistreats you, over and over again, they’re the asshole, not you. Even though they’ll try to gas light you into believing it was your fault, it’s not. Know in your heart, that you’re a good person and you deserve more.
They’re heartless parasites and they only care about themselves. They don’t deserve you.
