SABALI

Когда не намекаешь, а делают. Когда не провоцируешь, а делают. Ведь если кто-то не прикладывает сердце к поступкам, то в них нет настоящих чувств.

‌‌قال الإمام ابن سيرين رحمه الله

" لا تجادل إلا رجلا إن كلمته رجوتَ أن يرجع، فأمّا من كلّمته فجادلك فإياك أن تكلمه"

كتاب الحجة(2,/521).

An Advice for the Students of Knowledge

Al-Imām Îbn Sīrīn رحمه الله said:

“Do not debate except a man whom you hope will retract (from his mistake) if you speak to him.

Now, move with this belief: "If Allah has written it for you, no power on Earth can take it away from you."

I've learned that even if, at first... someone shows effort, care and sincerely pursues you- If Allah says "NO", it will never happen. Human effort can change like the seasons, but Allah's decree never misses its destination. If they want to try but Allah doesn't allow it, they will still leave. But, even if they don't want to, but If it's already written that they are meant for you, Allah will turn their heart back & make a way in ways you never expected.