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In recent years, the rise of social media platforms has democratized content creation, allowing individuals from all walks of life to share their creativity, talents, and stories with a global audience. While the allure of fame, influence, and financial success may be enticing, there exists a darker underbelly to the world of content creation that is often overlooked. Behind the glamorous facade…

35 Priceless Life Lessons: Reflections on My 35th Birthday As I stand at the threshold of my 35th year, I can’t help but feel a sense of gratitude for the rollercoaster ride life has been so far. Through moments of joy, challenges, and growth, I’ve gathered invaluable life lessons that have shaped me into the person I am today. As I celebrate this milestone, I’d like to share 35 priceless life…

In May I was laid off from my new job after only being there for 3 months. I was more mad that they had me work all day and then let me go at the end of my shift after I had put a lot of time and effort into creating a knowledge base (which I deleted when I figured out what was happening). This layoff was not done in a fair way and was very shady. Nonetheless, I held my head high and accepted…

Love is unconditional, and it’s amazing how much love you can feel for your child. You can survive on less sleep than you ever thought possible. Every child is different, and what works for one may not work for another. Patience is a must-have skill when raising children. Children have a unique way of teaching us to see the world through their eyes. Time and stress management becomes a…

Don’t date someone with bipolar disorder…I see it all the time online. But why not? Not all of us are terrible to be around but it can be difficult dating someone who has bipolar disorder; especially when you do not understand the disorder. Yes, it is a severe mental condition (I do not like to use mentally ill) but it is totally possible to live a fulfilling and functional life and have healthy…

Motherhood is often portrayed as a time of joy and fulfillment, but the reality is that it can be a challenging, stressful, and sometimes traumatic experience. One of the biggest challenges that mothers face is maintaining good mental health. In this blog post, I will discuss the importance of maternal mental health, the common mental health issues that mothers face, and strategies for promoting…

A Step-by-Step Guide that will have you ready for your first day in no time! Working from home has become increasingly popular in recent years thanks to Covid destroying everything in its’ path. Today in 2023 more and more companies offer their employees the flexibility to work from anywhere. Some companies however have forced their employees to return back to the office. If you’re one of the…

Being a work-from-home mom can be a rewarding and challenging experience. There are many benefits to working from home, such as the flexibility to set your own hours, the opportunity to spend more time with your family, and the potential to save money on childcare. However, there are also some challenges, such as the need to stay organized and disciplined, the potential for isolation, and the…

Back at it again!

Aww yes! It has been a good almost 11ish years since I held down a regular job that didn’t involve me being an entrepreneur. I was apart of the mommy drain (not returning back to work after having a baby). After establishing several successful businesses and a good chunk of my kiddos are going to school, I often wondered if I would ever return back to the corporate world? especially after I…

The best wig for lazy mamas

*Sponsored Post* *Sponsored Post* I chopped my past shoulder length hair off 2 years ago. Since then I have chopped it off two more times switching up the style. My goal for 2021 was to grow my hair back out. I learned a lot about my natural hair these past two years and I found that I was doing too much to it. I have always loved wigs even when my hair was long. I love them because when I want…

My previous mental healthcare provider for a lack of better words was complete shit. I have wasted 2 years of my time with them. I recently became fed up with them and started to look for a new doctor. I came across this service called Cerebral. They basically offer virtual mental health services for a monthly fee * They do not deal with patients who have severe issues*. They have medication…

You would think by the 21st century women would not be slut shamed anymore. Female sexuality has a lot of imposed restrictions and significant negative attitudes about it.  It is no secret I am a very sexual person. I am 32 years old, healthy and energetic. I have always had a high sex drive and it hasn’t slowed down; even after I became a mom. I have been told you shouldn’t post that because you…

End of year reflection: 2020

It has been approximately 364 days since the year started and there are 2 days left in this year. Considering this year is a leap year, there will be 366 days instead of 365 days. Like most people, the year has been a total clusterfuck. I learned that I do not enjoy homeschooling at all. Def kudos to the mamas and pappies that enjoy that shit because I is definitely not for me. However, even…

E is for effort

Sometimes what we are most afraid of, we need the most to get better. The months seem to be speeding up yet going super slow. This shitty year is almost over. I found my mental health all over the place; but generally more good days than bad days. A lot of my recent issues are due to lack of effort.

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ef·​fort | \ ˈe-fərt  , -ˌfȯrt \

Some days it is hard to adult, mom, and wife all…