Untitled

Two Ways to Easily Eat Your Own Cum

I’m going to get a little science-y here, but not too much. I’ve been reading about orgasm anatomy a bit, and trying to understand what it is that I do that makes it very easy to eat, and more importantly enjoy, my cum. The words “edging” and “ruined” get thrown around a lot, and based on my observation, they tend to mean different things to different people.

So let’s talk about cumming. First, there’s the basic stages of the “male orgasm”: arousal, plateau, orgasm, resolution/refraction. Arousal is the erection, plateau is the approach to orgasm, and orgasm is when your body begins involuntary muscle spasms that shoot hot cum out of your penis. When it comes to my preferred method of cum-eating, this is all we need to know. But first, let’s get the first one out of the way.

Method 1: Self-Facial

This one is probably pretty familiar to anyone following this blog. Hitch your butt up onto a wall beside your bed, aim your cock at your mouth, and let ‘er rip. In my experience, this works well, but isn’t very comfortable. It’s basically like hanging upside down with your back bent as far as you can go like you’re a prisoner at Guantanamo Bay. But it does work - the cum gets into your mouth quick enough to enjoy during the brief orgasm phase. The taste is pleasurable in that moment, and I’ve found that once you get a bit into your mouth, you can override the “gag reflex” that you might experience otherwise. Looking at a handful of cum after orgasm isn’t very appetizing. But a mouthful of cum during orgasm is very easy to swallow.

This method requires you to have some flexibility though, and we’re not all that lucky. So I have a better method.

Method 2: Edge and Ooze

When we talk about “edging”, we refer to “getting as close to cumming as possible, but not cumming”. In medical terms, this means staying in the plateau phase of orgasm. Your body hits a “point of no return” upon stimulation that is not well understood by experts. It’s a combination of hormones, nerves and all of that. For you, what you need to learn is where that line is for your body. This takes practice and attention.

When you cross the “point of no return” involuntary muscles take over: spasms in the muscles of your pelvic floor, penile muscles, anal sphincter contractions (this is why cumming with a dildo or cock in your ass feels so great). This is great, ordinarily… but not so great if you want to lap up your cum like a greedy slut. Once the involuntary spasms are over, you go into the refractory phase, and your sexy-time hormones go away, and the idea of eating cum doesn’t seem so great anymore. This is a VERY common complaint that features in many CEI videos. Cum-plaint. OK. Carrying on…

There are two main muscle contractions you can do in your pelvic area: Tighten up, and push out. You know what I mean, I hope. Tighten up muscles make your cock move and your asshole squeeze shut. Push out relaxes your asshole (pushing out anything in there like a dildo or a giant, lubed plug). This voluntary muscle contraction can also be used to push urine out faster/harder when you’re peeing. Try it next time you’re in the washroom - your body knows how to do it, but try it and remember how it feels.

Back to the cum-eating. What you can practice doing is “getting to the edge of orgasm”… and before you cross the “point of no return”, take your hand off your cock, stop squeezing your Tighten Up muscles (you’re often doing this when you jerk off without even realizing it), and start squeezing your Push Out muscles. You won’t piss on yourself; your body closes off the bladder with a sphincter muscle when you’re approaching orgasm, so even if you “push the pee harder” you won’t pee. What you will do, though, is force a LOT of semen through your urethra and out the tip of your cock. Your body was getting it all ready for the Big O, and just before you got there, you quit. But the cum is there, ready to go. Using the opposite muscle contractions can squeeze it out of your cock.

This takes practice, and I usually have to hit the edge and squeeze those muscles 2-4 times before it starts working. It basically never works the first time, so don’t be discouraged. Once you’ve done it a few times, though, you’ll get very good at it (I can do it at will now… although sometimes I mess up and hit orgasm if I’m impatient and go too fast). Once, I even oozed this way 3 consecutive times without orgasm. The third time was just a few drops; I was totally emptied and hasn’t actually hit orgasm. You better believe I slurped up that HUGE load that was practically spilling out of my hand. I came right after that, with half the load still in my mouth, the rest in my belly. One tip though: ONLY use the push out muscles. Even if the cum is pouring out of you, do NOT switch back to the tighten up muscles (for eg. you may want to contract those muscles to get the last few drops out - don’t!). This could trigger an unwanted orgasm, depending on how close you were.

A real full-body workout performed by an athlete with a goal in mind induces maximal muscle contraction with heavy weights, allows for full recovery so you can grow and still train hard, and prevents the inevitable burnout caused by over training.

Professional Tai Chi Swords on: http://www.icnbuys.com/tai-chi-swords

I tried to dig up as many resources and tutorials as possible from old master posts and normals posts as a lot of people have been complaining about the lack of resource posts for trans women. If you have anything to add please go ahead

CLOTHES ETC

Fashion71 (F/M)

ClothingUnder10 

$5 Fashions 

TenFifteen 

TenDollarMall (F/M) (No international shipping)

Eastclothes 

Gojane 

Dresslink 

Moddeals 

dress lily 

sammy dress

brave store 

viejos amores

chiara fashion 

love culture 

ami club wear 

fashion 71

east clothes

Miss A  (Accessory/makeups $1 shop)

glitter  Accessory/makeups

kmms  Accessory/makeups

mba cosmetics  Accessory/makeups

Cheap makeup (ELF)

MAKEUP TUTORIALS ETC

How to hide stubble (Tumblr post)

How to Contour and Highlight Using Makeup (video)

How to Apply Eyeliner with a Spoon (video)

How to Apply Foundation (video)

How to Apply Blush (video)

How to Apply Eyeshadow (video)

tutorials for beginners

quality makeup for less money

choosing foundation

ask mod li about makeu

How to apply makeup for the absolute beginner

 [trans-specific, p. useful]

Foundation for Dark Skin (2) (3) What products are and how they are used

A brand that makes products specifically designed to go over stubble

What brushes do what

, 

(2)

How to Choose Foundation

How To Apply Eyeliner (Using Tape)

WIGS

amphigory

lock shop

funny wig

quality low budget wigs

cute hairstyles on pinterest

more cute short femme hair

hairstyle guide & beauty

GL Wigs

Wowwigs

Arda Wigs

Wig Salon

Hairbird

Others (in list format from a myriad of sources)

TUCKING

tucking and creating gaffe [video] 

tucking forum and thread 

Tucking How-to Guide

BREASTFORMS

sewing pattern for silicone bead forms

low budget diy breast forms [video] 

creating cleavage with bras [video] 

“illusion” cleavage with makeup [video] 

Realistic Breast Form Tutorial (Video)

The Breast Form Store

Cheap (Sale) Breast Forms

Breast Form Adhesive Discs (For wearing breast forms without mastectomy bra)

How to create cleavage using a silicone bra (video)

Measuring Bra Size for Trans Women

Mastectomy Bras with Built In Flap for Breast Forms

Breast Form Adhesive Discs (For wearing breast forms without mastectomy bra)

How to make home made breast forms

amoena

OTHER

Women’s Clothing Terminology Chrysalis (Lingerie for Trans Women, autoplay music) Cheap Control/Shaping Briefs TheLeelahProject (Provides free essentials to those who cannot afford them)

surgery booklet 

hrt booklet

Trans Health Matters: Trans Women

Bust enlarging pads

Bum enlarging shapers

Transgender advice and resources list

A real full-body workout performed by an athlete with a goal in mind induces maximal muscle contraction with heavy weights, allows for full recovery so you can grow and still train hard, and prevents the inevitable burnout caused by over training.

Professional Tai Chi Swords on: http://www.icnbuys.com/tai-chi-swords

Here is a post that AMAB trans folks might find useful. It is about how to do your makeup, feminize your voice, where to buy wigs etc. 

Note 1: I have not used the shops listed myself, so I cannot give a review on them. Use the websites at your own risk and I cannot be held responsible for anything.  

Note 2: Some of these resources are aimed at crossdressers, or crossdressers along with trans people. I am not lumping AMAB trans folks with cross dressers but I do feel that the resources could be helpful, thus they are included.

Note 3: This post contains information on how to “pass.”  (I’m not a fan of the concept of passing) This post is not trying to make you into the cis world’s idea of a “perfect woman” but instead to give those who want resources for things that will make them feel more comfortable what they want. Remember, if you do all of these, some of these, or none of these it does not make you any more or less of your gender.

Wigs and hair

http://www.wig-supplier.com/ 

http://www.thebreastformstore.co.uk/ 

http://www.annabelleswigs.co.uk/ 

http://www.josephs-wigs.com/ 

http://www.hothair.co.uk/ 

http://www.ewigs.co.uk/ 

http://www.jonrenau.com/ 

How to make short hair look feminine

Hairstyle mistakes to avoid 

Hairstyles that take less than 10 minutes

How to do a french side plait

Makeup 

http://www.eyeslipsface.com/ 

http://www.superdrug.com/ 

http://www.illamasqua.com/

Make up tips for AMAB folks

Make up mistakes to avoid 

Make up tips

How to choose the right foundation

How to feminize your face

Covering facial hair

1950’s makeup tutorial

Voice

Voice feminization video

Voice feminization mistakes to avoid

Feminization voice lesson  1 (Her other lessons can be found on her channel) 

Feminization voice tips

Girl talk. The transgender guide for voice and feminization (also talks about behaviors)

Chest 

Breast Forms

Tape for creating cleavage 

Breast forms

Breast enhancers

Breast forms

Breast forms

Making your silicone bead forms

Finding your bra size

Bras for under $10

Rice bra (A clever and cheap idea!)

Accessories

Jewellery for £5 and under

Hair clips, accessories and brushes for £5 and under

Not badly priced bags

Alternative accessories

Affordable accessories

More affordable accessories

Clothing

http://www.longtallsally.com/

http://www.tallgirls.co.uk/ (does footwear in bigger sizes too)

Dressing Emo/Scene for Trans girls

Trans clothing swap

Doreen (They are an actual physical shop that you can visit too!)

What to wear if you’re broad shouldered

Plus size clothing

http://www.katesclothing.co.uk/ (gothic)

http://www.tkmaxx.com/page/home

Underwear/tucking

Gaffs in sizes up to XXXL

Padded panties

Padded panties

Padded panties

Padded panties

Gaff

Gaff

Tucking

3 different ways to tuck

Movment

Walking like a woman

Walking like a woman in flats and heels

Feminine body language part 1

Feminine body language part 2

Feminine movement mistakes to avoid

Shoes

Best shoes for AMAB folks

Heels in bigger sizes

Isy B- Search tool for feminine shoes in bigger sizes

Payless-Does women’s shoes up to size 13 at affordable prices