Only Dream i Ever Have

Tears. Every single time.

This breaks my heart so much. I can’t imagine the pain.

Oh dear lord shutup. You have absolutely no idea why your mother did that it is NONE of your business.

My mother had to terminate a pregnancy when she was 15, she had to tell her father - who was in parliament - and go down to the states in 1981 to even get the procedure because she couldn’t get it done in her small home town here in Canada; going down there was the closest and least conspicuous place for her to get it done. Seeing people say this sort of bullshit sickens me, especially knowing what my mom went through, and knowing that 34 years later she still has no regrets and knows it was the right thing to do. I don’t care that I could have another sibling, because I don’t. I probably wouldn’t be alive if she had actually decided to go through with pregnancy or decided to keep them, because she probably wouldn’t have moved away from home, and wouldn’t have met my father or little brother’s. It is my mother’s body, it does not break my heart thinking of all this “what if” bullshit, what breaks my heart is knowing how terrified my mom was because she was a young pregnant teenager. By the way it sounds, none of these people know why their parent went through with the abortion, and with how judgmental they’re being and that they’re making themselves a victim to something that has nothing to do with them, I’m not surprised they weren’t told why, because clearly these people don’t care for their own parents’ well-being. I am so fuming with rage right now, i can’t believe these people are making their selves out to be the victim in something their parents’ had to go through

I’m so sorry, cultureshift, that your mother has a child as selfish as you. She chose to carry you, raise you, care for you, and you publicly shame and spit on her. If you were my child, I’d consider you an incredible disappointment.

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Honestly it sounds like your mom should have aborted you and kept the sibling.

How disgusting to reduce your mother to nothing but your own incubator.  

For when people say they’re sick of seeing gay stuff everywhere. Suck it up. 4 years. 4 years. And that’s just on the books, it’s legal. It doesn’t stop shitty attitudes, actions, or straight up violence.