Ferre accidentally killed Theo last night because Theo did not ask him to stop when he got low on health while they were doing a friendly fight. He was very upset with Theo for not asking him to stop, even though he was low. To which Theo responded that he did not think he needed to [because he believed he was winning lol].
Do I even need to say it? It is the perfect set up for me in particular ☺️.
Theo does not have much experience within the SMP space, so I imagine he would have even less experience in one like Lifesteal. A server that is so open in it's sexuality, and the culture around it as he has only done stuff with people one on one when recording things within Unstable. I also do not imagine that he has very much experience in messing around with people outside of Parrot either, so he is truly out of his depths joining an event like Lifesteal World. Lifesteal World has rules that are even more strict then Lifesteal has to keep people safe when it comes to having sex on the server.
Despite all of the rules in place meant to ensure the safety of everybody on the server, I do think that issues would arise due to the nature of the server and the amount of people with varying levels of experience in an environment of this nature on the server. There are admins who can be called at any point to intervene and disrupt if necessary, but there is only so much that can be done to keep the players on the server as safe as possible. Perhaps I will go in depth further on this topic in the future, for now I will get back to talking about the topic at hand.
I imagine that Theo read the rules over a few times, but I do also believe that his inexperience would cause problems. He does not have a proper understanding of his own limits at times unless it is a hard no, which puts himself and others at risk. There are a few occasions wherein he took part in a scene intense enough to require aftercare that he did not request because he did not think of his tears, or his intensified emotions as little more than an expected consequence of playing an event of this nature.
Ferre is aware and mindful of Theo's lack of experience, because he himself has been a part of servers similar in nature. He is one of the most responsible people in the server in this regard.
It is why he is more gentle with Theo than he is with Mugm or Pili to start. He is uncertain of Theo's limits, he does not know him as intimately as he knows others. As time has passed, Ferre has grown comfortable being meaner and rougher with Theo because he is starting to understand what he is able to handle. Theo trusts Ferre and enjoys what they do together a lot.
Ferre is a perceptive man, he would not be oblivious to Theo's lack of awareness of his own limits, and he would be strict about good communication. I imagine Theo would try his hardest, but he gets carried away when he feels good. Being held down and forced to take whatever Ferre does to him makes him stupid from how much it turns him on lol.
It is a dangerous habit though, it was inevitable that it would become an issue. I cannot think of the details behind what they are doing, but I imagine all stronger fighters are interested in playing with death and respawn mechanics during sex.
This includes Theo, who has only learned that about himself after joining Lifesteal World. Ferre is one of the safest people to experiment with this with because he is responsible and caring with his partners. However, Theo has grown accustomed to simply accepting whatever Ferre may do to him because he has always made him feel good. That in addition to his habit of overindulging creates a dangerous situation in which he got too lost in the pleasure and thrill of being fucked by Ferre on the brink of death to safeword when he actually began to get low.
As a result, Theo ended up dying and scaring Ferre who did not want to take it that far because it was not something they had agreed upon beforehand. Ferre checks in on him and ensures he is alright before lecturing him and expressing his anger. Theo found dying while getting fucked hot, so he does not understand where the issue lies until Ferre explains to him how dangerous it is for all parties when he does not properly communicate. The pleasure either of them may feel in the moment is not worth the risk of someone getting hurt in a way they do not like because he would not properly communicate.
Theo gets a long lecture about the importance of communication. I do think he would be apologetic after Ferre gets it into his head, but I imagine Ferre is quite cautious with him after this incident. But because he is Ferre, he would enjoy ensuring Theo understands his point by being excessive and annoying in how often he does check ins and forces Theo to tell him exactly how he feels before continuing lol.
