To every girl and woman out there: trust your intuituion, your instinct, your gut feeling. Listen to your body. Listen to your own feelings and reactions. People might tell you that you overreact, that you are paranoid, that you let earlier experiences cloud your judgment, especially if you’ve been abused, used, manipulated and betrayed before. But believe me: if you feel unsafe, if you cry at night, if it hurts, if you have to chase a feeling of safety or validation, if you feel afraid, if something just feels generally wrong, something is wrong. Your body knows, and deep down you do to. If it was right it would feel right. If it was safe it would feel safe. Believe in yourself, and be the one to save yourself.