14 things I learned before turning 14
1. no matter who you are, even if you do good or do bad people will still talk behind your back. they will say stupid shits about you but don't mind them because you know yourself.
2. you will not accomplish anything if you don't start doing.Â
3. there are many more for you to see. this was actually inspired by the cute guys I randomly see in the mall. you'd see a cute guy with a girlfriend and later on a cute guy with no girlfriend. but that doesn't matter the point of this is that if you want to start doing something, then do it. want to learn a new language? do it. want to read a book? do it.
4. time is really gold/important. I've realized that time is really important or as the saying goes, time is gold. do you sleep all the time? why not get up and do something fun? go somewhere. travel. because one day you would realize that you should've done what you wanted earlier. one day you can't do what you wanted because you're too busy or too old.
5. give all the best you can, like all the time. if you have an exam or test, give all your best. study and review for it. you'd be happy on what you've accomplished. I, myself, is studying hard right now because I wanted to make my mother proud and I'm giving all the best I can because I know I can.
6. procrastinating is a bitch. well, this is like kinda the same with number 2 but whatever. procrastination is a bitch. we all experience this. we have to do something but then there's your phone, grabbing your attention. but a better way to stop this is to not mind it. like, if you are studying, then start studying. put your phone down. and set your mind on studying.
7. being insecure kills. insecurity is a really huge problem we all have. we need to admit that we're insecure. we need to admit that nobody in this world is perfect. those ig models? they have insecurities too. the kardashians? they have insecurities. but what I'm saying is if we continue to be insecure, it'd suddenly be our sickness. we'd have no confidence at all. if you want to change your profile picture, go ahead and don't compare yourself with others. i wanted to be a youtuber for years now but i cant bc I'm insecure as fuck. i compare myself to others.
8. being brave is the most important thing. for me, being brave is really important. if I'm not brave, then I was probably gone like a long time ago. whenever people say stuff about me, ofc sometimes id be depressed but in the end I need to be brave for myself. my mom works abroad and I need to be brave for myself and study hard. I have a broken family. so what? it's just me. it's my life. I need to brave enough to carry on.
9. don't be the person people hate. people in my school "hates" me for being too loud or noisy. they hate me just for that. but I'm changing, I swear i don't shout on corridors anymore. i try my best for them not to hate me because tbh who wants to be hated. this like me being insecure t myself haahha but whatever.
10. being different is unique. every people in this world is different. you are different and unique. we all have different attitudes and hobbies and that is unique.
11. if you know it's wrong, stay away. if you know what your "friends" are doing is wrong and they influence you to do what they're doing, stay away from them. they're not your friends. according to number three, there are many more for you to see. those "friends" will ofc talk shit abt you after drifting away from them but tbh who cares? theyre doing the wrong thing. staying away from them is best for you. just saying.
12. you're the one who chooses the people around you. choose wisely. if you have insecure friends then obv, you'd be insecure too. the people around you affects you so much you just don't realize that.
13. get out of your comfort zone. according to logan paul, #logang4life hahah, anyways according to him, be a maverick. try something new. take the risk even if it's wrong. I'm not saying do freaking illegal drugs or smoke or drink alcohol. like if you don't know the answers on the exam, try to cheat once in a while. getting out of your comfort zone is fun.
14. set up your goals. starting from now plan for your future. if you want to be youtuber, plan for it. if you want to start travelling, plan for it. start planning on how you to save money. what job you want, what course you want to get, and many more.
i hope i made sense. if some of my grammar's wrong, soz. I'm really not that good in English so whatevs ahehe.