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a little observation post because everyone seems to obsess over their big three, but honestly, it's usually the placements no one talks about that are ruling the entire chart.

• your moon sign is doing more work than your sun ever has. like… your sun is who you are on paper, but your moon is who you are at 1am when no one's watching in your room and what you're doing EXACTLY. the way you self-soothe, the way you panic, the foods you crave when you're sad, it's all moon. people will date your sun and then break up with your moon hehe.

• your mercury runs your relationships more than your venus does, and nobody talks about this. you can have the sweetest venus in the world but if your mercury can't communicate it, it doesn't land. the way you text, the way you argue, the way you go quiet, that's the placement people actually experience. though the REASON why you broke up, could be your venus' and mercury's fault.

• your rising sign is literally your face. like the energy people pick up in the first three seconds before you've said anything. it's also why two people with the same sun sign can feel completely different in a room. though I can always spot a sagittarius rising in a room.

• your chart ruler (the planet that rules your rising) is honestly the main character of your chart and most people don't even know which one is theirs. if your rising is taurus, your venus is running everything. if your rising is scorpio, your mars and pluto are basically co-piloting your life. it explains so much once you find it. and once you'll figure it out (or ask me to do it), focus on those exact planets more, they literally rule your entire chart to begin with.

• your saturn placement is the thing you're quietly insecure about but also the thing you'll become weirdly excellent at by your thirties. it's the area of life where you feel behind for years and then suddenly everyone's asking you for advice about it.

• your moon's house placement tells you where you emotionally live. like literally, 4th house moons need a home base, 7th house moons need a person, 11th house moons need their friends, 12th house moons need to disappear for a week every so often. it's not personality, it's emotional infrastructure.

• your venus sign is less about who you love and more about how you want to be loved. and most people are out here giving their partners venus-in-their-own-sign love instead of venus-in-their-partner's-sign love, which is why everyone feels slightly unseen idk.

• your mars is the placement that exposes you the fastest. how you flirt, how you fight, how you chase, how you give up. you can fake every other placement in your chart but your mars shows up the second you want something. ESPECIALLY if it rules your chart.

• your 12th house placements are the things you don't even know you're doing. they're the patterns other people notice about you before you do. it's the most honest part of your chart and also the part you have the least access to, which is so cruel of the universe honestly!

• and your north node? that's the placement that feels uncomfortable on purpose. it's the version of you that you're growing into, which is why it feels like wearing someone else's clothes for most of your twenties.

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honestly half the people i read for come in asking about their sun sign and leave realizing their entire life makes sense because of one placement they'd never heard of ♡

reading slots are open btw, birth charts, synastry, composite and the price list is in my pinned for anyone who wants to dig through their own chart first!

aries hesitation was seen as a failure. in your house the air was always moving and if you weren't the first to grab what you needed you simply did not get it. you learned early on that being soft or taking a breath was a dangerous way to become invisible. today you feel a wave of shame whenever you aren't in a rush or whenever you need someone to lead the way for a minute. you are still trying to prove you are strong enough to stay in a room that ended years ago.

taurus neediness was the ultimate taboo. you grew up in a place where being stable was the only way to be respected so you learned to swallow your cravings and act like you were already full. you were told that being a person with complicated feelings was an inconvenience to the peace. now you find it physically painful to ask for help or to show that you are actually struggling because you are still terrified of being a burden to a family that never saw the real you.

gemini sadness was treated like a lack of intelligence. in your childhood home you had to talk your way around the heavy moods because nobody had the patience for a silence that didn't have a punchline. you learned to turn your heart into a series of interesting facts and jokes just to keep everyone listening. today you feel like a fraud whenever you have nothing to say and you use noise as a way to outrun the version of yourself that just wants to sit in the dark and cry.

cancer anger was a crime against the collective. you were the emotional sponge for people who forgot to check if you were okay so you learned to hide your own teeth just to keep the house from tilting. you were taught that your only value was in how well you could care for everyone else. now you feel a visceral guilt whenever you want something for yourself or whenever you feel like saying no. you are still looking for the permission to finally be the one who gets nurtured.

leo being ordinary was the biggest disappointment. you were either the trophy child or the one who had to stay bright so the house wouldnt look at its own shadows. you learned that love was a performance and that your worth was tied to how much pride you could bring to the table. today you are exhausted from having to be impressive all the time and you are terrified that if you stop being a sun people will realize you are just a person and they will finally look away.

virgo messiness was an invitation for a lecture. you grew up in a series of small corrections and a feeling that anything out of place was a sign of a character flaw. you learned to fix things before anyone noticed they were broken and to hide your mistakes like they were sins. as an adult you find it impossible to relax because your own inner judge is always pointing out the one thing you missed. you are still trying to polish a childhood that was never going to be perfect.

libra selfishness was the worst thing you could be called. you were raised to be the bridge and the peacemaker often at the expense of your own skin. you learned to read the air and adjust your own needs before the conflict even started. today you find it terrifying to have a loud opinion or to stand on your own two feet because you think your only job is to provide harmony for others. you have forgotten how to say i am because you spent your life saying we.

scorpio vulnerability was a weapon that could be used against you. you grew up in a house of unsaid things and intense power dynamics where you learned to read the subtext long before you could read a book. you were taught that trust was a trap and that showing your hand was a death sentence for your safety. today you carry a heavy suspicion of anyone who is too nice and you keep your heart behind a thousand locked doors because you are still waiting for the secrets to come out.

sagittarius melancholy was seen as a lack of perspective. your family had zero patience for heavy moods or small town thinking and you were encouraged to be the explorer or the optimist even when you were hurting. you learned to use the exit sign as a form of medicine and to laugh at the abyss just to stay sane. now you find yourself running away from anything that feels too real or too heavy because you are still trying to find a horizon wide enough to drown out your own heart.

capricorn childhood was a luxury you couldnt afford. you became the adult at six years old and you have been tired ever since. your house was a place of rules and reputation and you learned that love was something you earned through sweat and responsibility. you don't know how to play because you were taught that every minute needs to have a purpose. today you find it impossible to rest because you think your only value is in how much you can build and how little you can need.

aquarius belonging was a form of suffocation. you were the different one and you learned early on that trying to fit in was a waste of your time. you found safety in your detachment and your logic because the emotional climate of your house felt alien to you. as an adult you have a hard time letting people close enough to touch your spirit. you are so used to being the outsider that you have built a sanctuary out of your own solitude and you are terrified that intimacy will turn into a cage.

This is a series where we slowly unfold your journey with your future spouse. Each part reveals a different layer.

From healing to meeting to love to the life you build together they are written piece by piece, in ways you don’t always see.

Go through it at your own pace. Take what resonates and let the rest flow.

Part 1 - What needs to happen or be healed before meeting your future spouse?

Part 2 - Pick a card: When will you meet your future spouse?

Part 3 - How will you meet your future spouse?

Part 4 - Your future spouse's first impression of you

Part 5- Your first impression of your future spouse

Part 6 - What Career Will Your Future Spouse Have?

Part 7 - Your first date with your future spouse

Part 8 - Your love trope with your future spouse

Part 9 - Your dating era with your future spouse

Part 10a - Your future husband's aesthetics

Part 10b - Your future wife's aesthetics

Also if you’d like a more personalized reading based on your own question, you can DM me or use the 👉 booking form linked here 👈. I’d love to read for you ✨

Why pick one… when you can have the whole story?

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I don’t know if any of my followers know this but I have gone through a ton of weight loss through my years and I still have a few pounds to go until I finally get my goal body. I was actually just thinking and thought maybe astrology can help us with weight loss and our health; so I’ll be sharing my research. *I am not a professional nutritionist or any of that sort of stuff* I didn’t want to make this tooooo long so here is some other tips based on moon signs: here All quoted information is from Sunita Chabra, an astrologist who has the love for Science. Source here You can also check your 6th house*

Aries: Aries, Aries rising, Mars dominant, or 1st house dominant: Motivation won’t be an issue with you, in fact your ultimate ego will be what will keep you going. The only thing that keeps you from your goal is wanting to make things fast giving you the idea of taking weight-loss drugs or something. Just rely on your spirit to get you there, no short-cuts! Because Aries is so uplifting and energetic, you will most likely prefer hot and spicy-food, which is good because it speeds up the metabolism.

“Eating healthy is simple if you keep it that way: simple. Start making permanent lifestyle changes this way you wouldn’t have to diet to lose weight. You should drink plenty of liquids to cool your body system and to flush out toxins from your body. Eat more of salads and cool drinks. Drinking too many of alcoholic drinks should be avoided. Eat food at regular intervals and do not skip meals and crash dieting should best be avoided. Lightly steamed vegetables, whole grain breads, plain yogurt, skimmed buttermilk, eggs, carrots and vegetable juice, which is alkaline in nature, are good for Mars ruled people. Start your day with protein, eggs, low fat cheese or soy milk. Go for fresher produce than settling for tinned or refrigerated stock. Also, avoid hot and spicy Indian curries. Do plenty of cardio exercises. Aries are full of energy and enthusiasm, jogging, treadmill, cycling, brisk walking or games such as tennis, squash, any high energy exercise is suggested.”

Taurus: Taurus, Taurus rising, Venus dominant, or 2nd house dominant: It might be tough for the Taurus to finally commit to slim down but once committed, they’ll treat it like a job. Endurance sports will lead to good results, in fact, the Venusian sign is inclined to become a vegetarian.

“The general liking is for sweet and sour, so tinge of lemon juice or drop of honey over natural fruits and salads may satiate inner longings. Include high fiber and low calorie food diet like beans, cabbage, spinach, lettuce and fruits. High fiber diet will help to cover your hunger pangs and also give a feeling of satisfied stomach that is very important for you. A meal should contain a bowl of lentils, salad with lemon and honey dressing (sweet and sour liking!), and fruits like apricots, oranges and grapes. Drink plenty of water. You need to cut down on your sugar intake and avoid rich cakes, pastries, and also to be avoided too much of tinned juices. However, if you have strong craving for sweets use honey instead of sugar and pour it over fresh cut fruits (natural sourness of fruits combined with sweetness of honey). Exercise suggestion: 1) Strength exercises. 2) Yoga can help Taurus lose weight whether they are 15 or 50 years old. Important Tip: Taurus is easygoing and has weakness for rich and tasty food. You should eat your meals slowly without gulping or swallowing. Take your time while eating, as this will give time for stomach to send the message “of being full” to your brain.”

Gemini: Gemini, Gemini rising, Mercury dominant, or 3rd house dominant: Very likely to follow a strict diet without having to think about it so much; which makes it very easy for the Gemini. Since the Gemini is experimental, various diets or numerous workouts/sports will definitely help them out.

“Since Gemini is an intellectual sign hence protein rich foods like cheese, milk, soya beans, eggs etc. will prove to be great for promoting power packed energy and building muscle mass. Including more of protein rich food in diet may help lose weight as protein takes longer to digest and suppresses hunger pangs. Onions and garlic can be used freely in food. Boiled mashed potatoes with garlic and parsley, mushrooms and if non-vegetarian lean fish are good sources of protein and good for your nervous and body system. Food to avoid: 1) Avoid late night snacks. 2) You need to avoid burgers, pizzas, and white bread to be replaced instead by whole grain or multigrain bread. Butter,  fried potatoes and white bread is strict no-no. Generally, this dual sign people like to do multi-tasking so eating while watching TV, reading books, etc should be avoided.Exercises to be followed: 1) Crunches. 2) Nervous disorders can affect your digestive system. Meditation and yoga not only helps to sooth frayed nerves but also helps to reduce/maintain weight. Important Tip: Gemini rules over nerves hence the addictive and habit forming like drinking excess of tea, coffee and smoking is not good for body system and not recommended if you want to lose weight.” 

Cancer: Cancer, Cancer rising, Moon dominant, or 4th house dominant: It’ll be hard for Cancer to make the effort, but should find the way to be comfortable with it! Lots of motivation will be needed, tell a friend or a parent to support you through it, because you can do it! In the end you can definitely just pamper yourself with tea mixed with honey to cut out from stress.

“Cancer people have weakness for good food and many Cancer ruled people are found to be good cooks as well. Your diet generally lacks calcium, which is so essential for bones and teeth. So, including more of dairy or soy products will be a wise choice. You may also have liking for rice. Now, to lose weight this is one food item I don’t recommend for you but natural weakness will not keep you away from it too hence follow simple formula avoid eating rice at night and also eat small portions of it or maybe substitute rice with brown rice or better still Quinoa (a new grain in the market). Too much salt may cause your body to hold on to water and your body may swell as result, so reduce the intake of salt (remember you are a water sign).Food to avoid: Starchy foods like potatoes, breads, etc. should be replaced with green leafy vegetables. Avoid alcohols and wine. Drink more of soups and substitute caffeine drinks teas/coffees with herbal tea to ward off coughs and colds, which you naturally are prone to.Exercises to be followed: 1) Cancers usually are fascinated by water. Swimming is not only enjoyable but also a good body exercise especially in summers. 2) Strength training exercises for muscles even if you use light weights. Important Tip:Those who have sweet tooth can have fruits topped with honey instead. You should avoid eating curd at night. Banana in fruits I don’t recommend for you if you want to lose weight.” 

Leo: Leo, Leo rising, Sun dominant, or 5th house dominant: Stick a picture of a model right on your refrigerator to prevent you from craving any sweets! In order to get there it’ll be a bit tricky but of course by testing your pride, as a fighter you’ll fight your way to your goals if you test yourself. Have someone cook you meals or even get a personal trainer to praise you after your hard workouts. Buying stylish gym clothes can definitely help you out, Leo.

“Anyone, who has little knowledge or have some interest in astrology may know, nuts especially almonds is associated with Sun that rules over your sign. Almonds and in general most nuts are known for being healthy snack food and are also high in omegas, and does tow jobs, one, fill you up and second, help you keep healthy. Your diet may include more of complex carbohydrates or more of grilled Vegetables/Meat. You may take surplus of fresh fruits like strawberries, oranges, avocado or kiwi.  Cool salads and juices are also good for your system.Food to avoid: Avoid rich spicy and fried food. Cooking oil that you use may also make a difference. Sun rules over your sign so natural oils derived from plants (Sun naturally gives energy to plants) as opposed to animal derived oils are more suitable for you.  In short, olive oil, almond, sunflower oil better for you than lard, butter, ghee etc for making food. Leos are prone to heart problems hence should avoid butter, ghee and red meat.Exercises suggested: 1) Leos should work out with heart strengthening aerobic exercises. 2) You at times tend to overtax your body. So exercise, eat, work and sleep should be the mantra to follow. Important Tip: Since you have excess of bile or heat component in your body system it is best to neutralize this with more of alkaline food, which will counteract the acidic level present in your stomach.”

Virgo: Virgo, Virgo rising, Mercury dominant, or 6th house dominant: It’ll be helpful for Virgo to get motivated by READING and RESEARCHING about weight-loss. They’ll want to know what they’re getting themselves into and what is most likely to work then what isn’t. You might want to check out organic produce and keep your worries a bit down a notch, you might be overthinking that you’ll never lose weight, etc and that just isn’t good. Patience and motivation is key.

“Virgo’s, you should include more green colored vegetables, whole grains and green salads in your diet. Herbal tea, lots of green vegetables, sprouted beans sprinkled with black pepper and tangy spices, fruit or vegetable juice. Pass up fried foods for baked foods. You may like to eat anything grown from the fields. Fruits, cocktails and drinks are also much to your liking and taste.       Food to avoid: If, you are not losing weight, one of the most common reason could be that the healthy food you are eating (Virgo’s naturally are health conscious as I wrote earlier) might not be as healthy as it appears. Sometimes eating food that comes branded as ‘DIET’ may contain not be exactly diet but instead be loaded with preservatives, sugar, sodium etc. So, avoid eating or drinking ‘diet’ labeled food. Focus more on eating natural organic foods instead. Avoid or reduce the intake of alcoholic drinks.Exercises suggested: 1) Virgos are perfectionists by nature and also are born worriers. Basic stretching exercises will not only help lose weight but will also loosen body tension. You may practice power yoga. Power yoga may help lose weight and also you to unwind and recharge your batteries. 2) Better still enroll your name in some nearby gym. Important Tip: I recommend meditation and also head massage for you. This helps you calm your frayed nerves and anxiety level and when mind is calm you will feel and also look good.” 

Libra: Libra, Libra rising, Venus dominant, or 7th house dominant: Balance is key! Never follow the latest trends, just because it worked for Christina Aguilera doesn’t mean it can work for you. Get out there and get that hot body! Praise, motivation, and affection from your loved ones will definitely help you. Go run with a friend or something, go out more and get your body moving!

“For Librans the food should look appetizing and should be served with style and elegance. This sign is represented by a weighing balance hence should eat well balanced diet. Chapattis (whole wheat bread) with green vegetables, cottage cheese flavored with exotic herbs, pumpkins, mostly yellow colored foods and fruits like for instance, bananas, Papaya , etc. Oh!…how can I forget Librans have sweet tooth, the main pitfall of any diet. Please, Librans put blinders on your eyes when you reach dessert section of a buffet table. Whatever may be the main menu the dessert is probably always special for you. It is not easy to suppress your inherent nature, you may include lots of fruits and top it with honey or may be use Sugar free Stevia for making cakes, ice creams, pudding or any sweet of your choice or may be once a while treat yourself but portion control is important.Food to avoid: 1) Eat low carbohydrate diet, meaning cut down on your breads, chapattis, wraps etc.  and if this is a challenge for you then at least avoid eating carbohydrates at night. 2) Your immunological system can be affected by bad eating habits. Librans are ruled by kidneys hence they should drink lots of water or any other liquids to flush out toxins from their body. Limit the intake of salt, it may cause water retention and also not good for your blood pressure. Exercise suggested:  1) Crunches mainly targeting abdominals. 2) Librans can make great sportsperson. Librans like to be graceful in everything they do hence running or jogging that will make them sweat is probably not their idea of harmony. Ballet, dancing and exercising or swimming is something they can take up. Style is your middle name and if money is not a consideration you would love to pamper yourself to best of health spa treatments. Important Tip: When a body system has a craving for certain food items it is difficult to resist hence mix a very small scoop of ice cream or any sweet of your choice with big servings of fruits. Finely chopped fresh fruits topped with jaggery can be a good substitute for dessert.”

Scorpio: Scorpio, Scorpio rising, Pluto dominant, or 8th house dominant: You might be quite the extremist while dieting and such, take a chill pill. It’s not good nor healthy to lose more than 2-3 pounds each week or even a day! Don’t over-do yourself Scorpio, the world isn’t ending tomorrow.

“You are ruled by red planet-Mars, well then select food which is naturally red. Pomegranate in fruit is a good choice but how about using beetroot in salads. Now, how am I supposed to convince you to eat red colored beetroot, I recommend try roasting or boiling them, which makes them taste starchy like potatoes and brings delicious sweetness and nutty flavor. Try using beetroot and reap slimming effects. You may also include red tomatoes, red cherries and oranges in your salad or in your dessert. Mars ruled people may have liking for chilies and exotic food over a bland but nutritious food. Good  news here for you, if eaten in moderation chilies may aid in losing weight (that’s what food studies indicate). 2) Drink at least 7-8 glasses of water a day.Food to avoid: You have more of ‘pitta tattava’ so use chilies but in moderation. Restrict eating too much of non-vegetarian food in your daily meals and if you must then pair it with vegetarian salads and it will do your body system wonders. At least one meal of the day should be either only salads or only fruits and nothing else.Exercises suggested:  1) Passionate Scorpios are easily bored by any one exercise routine hence they need to keep swapping fitness routine. Combine cardio exercises with stretching exercises. Reproductive organs and bladder rule this zodiac sign. 2) All your feelings and thoughts are locked inside hence you are prone to tensions and anxieties. You should meditation to calm your nerves. Important Tip: Since there is more of pitta temperament and also being the eighth sign of the zodiac your kidneys are weak hence go slow on non-vegetarian food, dry fruits and nuts.” 

Sagittarius: Sagittarius, Sagittarius rising, Jupiter dominant, or 9th house dominant: Join a really tough sport, you like to challenge yourself and that can be good when it comes to exercise. As exciting as you are, make a bet on diets with a friend. Or try Thai, or Japanese cuisines; they’re light and healthy for the body.

“Carrots are nutritional powerhouse and planet Jupiter, your ruling planet has affinity with carrots. No, you don’t have to be a rabbit to like them they are one of the best plant foods for a combination of Vitamins (A and C), magnesium and fiber (remember, I have studied science as my main subject before destiny made me an astrologer). You can take carrot juice, eat raw, roast, toss into salads or steam with little seasoning. 2) Okay enough about carrots…your sign rules lower body portion so you should also include more of protein foods like cheese, eggs, soya, whole grains, dal or lentils, milk etc which are great for building muscle mass.Food to avoid: Red meat and sausages should be taken in very restricted quantities. Also you should avoid frozen, packaged and preserved foods. Fresh food should be the natural choice to eat.Exercises suggested: 1) This zodiac sign is ruled by thighs and hips. Sagittarius born has tendency to put on weight on the lower portion of their body especially as they grow older. The Archer’s have strong passion for adventure. You love to be free and independent physically and mentally. Horse riding, rock-climbing etc are probably your favorite sports but alas!… unless one lives in village or country side it is difficult to follow these sports, so choose instead walking, running jogging or step and slide exercises, it would help lose kilos and keep your body toned. You need to be regular with your physical training exercises. 2) Squats target lower body probably best exercise to slim lower body. Important Tip: Since you’re a sign of expansion hence eat five or six smaller meals rather than the traditional big three meals a day.” 

Capricorn: Capricorn, Capricorn rising, Saturn dominant, or 10th house dominant: It’d be a typical Capricorn way to start planning out your meals and exercises for the entire month. It’s no game for a Capricorn and they’ll definitely do it in a professional manner. Plan e v e r y t h i n g.

“Eat whole food rather than processed food meaning for instance, eat whole raw apple instead of juice, use multigrain atta or flour, etc. The main part of your meal should constitute fruits and vegetables. Since, you have ‘vaat tattava’ avoid eating more of raw salads but instead go for steamed or baked vegetables. 2) Also, maintain a diary of what you ate throughout the day, for hard working diligent Capricorns this is important for others it may sound silly and as boring it may seem keep track of every little morsel of what you eat, this way you can cut or add certain type of foods or control portions in your diet.Food to avoid: Anyone, who has little knowledge or have some interest in astrology may know, salt is associated with planet Saturn, the planet that rules over you. So, cut down on the intake of salt in your diet and you may be pleasantly surprised. Skipping meals or crash dieting is not viable for you, it may make you ravenously hungry, and you are much more inclined to over eat at your next meal!!Exercises suggested: 1) This zodiac sign is ruled by body skeleton system. Regular, yes ‘regular’ exercises are must. If possible, every hour try to stretch your legs or increase your daily activity routine.2) Go for power yoga, squats, cardio or simple walking. Important Tip: Capricorn ruled people generally have pale complexion due to excessive bile component. Exercises and eating a healthy and early dinner may give pleasing results.” 

Aquarius: Aquarius, Aquarius rising, Uranus dominant, or 11th house dominant: It might not be that hard for you Aquarius, to lose weight. You love gaining wisdom in many fields, and can find yourself be very experimental. It’d be typical of you to try very weird diets to see if they’ve worked or not. 

“This zodiac sign is ruled by calves and ankles. Include more of green leafy vegetables in your diet, there is a reason why ‘Popeye’ (remember cartoon film) ate spinach. Green leafy vegetables are full of nutrients that help feed body and build muscles. You may include more of dry nuts like almonds, walnuts etc. Food is not just for filling your stomach but also for feeding your brain. 2) Since Aquarius like to eat with ‘what and when-I-like’ eating attitude using olive oil as preferred cooking oil is suggested. Skimmed milk, whole meal bread with lettuce, tomato, egg slices, mashed potatoes, fruit or vegetable salad, black grapes, apples, cherries, avocado will help to increase your energy level.  Food to avoid: Aquarius by temperament is light eater and has less interest in food. Mostly, they rely on low calories meals and throughout the day they won’t eat substantial meals and depends mostly on snacks. They are very fond of coffee and tea, however excessive tea or coffee and also carbonated beverages should also be avoided.Exercises suggested: 1) Joining a health club or gym suits Aquarians. You will generally be the first ones to catch on to the latest fitness craze. You will give it a try at least once. Most of the health problems you face are probably connected with the circulatory system. Pain and swelling in the ankles or calves due to poor circulatory system. 2) Lower leg workouts (hopping, skipping, and jumping) are great for the calves, knees and some are even good for thighs. Important Tip: It has generally been seen that Aquarius ruled would prefer eating vegetarian food out of choice and not out of compulsion or need.” 

Pisces: Pisces, Pisces rising, Neptune dominant, or 12th house dominant: Seafoods and fish would be the top thing on your menu, and that’s the best part! It’d be very fun for you to try out aquatic sports or any indoor sports, like swimming or maybe zumba, etc. Definitely could work wonders for you.

ᨳGroom persona chartଓ

The Groom asteroid represents how your husband acts within your marriage while the Briede asteroid represents you. Note that it's also applicable in energy and role, with the corresponding sex representing you whilst the opposite represents your spouse not limited to any sexuality or gender. Everything here is of my own research & observation. That being said, all content presented only applies to the Groom persona chart.

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Reminder to reserve your discernment, as not all results are 1:1. Evaluate the other placements thoroughly!

In retrograde, more often than not it evokes the more intense, troubling or side to the placement. Though, sometimes can indicate a bit of the opposite as well.

Groom

Now, since this is the groom persona chart most povs are centered around the groom's actions and understanding. Groom here tells you what marriage does to him & his assumed role as a husband. That being said, this is how he views & justifies himself. While in my last post, it's more accurately shows how he acts towards you and how you view him as a partner. I will be using Groom as the husband & Briede you in this post but feel free to flip the narrative.

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🪽Aries (°1,°13,°25) | 1st House

Ah yes, a man of action. For some reason , it may be hard for him to sit still after marriage. With you, he shows love through action more than long emotional talks. If you’re struggling with something, he’s already thinking about what he can do to fix it or defend you. He can be surprisingly protective, the kind who will step in quickly if he feels like someone is disrespecting you or the relationship. He’s passionate, lively, and very engaged with you, can be quite the charmer as well. He wants to do things together, go places, start projects, or simply keep the energy between you alive. However, his temper can come out quickly. He might snap first and think later, especially if he feels challenged or cornered. Marriage teaches him to act fast, be more decisive and sure of himself.

🪽 Taurus (°2,°14,°26) | 2nd House

With marriage , comes his desire to take his routine & stability much more seriously. Suddenly the idea of building something lasting becomes important to him. At home he likes things to feel comfortable and predictable in a good way. He’s the type who enjoys quiet evenings, familiar routines, and a space that feels safe and pleasant for both of you. A homebody husband that's for sure. Marriage teaches him to be consistent and careful. Not the sharpest tool, but he’s there. He makes sure you’re fed, comfortable, and that the practical side of life is handled. Physical affection often becomes one of his main love languages as well. However, he will be digging his heels into the dirt when it comes to his thoughts and convictions. That's one thing that'll take an incredibly long time to get over (perhaps, even never). Being married makes his life somewhat easier.

🪽 Gemini (°3,°15,°27) | 3rd House

Marriage keeps his mind active. Living with you gives him someone to constantly exchange thoughts with, and he genuinely enjoys that. At home he’s usually talking about something something he read, something he noticed, something random that crossed his mind. He becomes more vocal and inspired. That inner child of his is free to roam. With you he acts like he’s found a companion he can mentally spar with. Marriage keeps him motivated, curious, entertaining, and encourages his sillier almost extroverted side. Still, he can become restless or mentally scattered. If something emotionally heavy comes up, he might try to talk around it, make jokes, or change the subject rather than sitting with the deeper feeling right away. Better yet, he won't shut up about it lol. Which can be good or bad depending on what you think.

🪽 Cancer (°4,°16,°28) | 4th House

Marriage makes him more conscious of the idea of home and emotional belonging, allowing himself to be more sensitive and emotional. He starts becoming more protective of the private world the two of you create together, caring more for your family or children if you'll have them. It teaches him to be more emotionally present. Leaning to be softer, and more in tune with his feelings as well as that of those around him. With you, he tends to become nurturing in his own way. He might check in on you often, ask if you’re okay, or try to comfort you when you’re overwhelmed. His attachment to you can grow very strong because you become part of what makes his life feel secure. That being said, he can get rather vain or overly reliant on his emotions. (Might also indicate a mother figure being significant here).

🪽 Leo (°5,°17,°29) | 5th House

Marriage brings out a proud and romantic side of him. Being your husband becomes something he genuinely enjoys, not just a role he fulfills. At home he often keeps the relationship lively. There can be teasing, laughter, playful affection, and moments where he goes out of his way to make you feel special. With you he tends to be expressive about his feelings. Compliments, affectionate gestures, or simply looking at you with that “you’re mine” kind of pride. He often likes the idea of the two of you being seen as a strong, attractive couple. Also, marriage allows him to be more expressive and genuine to his personal passions.

🪽 Virgo (°6,°18) | 6th House

Marriage , makes him more self aware. His thoughts frequently revolve around details i.e what needs to be done, what could be improved, what responsibilities need attention. At home he’s often thinking about tasks, routines, and how to keep everything running efficiently. With you he shows love through helpfulness and problem-solving. That being the case, there tends to also be a theme of both perfectionism and the desire to micromanage the relationship. If something is bothering you, he’s already analyzing how to fix the situation. As a spouse, he sees himself as the one who maintains the everyday functioning of the relationship.

🪽 Libra (°7,°19) | 7th House

Marriage makes him see himself primarily as a partner, meaning that is his identity including how he behaves publically. His thoughts revolve around balance how decisions affect both of you, whether things feel fair, and how the relationship can stay harmonious. It makes him more conscious about his actions and how to respond to others. He becomes very aware of the dynamic between you two as well. He learns to be more cooperative and sensible. What occupies his mind most is the state of the partnership itself.

🪽 Scorpio (°8,°20) | 8th House

Marriage , teaches him to be more vulnerable. Challenging him to stick to his beliefs and constitution. Teaching him trust and dependency. At home he tends to take the connection very seriously. With you he behaves intensely devoted, sometimes protective to the point where he feels responsible for guarding the relationship itself. Much of what occupies his mind is emotional truthwhat you’re feeling, what he’s feeling, and whether everything between you remains honest. All in all for him he may find marriage to be this trial for the both of you. If you both pass, then it'll stand the test of time, if not, he may grow distant and learn to be dishonest for the sake of it; with his own agendas or "for the better good".

🪽 Sagittarius (°9,°21) | 9th House

Marriage helps him move up in the world, and being married or being with you raises his both his credibility and personal appeal one way or another. He may feel like he has to take up the role of the more mature or experienced/patient person within your dynamic. However, this placement does strangely appear in a lot of codependent type of relationships /marriages where both parties complete each other. He may come to depend on you , but at the same time he may be someone you look to for support or guidance as well. He may think he is smarter & knows more than you (street smarts that is, on a philosophical level). He focuses a lot on the purpose of your relationship and the potential you/it has.

🪽 Capricorn (°10,°22) | 10th House

Marriage makes him more aware of responsibility and long-term structure. Being your husband becomes something he wants to handle properly. He may start thinking more seriously about stability, career progress, and building a respectable life together (though it's likely he was always the serious type to begin with). You ground him, and your relationship gives him a sense of worth. Usually very calm, acting as your stone pillar to rely on. Very reliable and reassuring. He wants you to know he’s someone you can depend on. He’s protective, disciplined, and loyal to the life you share. However, he can become overly focused on work, duties, or external pressures, which might make him seem distant for periods of time. Can be rather dry and "old" sometimes. Old fashioned that is. Much of his focus goes toward planning the future and making sure the foundation of your shared life remains strong

🪽 Aquarius (°11,°23) | 11th House

Your husband is akin to a friend in marriage. One of the most supportive placements, meaning your spouse is a lover that feels like your biggest supporter. He may feel like a stranger in your world looking in at times though. He thinks of himself as a charismatic fellow that is slightly peculiar himself hah. Even if everyone else calls you too much or annoying and weird, to him you are the star of his day. As with you, he feels more comfortable embracing the part of him he may have repressed in the past. Marriage may help him become more independent and confident in his individuality too.

🪽 Pisces (°12,°24) | 12th House

He becomes compassionate, patient, and very emotionally receptive to you. He may often exist in his own inner world and gets overwhelmed or panicked easily. He becomes more quiet and mellow, but often shares a lot of his dreams and fantasy with you. Also, he may turn into somewhat of a recluse as well, with marriage giving him the opportunity to reflect on his life and prior decisions he'll value a more separated world where it's just you and the home you've built together. He thinks of himself as an "exception" to whatever it is he perceives. Can harbor a bit of that victim mentality as well. Either way, his focus is on himself and whether he matches the version of him or the relationship he thinks he should be in.

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Briede

Briede here tells you how you'll act towards your spouse , and how you appear through his pov. Honestly, gives a lot of insight into how he'll treat you in hindsight as well once you piece the puzzles together.

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🪽 Aries (°1,°13,°25) | 1st House

To your spouse, you are someone uninhibited by the actions of others. He may be slightly scared of you, if it's in retrograde he may often surrender to your whims. Knowing you'll always find a way to win or be in the right (even when in the wrong). Either that or you surrender yourself, though the prior is more likely. A headstrong woman with the attitude to show for it. He knows you're strong and independent, and that there are very few challenges that can really slow you down. There's that youthfulness he finds in you as well that keeps him feeling younger even if you are the same age.

Ex: Lana Del Rey has Briede retrograde in Aries in the 1st & in 13° Aries in her GPC.

🪽 Taurus (°2,°14,°26) | 2nd House

In his eyes, you are the prettiest woman he's ever met. But .. also quite the klutz. He thinks of you as elegant, but at the same time clumsy and silly. He's always comfortable around you, as to him you are kind and doting even when you can be rather adamant and uncompromising at times. Sometimes, he finds it difficult to get through to you due to that but either way he finds it charming. Like a rabbit that keeps forcing it's way through a tree without a burrow, instead of going around it. Determined, but "non threatening" haha. On bad days, he'll say you're slow or stubborn as a mule. On good days he'll be captivated by your beauty and childishness.

🪽 Gemini (°3,°15,°27) | 3rd House

You are lively and excitable in your partners eyes. He will see you as the most interesting and busy person in the room. He knows there is little to none that he can hide from you even if he tried. He trusts your opinions and likely thinks you are smarter than him and more knowledgeable in many aspects. He may think of you as loud and dramatic which could go both ways tbh, still I see it as mostly positive! Your reactions keep him alive even if he denies it. On bad days, he'll say you're overreacting, tiring, dramatic & sticking your nose up everyone's business. On good days, he'll say you're the most entertaining person in his world.

🪽 Cancer (°4,°16,°28) | 4th House

To your spouse, you feel like home. In his mind you are nurturing, instinctive way someone who notices when he’s tired, when something is wrong, you read his moods easily. You tend to evoke his protective instincts as well. He may see you as emotionally sensitive, moody and unstable at times. Sometimes he’ll feel like he has to handle you carefully because you can withdraw into yourself (or lash out) if you’re hurt. On good days he sees you as warm, affectionate, and deeply loyal. On difficult days he might think you’re overly reactive or a little too dependent on your feelings. Regardless, you become the person he instinctively turns to when he needs comfort or grounding. To rephrase a quote from certain a bird I like; "the outside is cold & blue, but you are that warm yellow light I come home to that's all mine."

If retrograde & in the 4th house he may think you are quite burdened with your family even through marriage.

🪽 Leo (°5,°17,°29) | 5th House

Through his eyes, you have a grand personality that is impossible to ignore. There’s something theatrical about the way you express yourself with him dramatic in a charming way, playful, expressive, and full of life. He sees you as someone who enjoys being adored. Your reactions, laughter, excitement, even your annoyance can feel larger than life to him which always has a way to make him laugh or brighten his mood. At times he might see you as a bit proud or stubborn when your feelings are involved, especially if you feel unappreciated. But the same pride is what makes him admire you. You make the relationship feel exciting, romantic, and alive. On good days, you’re charming and vibrant, someone who brings passion and joy into the relationship. On bad days, he'll say you are too shallow, childish, dramatic & more concerned about appearances.

🪽 Virgo (°6,°18) | 6th House

To your spouse , you’re someone who takes care of things seriously. There is no person that works harder and cares more intently in his life than you. You are mindful and practical, notices how attentive you are to details, how you remember the small preferences he has, or how you instinctively try to make life run more smoothly. Still, sometimes he may feel like you analyze situations too much or worry about things that don’t seem like a big deal to him. You can come across as particular about how things should be done, especially when you believe it’s the most efficient or sensible way. On good days he sees you as dependable, diligent and thoughtful, someone who genuinely wants the best for both of you. On more tense days he might feel like you’re nitpicking, selfish, fussy or trying to fix problems that don’t exist. Either way, he recognizes that your intentions usually come from a place of care. He may worry about you a lot in retrograde.

🪽 Libra (°7,°19) | 7th House

To him, you embody the idea of a partner. There’s something about you that feels naturally suited to being in a relationship you’re diplomatic, patient and aware of how your actions affect him. He often sees you as charming and socially graceful, someone who knows how to smooth over tension and keep interactions pleasant. Because of that, he might occasionally feel like you weigh every situation too carefully, trying to measure who gave more or who compromised more. Still, he tends to see you as elegant and refined in both your looks and temperament. On good days he feels proud to have you beside him, as if the two of you simply “look right” together. On bad days he might think you’re a bit indecisive or overly concerned with keeping appearances. He sees you as part of him however.

🪽 Scorpio (°8,°20) | 8th House

Some with this placement tends to have spouses that feel guilty towards them, or feel that they have put a lot on your shoulders. Though if retrograde, it's usually that he feels more burdened with you. You see the worst side of him, his ehem demons of you will lmao that you keep under the rug from everyone else. You come across as perceptive, and strong. Usually also a sign of trauma bonding overtime (or it literally being the first thing you face in marriage). To him you’re loyal but also emotionally demanding. At times he may feel exposed around you, like there’s no real way to keep parts of himself hidden. On good days, he sees you as powerful, magnetic, and emotionally fearless. On harder days, he'll say your overwhelming & gets irritated easily. The problem though, is usually him. Either way, he knows you've become someone who changes him, whether he intended for that to happen or not.

Ex: Both my mother and Miley Cyrus have Briede in the 8th house in their GPCs. I know my father's remorseful of how he used to give my mother a hard time in their first decade of marriage. He always says, there really isn't any other woman as strong or that'll be as kind and resilient as her. Mom has Briede in Capricorn 3° Gemini in the 8th. Miley's is retrograde, and judging from what we know went down with her ex husband that very much seems like the case, no?

🪽 Sagittarius (°9,°21) | 9th House

In many ways, your spouse may see you as someone both smarter, well educated and more capable than him. He trusts your intuition and your thoughts as you always have a way to convince him through reason. You teach him to be more aware of what he's doing. You challenge him, and help him evolve mentally. He may feel that with you, his life and surrounding improves. On good days, he sees you as wise, insightful, and inspiring. Someone who broadens his world and makes him feel like there’s always something new to learn or experience together. On more difficult days, he might feel like you’re lecturing him or trying to correct the way he thinks. Your strong convictions can sometimes make him feel like he’s being judged or measured against your standards of what is “right” or “logical.” His personal preacher, haha.

🪽 Capricorn (°10,°22) | 10th House

Your spouse thinks of you as a capable and independent person, you don't lose your sense of purpose or your principals for what success should be even after years of marriage. Your spouse thinks of you as the strongest, most persistent person he has ever met. He thinks of you as quite strict as well, especially when it comes to your household, job and family. You are reliable, and you ground him. On bad occasions, he'll think you are stuck up and self righteous, pushy, controlling and dry. "Too independent to be married". On good days, he'll think he owes you a lot of credit on his life, or that he'll lose structure and motive without you. You push him to limits, and thus to his best.

🪽 Aquarius (°11,°23) | 11th House

To him, there really is no one else like you; his best friend and soulmate. Mayhaps to him, you were someone he once wished for, a dream come true even. You are supportive of him and his actions, his ideas and passions and think highly (well) of him. He may have learned to look to your for support somewhere along the lines of your marriage (though if the asteroid is retrograde, you are often the one looking for his help). You are weird and unabashedly yourself and he knows it, he finds that you see each other on the same level of both humor and ideas most of the time. With interests that either compliment or mirror one another.

🪽 Pisces (°12,°24) | 12th House

Your husband sees you as someone out of this world. In many ways, you prove to be an ideal spouse and woman (partner) regardless of what "perfect" looks like. This, he tends to idealise you most. This could go both ways as well, for instance your spouse may only keep his eyes glued to this image of you which if you notice it may feel inclined to uphold that. To continue being that version for your spouse's adoration. On the other hand, he may see you as easy and susceptible. Taking advantage of your strengths. Being around you gives him the illusion that he can do more. On the bright side, he is in awe of you and finds your charisma and personality extraordinary. Down side however, he may feel he has you all figured out and in the palm of his hands. May even take you for granted.

Ex: Beyoncé & Audrey Hepburn both have Briede in Pisces in their groom persona charts. Reading through many articles, their husbands mostly put them on a pedestal. The same pedestal used to take them for granted.

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Conjunctions

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☕ Sun

Groom

Marriage becomes a central part of how he defines himself. Being a husband gives him confidence and an image to uphold. However, he may become overly focused on asserting his authority or proving himself.

Briede

To him you are radiant and confident. He tends to see you as someone with a clear identity and a sense of direction. You might appear confident, self-assured, or simply very you. Because of that, he often treats you with a certain respect or attentiveness, as if your individuality deserves recognition. Much of his character is reflected within you too.

☕ Moon

Groom

Marriage makes him more vulnerable & a little more passive. Growing into quite the homebody or ball of affection towards you and the kids especially. For some, he may feel like he's sort of becoming his mother; mirroring what she used to do.

Briede

In his perception, you appear sensitive, nurturing, and emotionally expressive, even if you try not to show it openly. Your moods tend to affect him more than anything. It's either he makes you take responsibility over his feelings, or you are a guide to how he shapes himself emotionally after marriage (and that you bare resemblance to a mother figure in his life).

☕ Mercury

Groom

Marriage makes him more communicative. It may also bring out his inner child and curiousity, given his freedom to do so. He may learn to be quite the inquisitor as well lmao.

Briede

He often notices how you think, how you speak, and the way you explain things. You may appear witty, observant, or very articulate from his perspective. Conversations with you tend to stick in his memory because you say things in ways that make him think. He may learn to copy or mirror you intellectually. Your jokes and interest also intertwine. It could also be that he thinks of you as intelligent.

☕ Venus

Groom

Marriage makes him kinder, as years past he finds a way to be both a more pleasant person and a lover. He can learn to be quite patient and more conscious of his presentability.

Briede

He thinks of you as kind, beautiful and mesmerizing. Your spouse may think of you as his muse as well. You may appear charming, graceful, or simply very easy to love.

☕ Mars

Groom

He may gain some sort of.. vigor through mariage lol. He can become faster, a little more arrogant and competitive with age and marriage. Could range from adapting a more masculine approach to marriage and raising a family (hello military themed items) to being a bit of a prick in his later years.

Briede

He thinks of you as energetic and strong, but can think of you as rather pushy and scary as well lol. He finds you passionate and invigorating, someone who brings life and excitement into the relationship but then again he may think of you as quick to anger and confrontational.

☕ Saturn

Groom

He takes your marriage seriously that's for sure. He could grow to be rather dry compared to the person he was in the past, assuming himself to a higher standard now that in his mind, he has to. He may feel like he's turning into his father or a father figure in his life as well.

Briede

You appear serious and significant in his life. He may view you as someone mature, composed, or emotionally reserved. Someone that keeps themselves together and wears the pants in the house. He might think you can be rather heartless at times due to how strict you can be however. Though, not always bad there's always a reason.

☕ Jupiter

Groom

He may feel that marriage makes him both smarter, and mature than he was. In fact, marriage lifts the veil of stagnancy allowing him to grow mentally and emotionally. He may feel like marriage is somewhat of a lesson to him.

Briede

To your spouse, you are uplifting and encouraging. Always generous, optimistic, or someone who expands his perspective. He often feels like being around you improves his mood or his outlook on life.

☕ Neptune

Groom

He may feel rather detached from you and the relationship, often leaning towards idealistic visions about how your relationship should look like according to his desire. A master puppeteer on one hand, a compelling lover on the other. . "I hope you win for best actor"

Briede

He may also thinks you are rather detached for him, or too good for him to some degree as well. You are compassionate, artistic and by all means may be rather altruistic as well.

☕ Uranus

Groom

He remains a lot of the person he way prior to marriage, tends to act on his own whims & accord as well. He may feel somewhat disorganized, and unsure how to take care of himself at times (meaning he can be very inconsistent with himself and what he really wants).

Briede

You are very different from him, but that seems to be a highlight of your personality rather than anything else. He’s excited by how unique you are and feels stimulated by the unexpected energy you bring. He knows that you are independent and are not one to stick to restrictions. To him, you are one of a kind.

☕ Pluto

Groom

Marriage forces him out of his shell. He can be rather ruthless and quite controlling at times if he feels he needs to. Can turn rather emotionally reactive as well. He may feel like for some reason, he always has to play bad cop.

Briede

You can feel overwhelming or too much for him sometimes. He sees you as a powerful, and terrifying person at the same time.

☕ Chiron

Groom

Marriage gives him more to overthink about than usual. He may be feel rather overworked as a spouse, or that being married brings him more trouble than not. He may feel unfit to be a spouse or a lover, or even bare any titles that come with being a spouse.

Briede

I haven't seen much of this occuring in my available data base, but from what I do have; He thinks of you as rather fragile, and "flawed". He may develop somewhat of a savior complex with you as well. He feels you are to hard on yourself.

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Squares

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🤺 Sun

Groom

He may feel like parts of himself have to shrink or change to keep the relationship stable. Because of that, he can become very aware of how he’s perceived in the marriage and whether he’s living up to the role properly.

Briede

He may butt heads with you a lot. To him, you don't easily fall into the role he expected from a partner. Whatever that image may be. Because of that, he can sometimes feel like he has to assert himself more strongly around you, especially when he feels like his position or decisions are being questioned. (Though it's also possible that he often surrenders to you as well).

🤺 Moon

Groom

Sometimes he may find himself struggling with the emotional expectations that come with sharing a life together, especially when feelings have to be addressed instead of ignored. He can get irritated easily, or too invested in himself than anyone else.

Briede

At times he may feel like your emotional reactions are difficult to predict & manage. It keeps him on his toes trying to make sure he doesn't upset or offend you in a way, which can make him feel unsure about how to comfort or approach you sometimes. He may not know how to handle emotional situations in the first place. It can make him hesitant to act freely at times, because he’s always calculating how you might respond to what he does, taking everything to heart.

🤺 Mercury

Groom

Marriage makes him an over thinker & more nitpicky. Small misunderstandings can stay on his mind longer than they should because he keeps trying to analyze what was meant. Can turn obsessive mentally as well , whether that is proving himself right or believing everyone else is just incompetent.

Briede

You may question things he says or challenge his reasoning more directly than he’s used to. Because of that, he can sometimes feel like he has to defend his thoughts or explain himself often. He can find you rather difficult to converse with sometimes.

🤺 Venus

Groom

His love can feel rather artificial or "constructed" as a performance rather than actual love. He can turn into someone rather conditional when it comes to both his affections and judgements.

Briede

He thinks you are a very particular person. He think that you expect him to the lover or a partner perfectly catered to you in a way, seeing him as a canvas to build into someone else. He may also feel that he might never fully get it “right” in your eyes.

🤺 Mars

Groom

Marriage brings out a more defensive side of him. When disagreements happen, he may feel like he has to stand his ground rather than step back. Stubbornness of the highest order.

Briede

Though not always bad, he can find you to be both confrontational and controlling. Self restraining, but not one to be tested.

🤺 Saturn

Groom

He can be overly strict and demanding, though conversely he may detest the may he has to sustain and suppress himself to be a spouse, feeling more burdened with both himself (expectations) or being a responsible spouse in the first place. He may feel like he lacks authority as well.

Briede

You might come across as serious or hard to impress, which can make him feel like he has to prove himself. He may think you carry too much burden, or are constantly judging him as well.

🤺 Jupiter

Groom

He may overextend himself. As a husband , he'll have this internal standard pushing him to want more, that he’s supposed to provide more, achieve more, or build a bigger life than before. At times he may feel like he’s being pushed into a role that requires constant growth or success but tend to not act towards any of them in hindsight.

Briede

You can come across as someone who sees bigger possibilities for him than he sees for himself. Because of that, he might occasionally feel pressured to live up to the vision you seem to have of what he could become.

🤺 Neptune

Groom

He may feel rather invisible & unneeded or that or literally be absent for some.

Briede

He may overlook you, there may also be moments where he struggles to fully understand what you’re feeling or what you want from him. You can come across as mysterious or emotionally distant at times, even if that isn’t your intention.

🤺 Uranus

Groom

Even if he cares deeply about the relationship, there are moments where the structure of married life feels restrictive to him. He may catch himself questioning whether he’s still able to live the way he wants or make decisions freely.

Briede

He may feel that you are rather dependant on him, like you rely on him to make decisions, provide stability, or manage things he thinks you could handle yourself. It can make him feel both responsible and frustrated.

🤺 Pluto

Groom

There is a part of him that will feel very burdened with his image and the responsibilities that come with a spouse. He may think that just just not cut out for it sometimes, due to the sacrifices he has to make. He could feel like no one listens to him without the use of violence or some version of abrasiveness.

Briede

He may be rather scared of you, knowing what you can become if pushed to your limits.

🤺 Chiron

Groom

With him being someone’s husband, it may trigger fears about not being good enough or not meeting expectations. Being incredibly hard on himself but may snap on those around him as well.

Briede

Being around you can poke at his old insecurities. Certain ways you act or what you expect can make him feel like he’s not enough or like he’s repeating mistakes he’s made before. He may see a lot of trouble in your past as well, being a burden for both of you if left unmanaged.

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Not epic or climactic. Just... alive.

• A character almost admits they were wrong and then pivots • Two people sitting in a car after an argument, engine off, neither leaving • Someone practicing a speech in the mirror and hating how it sounds • A character lying for someone they resent • An inside joke that no longer feels funny • A public setting where private tension is simmering • Someone seeing their ex unexpectedly and performing indifference • A character giving advice they absolutely do not follow • A confession interrupted by something mundane • A person rereading old messages they shouldn’t • A gift that misses the mark completely • A character realizing they’ve outgrown someone mid-conversation • Someone saying “It’s fine” and meaning “I will remember this forever” • A moment where a character notices they are no longer the favorite • Two people who used to be close struggling to find a topic

ruler of the 10th in the 1st your career and your reputation are written all over your face. you are the walking embodiment of your work and people naturally see you as an authority figure even when you are just standing in line at the grocery store. your identity is fused with your mission so you probably find it hard to separate who you are from what you do. you feel most successful when you have total control over your own image and when your life path feels like a direct reflection of your personal grit.

ruler of the 10th in the 2nd you want your success to be something you can actually touch and bank. for you a reputation is only good if it brings security and high quality results. your career is likely tied to values money or the sensory world and you work hard to make sure your name carries a high price tag. in daily life this looks like you being the person who cares about the long term value of every project. you find your pride in the fact that you built your own world from the ground up.

ruler of the 10th in the 3rd your reputation is built on your voice and your ideas. you are the person everyone goes to when they need a plan explained or a story told. your career is likely tied to communication teaching or your local community. in your daily life you are known for being the one with the sharp mind and the quick comeback. you find your success through the way you connect people and the influence you have on the neighborhood noise. your words are your legacy.

ruler of the 10th in the 4th you want to be the boss of your own nest. your public life is often tied to your roots your family or the literal ground you stand on. you might find yourself working from home or building a business that feels like a family legacy. for you true success is having a private life that reflects your public authority. you are the one who works hard to make your ancestors proud and you find your grit in the silence of your own sanctuary.

ruler of the 10th in the 5th you dont work for a paycheck you work for the spark. your career is a creative performance and you want your name to be associated with joy romance or self expression. you might find success in the arts with children or in any field where you get to be the center of the creative fire. in real life you are the person who turns a job into a passion project. you find your pride when you realize that your work is actually making the world a more interesting place.

ruler of the 10th in the 6th you are the expert in the engine room. your reputation is built on your competence your daily discipline and the fact that you actually get things done right. you find your success in being useful and refining the mechanics of the world. in daily life you are the person who handles the hard tasks that everyone else is too lazy to finish. you find your grit in the ritual of the grind and you realize that your true authority comes from your mastery of the small details.

ruler of the 10th in the 7th your success is a shared project. you find your reputation through your partnerships your clients or the way you handle the people across from you. your public life is deeply tied to the bridges you build and you might find that your biggest professional breakthroughs happen through a specific person. in real life you are the one who knows how to negotiate the middle ground. you find your power when you realize that your legacy is built on the strength of your connections.

ruler of the 10th in the 8th you deal with the stuff most people are afraid to talk about in public. your career might involve psychology finance or managing the heavy transformations of others. you have a reputation for being intense and for being the person who stays calm in a real crisis. in daily life you are the one who sees the secret power dynamics in the room. you find your success in the deep end and you realize that your authority comes from your ability to face the raw truth without blinking.

ruler of the 10th in the 9th your reputation is too big for your hometown. you are the traveler the teacher and the seeker who wants to be known for a big idea or a global perspective. your career might involve foreign lands higher education or a belief system that sets you apart from the crowd. in your daily life you are the person who always has a wide angle lens on the situation. you find your success in the pursuit of wisdom and you refuse to live a small or predictable life.

ruler of the 10th in the 10th you were born for the top of the mountain. having the ruler in its own house makes you a natural authority who takes your reputation and your career very seriously. you dont need anyone to tell you how to lead because you already know. people instinctively look to you for the final call. you find your success through your absolute dedication to your mission and you realize that your name is a brand that reflects your iron integrity and your hard won success.

ruler of the 10th in the 11th you find your name in the tribe. your reputation is tied to the group the cause and the social movements you believe in. you are the visionary who leads the many and you find your success through your social circles and your friends. in real life you are the person who connects the dots for everyone else. you find your joy in the collective dream and you realize that your most important work is the impact you have on the future of humanity.

✶ “Want to try leading this time?”        “And give your family a heart attack? Of course I do.”

✶ “With that hand placement I’m surprised you haven’t proposed the bedroom yet.”        “Now that you mention it…”

✶ “Don’t look at them. Look at me. It’s only us.”

✶ “Shit, I forgot the steps.”        “I’ve been improvising for the past three minutes. Just look confident.”

✶ “You trust me?”        “God help me, I do.”

✶ “Don’t drop me.”        “Have I ever?”

✶ “Need a break? You’re out of breath…”        “That has nothing to do with exhaustion.”

✶ “These clothes are too tight! I can barely move…”        “You know I’m always more than willing to help you out of them.”

✶ “My feet hurt.”        “Already? I thought you’d be the type to dance until dawn.” “I am, but not with an oaf stomping on my feet all night long!”

the 8th house is where you find out what you’re actually made of once the lights go out. it’s the basement of the psyche where we keep the things that aren’t meant for the dinner table; the secret shames, the unpaid debts, the raw power we give to other people, and the ways we’re forced to die and be born again. it is the house of the undressing, where the ego is stripped away and you’re left with nothing but the truth. when a sign sits here it shows how you handle the heavy lifting of the soul and what you do when the floor falls out from under you.

aries in the 8th it’s a house fire. you don’t do a slow burn or a gentle exploration of the deep end; you dive headfirst into the flames and hope the heat doesn’t kill you. for you merging with someone else is a high-speed collision and you have zero patience for mind games or secrets that linger in the shadows. you’d rather blow the whole basement up than sit in a quiet lie. your bravery is your survival. you find out who you are by facing the fire with your chest out and realizing that the only thing that can actually survive the 8th house is a spirit that refuses to stay down.

taurus in the 8th you treat intimacy like an heirloom you’re afraid to break. you are deeply protective of your private world and you don't let anyone into your basement unless they feel like a long-term investment. shared resources and deep bonds are heavy for you; they feel physical, like a foundation of stone. you hate feeling shaky so you build your connections on reliability and touch. you are the rock in the middle of someone else’s crisis. you find your peace in a love that you can actually trust with your life, something tangible that doesn't disappear when the lights flicker. it’s slow, it’s possessive, and it’s solid as hell.

gemini in the 8th you handle the ghosts by interviewing them. for you a secret is only scary until you’ve found a way to talk it to death or analyze it into a million pieces. you’re curious about the taboo like it’s a riddle you need to solve. you want a partner who can keep up with your mental deep dives and who isn't afraid to discuss the stuff most people find too heavy. merging for you is an intellectual pact; it’s about sharing data and thoughts until the intensity feels manageable. you’re the one who makes a joke at a funeral because you need to keep the air moving so you don't drown in the depth.

cancer in the 8th it’s a total emotional takeover. your skin is thin and you absorb the history and the family ghosts of your partners like they were your own. merging isn't a choice; it’s a surrender. you’re looking for a safe harbor where you can be your messiest self without being judged, but you often end up mothering everyone else’s trauma before you even deal with your own. you sense the pain in the room before anyone says a word. you turn a psychological meltdown into a homecoming because you know that the only way out of the basement is to nurture the thing that’s hiding in the dark.

leo in the 8th you carry your secrets like a crown and you’re incredibly loyal to the people you’ve decided to let into your private world. you don't just want to merge; you want the transformation to be noble. there’s a certain drama to your intensity and you want to be appreciated for the depth you carry behind the mask. you find your power when you realize that your heart is big enough to be the sun in someone else’s dark. you protect the ones you love with a fierce pride and you find your grit by refusing to let the heavy stuff dim your light.

virgo in the 8th you handle a crisis by trying to fix the plumbing in the basement. while everyone else is crying you’re looking for a list of things that need to be refined or organized. for you love is being useful when everything is falling apart. you analyze your triggers and you’re constantly trying to make sense of your own psychological mess. you find your peace in the details and the small rituals. you don't need a grand spiritual awakening; you just need to know that the chaos is being managed. your devotion is shown through the way you stay and help clean up the wreckage when everyone else has run away.

libra in the 8th you want the ruins to look beautiful. merging with someone else is a delicate negotiation of power and you hate it when the scales feel out of balance. you’re looking for a partner who can walk through the shadows with you and still keep their cool. you find harmony even in the middle of a total psychological transformation because you understand that real peace requires a lot of honest conversation about the hard stuff. you don't want a messy fight; you want a shared dream that survived the dark.

scorpio in the 8th you own the basement. you see right through the bullshit and you have zero interest in anything that feels shallow or safe. for you intimacy is a total soul alteration and you’ve probably survived more than most people could even imagine. you’re the one they call when the floor falls out because you aren't afraid of the raw truth. you don't blink in the dark. you find your power by stripping everything back until only the essence is left. you’re the surgeon of the soul, cutting away the dead weight so the real person can finally breathe.

sagittarius in the 8th you’re the one laughing at the abyss because you’re convinced it’s part of a grand adventure. you see every crisis as a chance to find a bigger truth and you handle the heavy stuff with a wide-eyed optimism that confuses everyone else. for you intimacy is an open road and you want a partner who can explore the mysteries of the universe without getting bogged down in the petty drama. you believe that everything happens for a reason so you take the leap of faith even when you can’t see the bottom. your faith is your shield and your horizon is the only thing that matters.

capricorn in the 8th it’s serious business. you handle shared debts and private commitments with a level of grit and discipline that makes everyone else look soft. you’re the adult in the dark; the one who makes sure the foundation is solid even when the walls are shaking. for you merging is a long-term responsibility and you aren't looking for anything fleeting. you realize that real power comes from building something that can actually last through the coldest winters. you carry the weight without complaining and you find your strength in the endurance of the bond.

aquarius in the 8th you look at the taboo with a sense of curious detachment. you aren't afraid of the weird or the unconventional and you often have a very original way of handling intimacy. for you merging is a conceptual agreement and you need your freedom even in the middle of a deep bond. you find your transformation through new perspectives and original ideas. you’re the one who can look at the dark without being consumed by the intensity because you’re busy analyzing the structure of it. you find your power when you realize that being different is exactly what makes you so resilient in a crisis.

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Aries Mars

With an Aries mars, you've got raw primal sexual energy inside of you. When you pursue a lover/the one you want, you're the kind of person to do it in a bold, ‘take charge’ way, and you love being pursued in a competitive teasing way, this way makes you feel ar*used in ways most wouldn't even understand. The perfect sensual partner is one that can handle your dominant energy, because you have a lot of it. Someone fearless, and unapologetically passionate.

Your Turn Ons:

Direct eye contact

Play fighting / tension

Confidence that is a lil cocky

Spontaneity

When someone challenges you, you are immediately like " I want that”

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Taurus Mars

With a Taurus mars, you've got raw sensual sexual energy inside of you. When you pursue a lover/the one you want, you're the kind of person to do it in a slow deliberate way, and you love being pursued in a patient and consistent way, this way makes you feel ar*used in ways most wouldn't even understand. The perfect sensual partner is one that can handle your intense physical energy, because you have a lot of it. Someone grounded and deeply affectionate.

Your Turn Ons:

Slow touches

Neck kisses

Deep voice

Consistency that will build tension

When someone takes their time with you, you are immediately like " I need that”

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Gemini Mars

With a Gemini mars, you've got raw mental sexual energy inside of you. When you pursue a lover/the one you want, you're the kind of person to do it in a playful, witty way, and you love being pursued in a clever, verbally seductive way, this way makes you feel ar*used in ways most wouldn't even understand. The perfect sensual partner is one that can handle your restless energy, because you have a lot of it. Someone curious with a sharp tongue.

Your Turn Ons:

Dirty talk

Inside jokes

Quick back and forth

Surprises

When someone outsmarts you, you are immediately like " I like this”

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Cancer Mars

With a Cancer mars, you've got raw emotional sexual energy inside of you. When you pursue a lover/the one you want, you're the kind of person to do it in a protective emotionally intentional way, and you love being pursued in a reassuring intimate way, this way makes you feel ar*used in ways most wouldn't even understand. The perfect sensual partner is one that can handle your deep emotional energy, because you have a lot of it. Someone nurturing, and genuinely loyal.

Your Turn Ons:

Being held close

Emotional confessions

Soft dominance

Feeling chose

When someone makes you feel safe, you are immediately like " I crave this”

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Leo Mars

With a Leo mars, you've got raw magnetic sexual energy inside of you. When you pursue a lover/the one you want, you're the kind of person to do it in a dramatically confident way and you love being pursued in an adoring and passionate way, this way makes you feel ar*used in ways most wouldn't even understand. The perfect sensual partner is one that can handle your fiery energy, because you have a lot of it. Someone expressive, and unafraid to show desire openly.

Your Turn Ons:

Praise

Being wanted publicly

Passion that feels like a movie romance

Hands can’t stay off you.

When someone worships you, you are immediately like " I love this”

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Virgo Mars

With a Virgo mars, you've got raw controlled sexual energy inside of you. When you pursue a lover/the one you want, you're the kind of person to do it in a subtle and intentional way, and you love being pursued in a attentive and detail-focused way, this way makes you feel ar*used in ways most wouldn't even understand. The perfect sensual partner is one that can handle your precise energy, because you have a lot of it. Someone observant, and patient enough to peel you open slowly.

Your Turn Ons:

Being studied carefully

Intellectual tension

When someone notices the smallest detail about you, you are immediately like " I need them”

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Libra Mars

With a Libra mars, you've got raw seductive sexual energy inside of you. When you pursue a lover/the one you want, you're the kind of person to do it in a charming yet flirtatious way, and you love being pursued in a intentionally romantic way, this way makes you feel ar*used in ways most wouldn't even understand. The perfect sensual partner is one that can handle your alluring energy, because you have a lot of it. Someone smooth, and confident enough to lead sometimes.

Your Turn Ons:

Compliments

Mutual eye contact

Beautiful settings

(aesthetic environment)

When someone chooses you boldly, you are immediately like " I want this”

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Scorpio Mars

With a Scorpio mars, you've got raw intense sexual energy inside of you. When you pursue a lover/the one you want, you're the kind of person to do it in a magnetic and consuming way, and you love being pursued in a obsessively dominant way, this way makes you feel ar*used in ways most wouldn't even understand. The perfect sensual partner is one that can handle your dark energy, because you have a lot of it. Someone emotionally fearless, and willing to go deep in without flinching.

Your Turn Ons:

Long eye contact

Power exchange

Emotional vulnerability

Lowkey Possessive

When someone locks eyes with you and doesn’t look away, you are immediately like " I need them”

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Sagittarius Mars

With a Sagittarius mars, you've got raw adventurous sexual energy inside of you. When you pursue a lover/the one you want, you're the kind of person to do it in a bold and spontaneous way, and you love being pursued in a playful but fearless way, this way makes you feel ar*used in ways most wouldn't even understand. The perfect sensual partner is one that can handle your wild energy, because you have a lot of it. Someone open-minded, and ready for exploring.

Your Turn Ons:

Laughing mid-kiss

Tasking Risks together

Travel chemistry

Blunt honesty with each other

When someone keeps up with your pace, you are immediately like " I want this”

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Capricorn Mars

With a Capricorn mars, you've got raw controlled dominance sexual energy inside of you. When you pursue a lover/the one you want, you're the kind of person to do it in a calculated confident way, and you love being pursued in a respectful but persistent way, this way makes you feel ar*used in ways most wouldn't even understand. The perfect sensual partner is one that can handle your powerful energy, because you have a lot of it. Someone mature, and quietly intense.

Your Turn Ons:

Authority

Ambition

Restraint that breaks altogether

Slow burn tension

When someone proves themselves worthy, you are immediately like " I’ll take this”

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Aquarius Mars

With an Aquarius mars, you've got raw unconventional sexual energy inside of you. When you pursue a lover/the one you want, you're the kind of person to do it in a detached yet intriguing way and you love being pursued in a unique but mentally stimulating way, this way makes you feel ar*used in ways most wouldn't even understand. The perfect sensual partner is one that can handle your electric energy, because you have a lot of it. Someone independent, and unpredictable.

Your Turn Ons:

Intellectual tension

Unexpected actions

Breaking the norms

Deep conversations at late and or early early hours

When someone surprises you mentally, you are immediately like " I like that”

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Pisces Mars

With a Pisces mars, you've got raw fantasy soaked sexual energy inside of you. When you pursue a lover/the one you want, you're the kind of person to do it in a romantically intuitive way, and you love being pursued in a emotionally intoxicating way, this way makes you feel ar*used in ways most wouldn't even understand. The perfect sensual partner is one that can handle your dreamy energy, because you have a lot of it. Someone gentle, and deeply connected.

Your Turn Ons:

Slow kissing

Emotional merging

Feeling spiritually entangled

♈︎ the wound is in your very right to exist. you spent a lifetime feeling like you had to apologize for taking up air, for being "too much" or "not enough." your healing is the reclamation of your "i am." you are the warrior who learned that true bravery isn't the absence of fear, but the decision to move while your heart is still shaking. you are your own first responder.

♉︎ the ache lives in your skin and your sense of permanence. you looked for stability in things that could be taken away, feeling like the ground beneath you was always made of glass. your medicine is the realization that your value is inherent, not earned. you are the one who turns a barren field into a sanctuary, teaching the world that abundance is a state of being, not a balance in a bank.

♊︎ the wound is in the silence. you felt misunderstood, as if your thoughts were a language no one else could speak. perhaps you were told your ideas were too scattered or your voice too quiet. your healing is the bridge you build with your words. you become the ultimate storyteller for the voiceless, proving that even the most broken sentences can carry the weight of the divine.

♋︎ the ache is the shadow of the mother. you carry a hunger for a home that feels like a constant "elsewhere." you felt the coldness of the world before you knew its warmth. your gift is the ocean of empathy you carry. you become the harbor for everyone who is lost at sea, realizing that the nurturing you sought was actually the light you were meant to give.

♌︎ the wound is in the spotlight that never found you. you felt invisible, as if your creative spark was a secret you had to keep. your healing is the radical act of being seen without a mask. you are the one who pulls the forgotten ones onto the stage, showing us all that the most beautiful art is simply the courage to be yourself in a world that tries to make you someone else.

♍︎ the ache is the pursuit of a perfection that doesn't exist. you’ve treated your life like a machine that needed constant fixing, feeling the weight of every flaw. your medicine is the grace of the mess. you find the sacred in the glitch and the holy in the error. you teach us that we aren't projects to be finished, but flowers that are allowed to bloom and fade at their own pace.

♎︎ the wound is the broken mirror of the "other." you sought your reflection in people who couldn't see you, losing your own silhouette in the process of keeping the peace. your healing is the discovery of the "self" within the "we." you become the true diplomat who knows that harmony is only real when it includes your own voice. you are the bridge that finally leads back to you.

♏︎ the ache is the sting of betrayal and the fear of the abyss. you’ve touched the parts of life that most people pretend don't exist. your wound is deep, but so is your power. you are the alchemist of the zodiac, turning the lead of your trauma into the gold of your wisdom. you don't just survive the dark; you own it, showing us that the only way out is through.

♐︎ the wound is in the loss of meaning. you felt like a wanderer with a broken compass, searching for a truth that always seemed one horizon away. your healing is the realization that the journey was the answer. you become the philosopher of the lived experience, teaching us that god isn't a destination, but the fire in your lungs as you climb the mountain.

♑︎ the ache is the heavy crown of responsibility. you felt the pressure to be the "adult" before you were ever a child, carrying the world on your shoulders until they bruised. your healing is the softening of your own structure. you are the leader who leads with a heart, not just a plan. you show the world that true success is measured by how much peace you’ve built, not how many summits you’ve conquered.

♒︎ the wound is the isolation of the outlier. you felt like a ghost in the collective, the one who saw the future but was stuck in the past. your ache is the loneliness of the visionary. your medicine is the community you create for the "misfits." you are the one who proves that being "different" is the only way to truly belong to the human race.

♈︎: they’ll slam the door so hard the whole street hears it. they don’t really do sad, they do mad. you’ll probably see them at the gym an hour later hitting a new pr just to sweat you out of their system. by tomorrow morning, they’ve already moved on to the next mission. zero traces left.

♉︎: a literal stone wall. they won't argue, they won't beg. they just lock the gate to their world and you’re officially stuck outside. they’ll go home, order the most expensive takeout, and wrap themselves in a weighted blanket. you’re not just rejected; you’re erased from the inventory.

♊︎: they’ll laugh it off with a "yeah, i wasn't really feeling it anyway lol." then they'll call three different friends to narrate the whole thing like a podcast episode. their brain is a 24/7 news cycle trying to figure out the plot twist until they just get bored and find someone new to talk to.

♋︎: it’s the eyes. that "how could you?" look that actually makes you feel like the bad guy. they’ll go full hermit mode, put on a sad playlist, and drown in the nostalgia of what could’ve been. they don’t just get rejected; they mourn the entire alternate reality they built for you.

♌︎: "me? rejected? in this outfit?" they’ll give you a polite, terrifyingly calm smile and walk away like they just won an award. but once they’re home, it’s a full theatrical performance of heartbreak. then they’ll post a photo looking ten times better than usual. purely for the plot.

♍︎: they start a mental spreadsheet of what went wrong. "well, the logic didn't track anyway." they’ll go home and scrub the kitchen floor or reorganize their entire digital life. they fix the environment because they can't fix the rejection. it’s all about regaining control of the details.

♎︎: the most "it’s totally fine, don't worry about it!" person ever. they’ll even try to make you feel comfortable for rejecting them. but then they’ll spend hours wondering which part of their vibe was "off." they just want the harmony back, even if they have to fake it.

♏︎: the vibe goes sub-zero. they won't say a word, they’ll just look through you like you're made of glass. you’ve been deleted from the mainframe. they go into a dark room, listen to something heavy, and come out a completely different person who genuinely doesn't know who you are.

♐︎: "okay cool, anyway, i’m going to that new place. they don't have time to sit in the feelings. they’ll turn the rejection into a hilarious story at a bar an hour later. they’re already halfway to the next adventure before you’ve even finished your sentence. no hard feelings, just no time.

♑︎: total ceo energy. they’ll just nod, say "noted," and walk away with zero expression. then they’ll put in ten extra hours of work or start a new project just to prove they’re the prize. they don't get even, they just get more successful than you'll ever be.

♒︎: they look at you like you’re a weird science experiment. "interesting choice, but okay." they detach so fast it’s actually scary. they’ll go home and dive into some obscure rabbit hole or talk to their group chat about the future. you’re just a data point that didn't fit the graph.

8th house ruler in the 1st your body is a walking evidence of everything you’ve survived. having this planet in your first house means you can’t hide your intensity even if you try. people usually feel a bit of a chill or a magnetic pull when you walk into a room because you carry the weight of the underworld in your very skin. your life is a series of total self-reinventions where you have to shed your old skin just to stay alive. you aren't here to be light or easy; you’re here to show the world what it looks like to be completely honest with yourself.

8th house ruler in the 2nd your relationship with money and self-worth is never simple. you might find that your finances are deeply tied to other people’s drama or that your income fluctuates according to life’s biggest shifts. you have this raw gut instinct for what things are actually worth after all the fluff is stripped away. the real shift happens when you realize that your survival doesn't depend on what you own but on the resilience you’ve built in your bones. you are the architect of a foundation that can withstand any storm.

8th house ruler in the 3rd you probably heard things you weren't supposed to hear when you were a kid. your mind is naturally tuned to the frequency of secrets and the stuff people try to hide with small talk. you’re the detective of your own circle and you have a way of seeing the "why" behind every text and every conversation. your voice is a tool for cutting through the bullshit. your evolution happens through the way you communicate the heavy stuff and turn your psychological deep dives into a language that actually helps people heal.

8th house ruler in the 4th the basement is literally under your feet. so much of your transformative energy is buried in the roots of your family tree and the private memories of your childhood. you are the one who inherited the ghosts and the unspoken family secrets. it’s a heavy job being the emotional keeper of the lineage but it gives you a profound sense of inner grit. your mission is to heal the ancestral baggage and realize that your home is a sanctuary where you finally have the power to break the cycle.

8th house ruler in the 5th your creative spark is born from the ashes. you don't do anything just for the hell of it; your art, your romances, and the way you play are all high-stakes. you’re drawn to intense soul-mergers that change the way you see yourself and your joy is often a hard-won victory. you have a talent for turning your deepest pain into something beautiful and visceral. you truly land in your own heart when you realize that your passion is allowed to be deep and that your inner child is strongest when it’s allowed to be totally raw and real.

8th house ruler in the 6th you find the sacred in the wreckage of the everyday. your daily routine and your physical health are the places where you deal with your biggest psychological shifts. you might find yourself drawn to work that deals with crisis, healing, or managing the messy parts of human nature. your body is a barometer for your soul and you have to learn how to manage your energy before it manages you. your real work is turning your chores into rituals and realizing that being of service is the way you actually heal your own spirit.

8th house ruler in the 7th your relationships are a series of soul contracts. you don't do casual friends; every person you get close to is a catalyst for a total rebirth. you might be drawn to partners who have a lot of baggage or who bring a certain level of intensity that forces you to change. the real breakthrough occurs when you realize that a partnership is a place for transformation, not just comfort. your greatest love story is the one where you stop losing yourself in the other and start using the mirror they provide to finally see your own strength.

8th house ruler in the 8th you are the gatekeeper of the deep end. having the ruler in its own house makes you an expert in the taboo, the hidden, and the raw truth. you don't blink in the dark and you’re usually the one people call when the floor falls out because you’re the only one who isn't afraid. your life is a constant evolution and you handle the heavy lifting of the psyche with zero hesitation. you’re at your best when you’re stripping everything back to its essence and realizing that your absolute honesty is the only thing that actually matters.

8th house ruler in the 9th your philosophy is a map of the abyss. you don't care about abstract theories unless they’ve been tested in the furnace of real life. you find your biggest shifts through travel, higher education, or a deep spiritual quest that takes you far from home. you’re the one who goes into the shadows and comes back with a story that gives everyone else hope. your evolution happens when you realize that your trauma was actually a pilgrimage and that your wisdom is the only thing that can never be taken away from you.

8th house ruler in the 10th your transformations are visible to everyone. your career and your reputation are deeply tied to your ability to handle a crisis or to manage things that other people are too afraid to touch. you carry a public image of depth and authority and people look to you when the world is shaking because you look like you’ve been there before. your professional breakthroughs often come after a total collapse. you land on your feet when you realize that your public legacy is built on the private resilience you’ve earned in the dark.

8th house ruler in the 11th your tribe is the catalyst for your evolution. you might find that your social circles are where you experience your biggest psychological shifts or that your friends are the ones who push you to transform. you have a gift for seeing the hidden power dynamics in a group and you’re often involved in collectives that deal with deep social change. you find your place in the world when you realize that your personal intensity is part of a much larger collective shift and that your spark can ignite a whole movement for the future.

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Fourth House Aries

Someone once loved you by arriving fast. Shoes still on, voice already loud, hands already solving something. Affection sounded like urgency and protection looked like motion. Now you notice who enters a room first. Who chooses quickly, who does not hesitate at thresholds. When a lover moves slowly, you grow uneasy. You start inventing fires just to watch someone come running. Some part of you still believes love proves itself by speed.

Fourth House Taurus

There is a chair in your memory. Heavy, wide, impossible to tip. Someone used to sit there every evening, or maybe no one ever did, and the absence taught you the shape of what you would later crave. Now you look for voices that do not wobble, hands that feel like oak, routines that return without asking. You don’t trust people who change their mind too easily. Your body is still searching for furniture.

Fourth House Gemini

“…and then what did you say?” “…did you hear me?” “…I was trying to tell you—”

Love first reached you through sentences. Through someone who explained the world to you, or through someone who never quite finished listening. Now attraction begins in the throat. You fall in love with timing, with wit, with the way someone remembers the exact word you used last week. When silence lasts too long, your chest tightens. Conversation is not what you want. You want the moment when someone finally looks up and says, I’m still here. I’m paying attention.

Fourth House Cancer

Today’s forecast: soft rain inside the house. Someone once noticed your moods before you learned their names. Or no one did, and you became your own climate. Now you choose lovers who read the temperature of a room without checking the thermostat. Who bring blankets before you ask. Who sense when something is about to break. When someone misses your sadness, it feels like abandonment. You are still waiting for a home that knows when to turn the lights down.

Fourth House Leo

There is a picture you return to without realizing. You, smaller. Someone kneeling in front of you. Eyes warm. Smile proud. Or the space where that moment should have been. Now you fall in love with faces that brighten when you enter. With laughter that turns toward you. With people who make your presence feel like an event. Being overlooked hurts more than rejection. Some part of you is still asking the room: Am I the one you came to see?

Fourth House Virgo

Step one: be useful. Step two: do not complain. Step three: love arrives after everything is done.

Someone once loved you by correcting you, or only loved you when you were easy. Now you offer devotion through precision. You remember birthdays, you fix their problems, you organize the chaos before anyone notices. Receiving still feels like stealing. Care is the only language you were taught.

Fourth House Libra

In your first house of love, nobody stood alone. Every feeling was adjusted to keep the dance smooth. Anger softened, voices lowered, truth postponed. Now you fall in love with balance. With people who move gently around conflict. Who hold silence like glass. Who never tilt the room too far. When tension appears, your body forgets how to breathe. Somewhere inside, a child is still keeping the music from stopping.

Fourth House Scorpio

There was a door you were not allowed to open, or one you were forced to. Love first came wrapped in secrecy, intensity, loyalty that felt dangerous to test. Now you are drawn to eyes that recognize you too quickly, to bonds that feel irreversible, to closeness that carries weight. Surface happiness leaves you cold. You trust what has survived fire.

Fourth House Sagittarius

Your first love had an exit. Suitcases, stories, philosophies about why staying was impossible. Or a house that taught you to raise yourself. Now you fall in love with motion. With people who laugh at gravity, who make commitment sound like a road trip. Stillness feels like punishment. Somewhere, a child is still watching someone walk away and turning it into freedom.

Fourth House Capricorn

Love once arrived as structure. Schedules, rules, someone holding the ceiling up so the house would not fall. Or you did. Now you want partners who feel like beams instead of blankets. Reliable, competent, unbreakable. Tenderness makes you nervous. Your heart learned to trust what does not collapse.

Fourth House Aquarius

“I care about you, but I don’t know how to stay close.” Someone loved you from across a principle, a cause, a distance. Affection came with space built into it. Now you fall in love with originality, with detachment, with people who never ask too much. Intensity feels like a trap. Your nervous system still remembers that closeness can vanish without warning.

Fourth House Pisces

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If you have Mercury in Gemini or in the 3rd house in your birth chart, dialogue is your sharpest weapon. When you write, your dialogues feel alive, fast, and real. Your words move like people do - interrupting, circling, revealing.

Genres: contemporary fiction, coming-of-age novels, satire, romance with strong dialogue, screenwriting for movies and theatre pieces.

If your Moon and/or Mercury are in Pisces, or they make aspects with Neptune, you don’t write stories - you dissolve into them. Your strength lies in the emotional atmosphere, longing, memory, and loss. You write what can’t be said out loud.

Genres: poetry, literary fiction, magical realism, emotional drama.

If you have Pluto or the Moon in the 8th house, your writing has the power to transform people. You’re drawn to taboo, grief, obsession, rebirth. Your stories don’t comfort - they change your readers.

Genres: psychological fiction, dark romance, thriller, trauma narratives.

If your Sun or Mercury is in Aries/1st house, your stories move fast. Conflict is your fuel, and your characters act before they think.

Genres: action, adventure, dystopia, survival stories.

If your Venus is in Libra/4th house or Taurus/2nd house, you might love to write about beauty. About relationships, aesthetics, longing, softness. Your plots and words feel like a soft touch.

Genres: romance, slice of life, slow burn, aesthetic fiction.

⟢ More astrology observations on writers coming soon.

1. Slow down at emotionally important moments.

Big emotions need space to land. If a scene feels rushed, pause the plot briefly to show how the moment affects the character.

2. Add reactions, not explanations.

Instead of explaining what a character feels, show it through physical responses, hesitation, or small actions that reveal emotion naturally.

3. Ground every scene in the senses.

If a scene feels thin, add one or two sensory details—sound, texture, smell, or temperature—to make the moment feel lived-in.

4. Let thoughts interrupt action.

A line of internal thought can deepen a scene without slowing it too much. Thoughts show stakes, fear, longing, or conflict beneath the action.

5. Expand consequences, not events.

You don’t need more things to happen—you need to show what matters. Focus on how events change relationships, decisions, or self-perception.

6. Strengthen setting where emotion peaks.

The environment should echo or contrast the emotion of the scene. Setting is not decoration—it’s emotional reinforcement.

7. Add specific details instead of general ones.

Underwriting often relies on vague language. Swap “they argued” for one sharp line of dialogue or a specific breaking point.

8. Let dialogue breathe.

Short dialogue exchanges without pauses can feel flat. Add beats—silence, gestures, interruptions—to give the conversation weight.

9. Show transitions between scenes.

If scenes jump too quickly, readers feel disoriented. A brief transition helps establish time, mood, and emotional continuity.

10. Clarify stakes early in the scene.

If readers don’t know what can be lost, scenes feel empty. Make sure the character wants something specific and fears losing it.

11. Use the “what are they feeling right now?” check.

After each major beat, ask what emotion is dominant in that moment. If it’s missing on the page, the scene is likely underwritten.

12. Expand scenes that feel “too clean.”

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