SadoMae

I will decide your sleep schedule, what and when you eat, so that you won't forget to take care of your health.

I will decide where we go and what we do, so you only have to relax and enjoy.

I will decide what you wear, and give you codes. Code 1 for slutty, 2 for sexy, 3 for classy. I will tell you which code you'll need for every day and for every occasion. You will only deal with the best part: having fun shopping according to My preferences.

I will decide how you speak, how you refer to Me, how you refer to yourself, what tone and choice of words you use.

I will decide what you think, how you feel, and your opinions about everything, including your own life and memories.

I will decide how you act, how you move, how you walk and how you present yourself to Me.

I will decide what housework and chores you take care of, and what exercice routine you follow.

I will decide when you're free to watch your favorite shows and pursue your hobbies, after I've approved of them.

I will decide how you edge, what will turn you on from now on, what mantras you'll repeat daily, how you train your holes for Me, and what porn you watch.

I will decide how you serve Me, cook for Me, help Me relax, show off and dance for Me, entertain Me, humiliate yourself for Me, soothe Me, be cute and silly for Me, and how you suck My cock and take it in every last one of your holes.

I will decide how I punish you, praise you, train you, discipline you, reward you and encourage you.

I will decide what slave you are for Me each day; the bimbo fucktoy, the cute soothing puppy, the worthless cumrag, the abuse whore, the cum dump, the leashed pet, the housewife, the slutty maid, the club hoe, or Daddy's girl.

I will decide everything.

I will decide, so you can be free.

Free of the worries and stress and responsibilities you never should've had as a woman.

Free to be happy, and horny, and silly, and fulfilled.

I have three holes, but only one of them is meant to be filled. Only one holds any biological purpose. Only one was designed to grip and squeeze and pull you deeper. Only one makes me feel good when it's full and desperately empty when it's not.

When you deny me that, when you use my mouth and ass instead, holes that serve you but do so little for me, it really is the ultimate form of denial. I'm being fucked, technically, but the part of me that needs it most is ignored, wet and useless.

The first thing to note is that...

This is going to Hurt.

That fact cannot be shied away from. Pain, even for masochists, hurts. There is a tolerance to how much someone can take, and ways to engage with that tolerance. You will need to learn how each masochist takes pain, and potentially even teach them how to manage and endure it.

So you've got a paddle and a tied up piece of masochistic meat, or perhaps you're using your hand and it's bent over your knee, or perhaps it's cuffed to a cross and you've got a whip, or perhaps you've got a knife or needles or... well by now I've laboured the point enough.

How do you get the most out of your meat?

Start slow. Hit them slowly and rhythmically, building up in intensity every few hits, and when they tense too much or start struggling to breathe or can't stop themselves from making too much noise, slow down again.

Your aim is to warm up the meat so that it can get used to the pain, and once it's used to the pain you can intensify it. Climb up, drop down, and climb back up again. Vary the strike location, but remember that locations you haven't hit as much will need warming up too. The more skilfully it's done, the more you'll get to hit it.

On the subject of their breathing, tension, and noises, you'll want to pay attention to these as you hit them. As you hit them, their breathing will try to get sharp and shallow. Their muscles will try to contract to harden against the impact, and they'll make noises as reactions to your hits. Encourage them to keep their breathing steady and calm, and they'll take the hits better. Encourage them to relax so that the impact dissipates into their flesh instead of getting caught in their tension and you can hit them harder while hurting them less. Listen for moans of pleasure if they're so inclined, and encourage them to verbalise their pain, intentionally responding to pain verbally will help them endure it. Let them calm themselves between your hits, and they'll feel like they can take it and let you push them harder.

Watch how they react, but be aware that you may need to soothe or goad them. Try different things: Hold your off-hand on their shoulder so that they can brace against you. Praise them for each hit you've delivered. Tell them they can take more for you. Tease them. Rub them while they catch their breath and tell them how happy you are with them for taking it. Be verbal, but don't expect responses unless they enjoy responding. Pay attention to what helps them calm.

Once you've got the hang of these things, you can begin to play with them and challenge them: forbid them from making noise. Blindfold them so that they can't prepare for the pain. Make them watch you hit them so that they can't help but tense up in response, and play with false swings to mess with their minds. You can be cruel, because you know how it works. You know which moving parts can be shifted, and which must stay still.

Consider also what your masochist wants from being hit: some do not want to be overwhelmed, they want to be guided and hit into a meditative place where they can dissolve into the pain: intense but never too much, and then you can hit them until they're bloody and raw. Others want their pain to push right up to the edge of too much and stay there until they break. They want to cry and scream, and your challenge is to see how cathartic you can make it: break them too quickly and they might not find it satisfying, and neither will you.