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Mood:

“Real submission starts when you no longer want the key to your chastity cage”

Kink is so connection based and individual from partner to partner it’s amazing.  I tend to actively dislike and shy away from the harsher more degrading language but my allowed sexting boytoy months back had a much deeper fetish in this arena and as we navigated our boundaries and got more used to each other one night he hit me up a needy mess already stroking and leaking.  My attention was immediately yanked from whatever it was I had been doing and my vision narrowed down with a distinctly predatory glint.  I hit the button and purred out audio and pushed ruthlessly.  Whatever long edging he was working on and planning was wrecked and he was pleading and unthinking my voice both approving and mocking I told him he was such a little bitch for me while saying… lord I don’t even remember the other dirty talk.  I just remember the sheepish struck by lightning response after, “I couldn’t help it, I came.”  We kind of were both gobsmacked.  I was like “Hmm… didn’t know that was in there…” and he wanted to make sure I was cool with it while going “FUCK YES!!! WOOHOO!!”  

not to harp on this point but the care with which a girl you’ve known for maybe three weeks will ask you “what’s wrong?” if you look even mildly distressed is more emotional labor than you’d receive from any man over the course of six lunar cycles