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Hey babies and dear Anons šš¼š¤š¤£. Sorry, I felt like Santa Faby for a moment š¤£š¤£š¤£. But anyway š¤£. Welcome to a new āQ&Aā post. Before starting, Iād like to wish Happy Holidays to all of you š. I hope you have nice holidays in the company of the people you love and that you have fun and relax š„°. Have an amazing New Year start as well ā¤. I wish you all a lot of happiness, peace of mind, and good health š. I also thank all of you in advance for your asks, and especially most of you because I was really surprisingly struck by your kindness and overwhelmed by your love š. Thank you with all my heart for the respect and the sweetness of many of you. Those are the types of asks that I answer with even more pleasure than I already normally do. So thank you. I love you guys š¤.
I answered all the asks except the one on the analysis of a song (I donāt wanna spoil by saying which one is š) that youāre gonna have in the next Q&A post, my dear Anon. Forgive me but I didnāt have the time to do that and insert it with these ones. Iām sorry again šš¼.
Hello, dear Anon šš¼š. Iām sorry if it always takes me time to answer your guysā asks š
. Itās because I answer all of them together in one post. Iām sorry š„ŗ.
Hello again, dear Anon šš¼š. Iām so glad youāre one of the few who prefer to protect them and not reveal things that could compromise them. It may sound strange to you, but Iām so proud of you š¤. Iām so proud and happy when I find fellows CS who put their privacy and security first instead of putting them at risk just for clicks and likes š.
Donāt thank me, my dear. Itās always a pleasure for me to answer and help as I can š. Thank you for your kind words and Iām happy you liked it š. A virtual hug and have a wonderful day š„°.
š¤£š¤£š¤£ I love your enthusiasm and thank you very much, my dear Anon š„°. Weāre really happy about that too and weāre looking forward to it š. About your question, no, dear, Iām sorry. Not one where our faces can be seen anyway. Maybe another type of picture, yeah, but not one with that exposure. We care about our privacy a lot š.
Hey to you, dear Anon šš¼š.
*confusion š*, * re-read it 30 more times š§*, *more confusion šµ*
Iām sorry, my dear, believe me š, I really am š, but I donāt know what you mean. You didnāt write it. So, could you please explain to me what you think that line means so that I can understand it too and agree or not with you? Iām really sorry. Please donāt hate me šš¼. I really tried to try to understand what you meant but even though Iād like to, Iām not a mind reader š
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Besides, when I talked about the line āMy kisses are history, they go back a long timeā, I was explaining how it wasnāt about Sandalwood as they wanted us to believe, sinceĀ ShamelessĀ was completed a week before the rehearsal of theĀ SeƱoritaās music video in June and that therefore nothing had happened between them until July 4, 2019, according to their own fake narrative. Iāve never been generic by saying something like āanĀ ex relationship withā. In fact, I think I was pretty explicit in saying thatĀ ShamelessĀ is about Lauren, my dear š.
Hey to you, dear Anon šš¼š. Iām sorry, dear, but itās not over yet š
. As for the ff to recommend to you, I donāt know because I havenāt read one since last year. The first one that comes to my mind right now is Checkmate. In fact, if anyone knows some good ones (although I think Iāve read them all already š¤£), please, write them in the comments because Iād love to read some new ones during the holidays š (not the ones set in high school tho please ššš¼). Even on Hosie (Hope and Josie from Legacies) Iād be more than okay with that; also because it would be the first fanfic Iād read about them š¤© (and because Iām in love with Hope aka Danielle š¤¤š *sorry, baby, but you already know this; I love you š*).
As for T&T, if Iām not mistaken, I remember reading that camrensrealbishĀ has it (if youāre not the one who has it, hon, Iām so sorry I tagged you for no reason š
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Yes, dear Anon, especially during the mid-October 2015 breakup; the worst one they had in my opinion which also went arm-in-arm with the news (not yet public at the time) of Milaās exit from the group and therefore the real beginning of the end of 5H.
āthey did not speak to each otherā, yes, many times, and we even witnessed that. āthey blocked each other from their private social mediaā (and not), I honestly donāt think so because the indirects were their way of communication for a lot of years.
Hi to you, dear Anon šš¼š, and of course I can explain it to you š. Itās much simpler than it actually looks. Kaki is the really cute nickname derived from Camilaās first name: Karla. You know how babies who start talking come up with new terms because they mix the names of things and of the people when theyāre learning? Well, they never told the story behind it, but I guess Sofi coined Kaki when she was a baby š, and the nickname has then remained.
ThankĀ you a lot, my dear, for the nice words š„°. Youāre sweet š. Take care of yourself too š¤.
Hi to you, dear Anon šš¼š. Contrary to normal things or things about my life š
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The post/reblog youāre referring to is this one posted on January 21, 2015:
Now that you can see it in full, I think itās easier for you to understand that Laur was simply looking for reassurance. Their usual ātake me back or let me let you goā phase during which they found themselves in in those years. Basically, their usual back and forth/game/loop/cycle.
Hi to you too, zucker-stuffĀ šš¼š! This is the first time youāve contacted me (unless youāve done so anonymously in the past) so welcome into my inbox š„³.
Regarding your ask, my dear, the answer is found in the pics themselves. What does the mirror in the second picture reflects beside the breathtaking queen? A door. And what does the mirror in the first one reflects? A wall. You can also understand how the door in the first pic is positioned perpendicularly in the point where the picture was taken. So, your implied question (š¤š¤£š) is no, dear, itās not the same bathroom. Um, Iām sorry if you thought it was the same one? š
ThankĀ you, my dear, by the way š. That was really nice of you and made me very happy š. Come back whenever you want and have an amazing day š¤.
Well, in addition to the NDA, thereās also the CDA (Confidential Disclosure Agreement), dear Anon. Theyāre basically the same thing. But by focusing more on the NDAs, theyāre used as much as paper tissues. Mine was obviously a metaphor, but Iām not kidding. As I think you know, NDAs are also used in companies and in employment contracts of ordinary people, but in the various industries (the music one, the film one, the sports ones, the political world, etc., etc.)? Theyāre used to no end.
Celebrities themselves have to sign them for deals, meetings, negotiations, etc. Celebrities themselves have to sign them if theyāre dealing with other celebrities even for non-formal meetings. Yes, you got it right. Many times, even just to friendly hang out or if for ex. they want to go out together one night.
Workers of any kind who deal with them must sign NDAs. So it doesnāt matter if directors, engineers, assistants, coaches, makeup artists, dancers, stylists, or ball pickers. It doesnāt matter their role or task. If theyāre dealing with them for even just a day or sometimes even just a few hours, they must sign NDAs. Why? Because NDAs are meant to protect celebrities. Even if itās only 5 minutes with the celebrity, you never know what might happen in those 5 minutes. The celebrity might, for example, receive a private phone call, or receive a gift from someone, or I donāt know, something that canāt get out of that room anyway. Celebrities themselves or their teams always have NDAs with them in their āpocketsā just in case, and no, Iām not kidding this time either. Understood now why the metaphor of the paper tissues? (š¤š¤£š)
NDAs can also be very customized. Like for example, the request to sign them? And yeah Iām talking about ordinary people too, it can happen before having romantic relationships with celebrities and other important/prominent people, or before or after one-night stands, or before or after drug use (together with them or just the celebrity). It depends on what has been included in the document, but it may require people to completely deny the existence of the celebrity involved, or the silence about everything theyāve seen and heard, or the silence only about certain information that are designated as confidential. There are agreements that if breached, can result in a 1 million dollars fine for each breach made, such as for ex.: the person witnessed 10 different things and signed the NDA. Of those 10 things, they disclose 3 by breaching the agreement. So their fine will be 3 million dollars.
As I said before, NDAs are meant to protect the celebrity, and therefore consequently, never the person who signs them. So basically, back to your questions, Mila herself or her team could also have paid them as a plus if they wanted to, but I donāt think there was any need for it. As youāve seen, the NDA is more than enough per se, dear Anon.
1) Literally answered this in my last Q&A post (tenth question), so Iāll just copy part of that answer, dear Anon: āābut the reason she stopped using it, both of them actually, is because everyone knew what their account names were. They signed up when they werenāt famous yet, but even after that, it was a āprivateā place (outside of being famous) for them in which to be themselves and express their feelings through re-blogs. It was no longer private by then and therefore they simply stopped using it.ā
2) All 5 girls were required to provide the passwords of all their accounts already in the X-Factor era, so, yeah, their social networks were monitored since then. Although Tumblr less than the others tho because always considered less important [good for us š ehm, ehm]. And, dear Anon? Not āby the managerā, but by their ex-team.
Not all celebrities because some of them handle it by themselves, but Iād say 90% of them have people who handle their social media. This person has a very specific role, and is called social media manager. They can be more than one, and therefore social media managers, or, the celebrity (or whoever makes the decisions for them) hires an actual communication and marketing agency to take care of it. In the case of the girls when they were still in the group, there were: the girls themselves behind them (they had much more freedom when they were minors for a legal matter), plus a specific team chosen by the labels which specifically took care of that, plus sometimes the management (so sometimes it couldāve been a manager, sometimes a publicist, sometimes an assistant, etc.). Everyone has always alternated, and everything has always been monitored. And before anything was published, it always had to be approved by the team first.
Now their situation has changed because theyāre all solo artists, but the method behind their social media hasnāt changed for all of them. Speaking of just Camren, in Laurenās case, she has more control since June 2019. Itās not always her all the time, but it is her most of the time. In Camilaās case, however, it hasnāt changed even a bit. She still has a special team chosen by the label (in the singular now) that deals specifically with that, plus sometimes the management (so sometimes Roger, sometimes Gian, sometimes Dvora, etc.), and a few times because of her own choice, Mila herself.
I honestly laugh every time people blame Roger because theyāre convinced heās the only one running it. Itās ridiculous how much in order to blame someone without knowing shit, they only blame him because they need a villain. They donāt know how things work or what really goes on behind the scenes, yet bam: letās point the finger as many sheep who canāt think with their own brains against the one whoās easiest to blame just because someone once started this hate parade, shall we? š¤¦š»āāļø. I mean, at least in this case, Roger himself proved that heās not the only one running it, but whatās everyone focused on? Just on the very fact that itās not always Mila herself who does it. Remember this?
Yeah. Iād like to underline the āour teamā. Case closed, letās move on.
3) Yeep šš¼. Not always, but yes. Theyāre called indirects for a reason, donāt you think, dear?
Hello, dear Anon šš¼š. Yeah, I remember. It was a persistent, childish, and (sorry not sorry for saying this) stupid anon who sent her two asks (maybe even more, but Lo only posted two). The first one, posted on November 20, 2012:
And the second one,Ā posted on November 23, 2012, that is, the one youāre referring to:
1) The answer was 100% real and it was 100% Lauren. BUT, and yes, thereās a but, we donāt know if it was the truth. Iāll explain myself better, and this is also related to your 2) question.
Before doing so, however, a little warning: for those who are prudish or who have other reasons that are religious or personal, please skip this ask directly. Iām going to be pretty blunt here and I wonāt hold back, so Iād rather please šš¼ you skip this if you have any problems with it, rather than then get complaints like those two times in the past. Okay? And thanks.
As I said earlier, that ask was posted on November 23, 2012. This means Laur was still literally at X-Factor. And in turn, that means Camren hadnāt fucked yet. If thatās why, they hadnāt yet given their first real kiss (for me happened in the following month on New Yearās at Loās house), but only the playful one in the elevator.
Having said that, I have three options. One reason on why she would have lied, one that was born as the truth but which then became a lie, and one if it was the truth. Before telling you, however, I need to explain to you something else that I actually already talked about and for which I received complaints as I mentioned earlier.
Sex is seen in a very subjective way in queer relationships. Ask one girl, and her answer will be different when you ask another. For everyone, sex with a man is considered as such if thereās penetration, otherwise, itās considered as only foreplay. But sex with another girl? Some girls consider having had sex when it was only oral. Other girls consider having had sex when there was only penetration. Other girls if it only happened through the clit. Others yet, consider it as such if it was all together and therefore a mix of everything. And there are those who say that for them it was only if they had orgasm/s.
So here, as you can see, we have to talk and above all think based on how a girl sees it, and we donāt know how Lauren considered it back then.
We know that before Camila, Lauren had already experimented with another girl: Lucy. Laur was 15, and as I explained in another askĀ in response to an Anon, that experimentation took place from late September 2011 to February 2012 (it could have happened in all those four months, or just in two, or just in one; I canāt know that). We also know that Laur was still super in denial, and as she herself said āI had homophobia deeply ingrained into my systemā.
Having explained all this and by still keeping in mind that we donāt know how Lo saw it and how she considered having sex with a girl, I can tell you the three reasons mentioned earlier.
Reason on why she would have lied:
During that experimentation with LucĆa, they had sex and Laur considered it as such, but since it was with a girl, she lied because nĀ° 1, privacy. Sheād never have told her personal business so publicly especially at the time that sheād by then become a public figure. And nĀ° 2, the most important reason, because if she had told the truth and therefore if she had said that she was no longer a virgin, anyone else, including her family and her friends, would eventually have asked āwith whom?ā. She should have come out of the closet already since then because her friends, especially her best friends, knew it hadnāt happened with her ex-boyfriends. And precisely because of that, she certainly couldnāt even make up a guy, so she simply lied.
Reason that was born as truth but which then became a lie:
During that experimentation with Ludicrous, they had sex, but Laur didnāt consider it as such because it didnāt happen with a guy. It didnāt happen in the āstraightā way, you know? Still because she was in denial, she admitted it to herself only after years, and therefore when she answered that ask, in her mind, it was the truth. But only years later when she accepted herself, that truth turned into the real truth, which is that her answer to that ask had been a lie all along.
Reason if it was the truth:
During that experimentation with Luggage, Laur didnāt consider what they did as sex and therefore, automatically, it was the truth.
Now the connection with your 2) question. If that was the truth, and I believe it was, Laur considered sex what she had with Mila. As Iāve said so many other times, I truly believe Lauren experimented with Luckless. Maybe they only experimented with foreplay with orgasms without penetration and thatās why Laur didnāt consider it sex, while with Mila she did everything and therefore considered it as such thanks also to penetration. I donāt know this š¤·š»āāļø. I can only hypothesize. I could of course also be wrong but yeah, my dear. I personally believe that Mila was Laurās first sexual time (and vice versa).
And thatās it. I hope you have a nice day too, my dear š.
Hey to you, dear Anon šš¼š. Iām better šš¼, thanks for asking. How you doinā? I hope well š.
My dear, genuine question here: Did we watch the same interview? š¤£
The two people she was referring to represent her two most important PRs: Ty and Lucy. If thatās why, thatās the reason why the choreography for Donāt Wanna Say was created in that way. To live up to her narrative of their love triangle. Plus, to also represent her bisexuality in general. And as for the meant, she used the past tense because nĀ°1, still for the narrative, Sorryās about one of those two PRs, and nĀ°2, because she canāt use the present tense. Lauren is publicly single, so if she had used the present tense, both Zach and Dan, as well as eventually everyone else, wouldāve bombarded her with questions about who is this person with whom she is in a relationship that means a lot to her.
So the genuine question remains, my dear, because itās like we watched two different interviews. And youāre entitled to your opinion of course, but I also have another question if you donāt mind: it really took only two sentences said for narrative purposes to make you come to the conclusion that Camren are no longer together?
Hi to you, dear Anon šš¼š. As you saw in the previous ask, thatās my take on this and the reason why I think it. Donāt thank me, my dear, because itās a pleasure for me, and have a good day too š.
P.S. āi personally donāt think so, like at allā, I applaud you for not following the herd šš¼šš¼šš¼. Youāll understand why Iām telling you this in the third to last ask; answer 4) where youāll see another applause.
And I donāt know why they do it, dear Anon š¤·š»āāļøš¤¦š»āāļø. Itās like everyone suddenly forgets every time that Camren follow a script. I mean, itās also a matter of logic and paying attention to what they say and the real meanings behind it, you know? And I think you know what I mean based on what you wrote. About your question, dear, I think the previous ask made you understand what I think. And for the rest, I really loved that interview. Especially all the joking digs š¤£. Laurās really hilarious and I feel sorry when people donāt understand her sense of humor because sheās really funny š„°.
Hello to you, dear Anon šš¼š. I read it as soon as I got the email, so when you sent it. I celebrate all the holidays even though Iām an atheist actually. Christianity is predominant in Italy, so also my family, most of my relatives, and some friends. If thatās why, I grew up like that too, so I even have communion and confirmation. Being an atheist, I donāt celebrate the religious part of the holidays. In the case of Christmas for ex., I only celebrate the fact that itās a holiday and that Iām surrounded by the people I love. We donāt care if we believe in different things. The important thing is to be together to have fun, to eat really really a lot (even the table š¤£; thatās a way of saying of course), to play games, exchange gifts, and I mean, to spend a wonderful time together. I donāt know if the reason youāre not celebrating is religious or for other reasons, my dear, but if youāre going to have vacation days, then I hope youāll enjoy those š„°.
Now about your questions.
1) Yes, they spent holidays together. Most of the times, they saw each other immediately afterward, such as for ex., dinner/lunch with the family, and then they saw each other at one or the otherās house, or went out directly. They also spent holidays all together at one or the otherās house, and yes, like you, I think they spent this Thanksgiving all together for the same reasons as you. & 2) yeah, she only posted one pic.
3) They donāt have a house together (yet). They have never had it so far because they donāt need it since Lo lives alone. & 4) Their dogs stay with their families. But going more in the specific:
Camila took Eugene Fitzherbert in August 2019 before the VMAs that took place on the 26th in NYC. This is the only reason why we saw Eugene with her in those videos, but then once he was brought home to Miami, he always stayed there. Tarzan was taken on November 3, 2020, in Miami during the pandemic for PR reasons. Unlike the others, and precisely because he was a PR dog until recently, heās the only one who was constantly being moved for narrative reasons. All four (Leo, Thunder, Eugene, and Tarzan) (+ Aleās parrot š¤£š„°) move from Miami to L.A. based on Alejandro. Sinu is always around with Mila (Sofi as well when she doesnāt have school), and when they have to stay in L.A. for a while, Ale joins them when he can according to his job by also bringing their little zoo with him.
Unlike Camila, Lauren had three dogs always with her. Leo, who she took to the Front Street Animal on May 14, 2017, when 5H went to Sacramento, and who then she had to give away because of the commitments and travels with the group and because she hadnāt considered how big he couldāve become. She couldnāt take good care of him, so she preferred to give him to family friends with two children in July of that same year. Gracie (Graciella), taken on September 20, 2018, for PR reasons, and who unfortunately and heartbreakingly passed away š„ŗš a couple of days before Laur announced it on March 14, 2019. And Cleo (Cleopatra) who she still has, taken on January 20, 2019, for PR reasons as well. Same reason why Julio was also taken if thatās why (the one who Ty kept just one more month after their ābreakupā and then disappeared).
Laur lives alone contrary to Mila, and whenever she couldnāt take them with her, she always left them at her parentsā house with Dash, whom they took when Lo was 8 years old. So back to your question, the dogs stay with their families. At best, Laurās the one who takes Cleo to the Cabellos when she doesnāt want to leave her at home, but I doubt that Mila takes her dogs when she goes to stay at Loās apartment. Oh and, yeah, I think the dogs all get along well because theyāve been used to being with other dogs since they were puppies.
By the way, you made me laugh really a lot with āinsert that hilarious pr stunt vid with all the dogsā š¤£š¤£š¤£š¤£š¤£š¤£š¤£. And yeah, her dogs may seem a little crazy as you say, but thatās because they donāt recognize Mila as their owner. In this case, Iām speaking as a dog owner myself. Dogs choose their owner. Their alpha. They have their favorite. They create a sort of list in their minds from the one that is their owner, to the one theyāre least fond of but that they love anyway. Kind of like we humans do if you think about it š¤£. For example, in a family of three, they see only one as their pack leader, and it doesnāt matter if the other two members of the family spend the same amount of time with them or even more, they will always listen to the one they choose as their owner. They listen to some commands if theyāre given by other people, yes, but itās not the same thing, and they donāt listen to others at all if theyāre, I donāt know, super excited or angry. And believe me, if there had been Ale during that hilarious video, none of that would have happened. If what happened during that video happened, itās because none of them recognize Camila as their owner. Far less Shitto. š¤£ Let alone. For dogs, itās a matter of leadership, respect, and loyalty. If you see dogs taking the lead when theyāre out walking on a leash, it means they think of themselves as the leader because they donāt think that person is at the same level of power as their owner, and that also means that they donāt respect that person enough as they would do with their owner. Itās as simple as that š¤·š»āāļøš.
Donāt thank me, dear, because itās a pleasure for me š¤. In fact, thankĀ youĀ š thank you for the nice words, youāre really kind ā¤, and Iām glad you liked it š„°.
Hello to you, dear Anon šš¼š. Iām better, dear, thanks for your concern š¤. I hope youāre well and Merry Christmas to you too, my dear š. [Iām not physically spending it with my girlfriend because we live 11,369 km away š„ŗšš¤§, but weāre spending it together thanks to the video calls and the gifts weāve sent to each other šš„°. Maybe next year š¤š¼]
I still think Tarzan was adopted for PR purposes. It wouldnāt have been a problem for Mila to have another dog since she loves dogs. And she certainly doesnāt lack the space or the money to take care of him too, and thatās why she still has him and she chose his name, otherwise, Tarzan wouldāve been given to someone else at the end of their charade. Or maybe youāre right in saying that she wanted another dog and that they also used him for PR purposes. I donāt know š¤·š»āāļø. I think this only because nĀ°1, it seems strange to me that she already wanted another dog since she had taken Eugene just a year before and already had two others, and nĀ°2, because they needed something that made them look even cozier. Like a small family, and a new dog (because they couldnāt use one of those she already had of course) was the best choice. Luckily, theyāre not the kind of people who wouldāve agreed to have a PR baby (not yet at least š and I hope for them they never do š¤š¼), so theyāve opted for another type of baby to make them look even more real in peopleās eyes with this co-parenting thing. Failed miserably like all the rest of their PR by the way š¤£.
As for the fact that people think they were two different dogs, I personally donāt think so. I compared the pictures (and the videos) several times, and it has always been the same dog. One dog can also look like another one even just if it has shaggy fur that day. Dogs, like people, grow, but much faster, so itās normal that they may look different, but they have features that make them recognizable. Speaking as a dog owner, I can assure you this. Same thing when it was with Gracie. The friend youāre referring to instead, is yogurt majesty tour manager, Cez Darke:
I donāt know if people saw this picture and thought he had the same dog, but this is him with baby Tarzan on November 27, 2020.
Why canāt you have one, my dear š„ŗ? I donāt know if you canāt have a dog because of space, money support, allergy (a real one tho š¤£), or maybe your parents donāt want to, but I hope someday you can make your wish come true because, having a dog is one of the most beautiful things that can ever happen to you in life. You are loved unconditionally, you have a best friend for life, you will never feel alone because theyāre always there for you by helping you even in the darkest moments, and itās literally life-changing š„°! I speak for myself of course, but I could never imagine my life without my baby girl š. So, yeah, I really wish you that with all my heart, my dear ā¤.
Hi to you, dear Anon šš¼š. You want the truth, my dear? But please, donāt tell anyone because itās a secret, so š¤«š¤«š¤š¤. That tweet was my birthday present. She asked me what I wanted as a gift for my 30th birthday, and I asked her to tweet something related to Mila, and bam, she did it with thisĀ š:
IāM JOKING OF COURSE!! š¤£š¤£š¤£š¤£š¤£š¤£š¤£. Not about the part that she tweeted that on my birthday because I really turned 30 on the 22nd, but about the fact that it was my birthday present š¤£. I mean, I wish, but no š¤£.
All kidding aside now, my thoughts about it are that thatās a line from one of her songs. She just teased the lyrics and I was like:
Even more so because it was my birthday š¤£! I literally had a smirk plastered on my face and I said to myself āHappy birthday to me š. Thanks, Lo šā.
Iām better, my dear, not good yet, but better š. Thanks for your concern and for asking, and I really hope youāre well. Youāre sweet š„°. Yes, Iām enjoying the holidays, and I hope you are too š¤. Merry Merry Merry Christmas to you too, my dear š, you deserve it too š.
HI again, my dear Anon šš¼š. Iāll answer everything in the same order you set the ask.
For what you said after the //: And maybe youāre right to say they donāt give a fuck, but what can I do? Be petty about it? Nah. Meanness would bring more meanness. Any form of hate only leads to more hate, and I donāt want any of that. Especially in my blog. I think you already know that I donāt approve of it and that I spread the exact opposite as best I can. And thanks for what you said š. Youāre super nice š¤.
1) Oh, come on, dear š¤£. Just for that? Youāre sweet š„°. 2) Now weāre serious only because you know more or less our relationship and that weāll see each other? š¤£ Why didnāt you think we were serious before knowing all this? š„ŗ - YOUāRE THE ONE WHOāS SWEET and thank you š„°. 3) and 4) Yeah š¤š¼.
Now the answers to the new questions (and of course itās okay with me š):
1) Yes, I do. Iāve been doing it since I was a teenager and Iāve never stopped. I donāt know what your genre is to recommend anything specific, so Iāll copy and paste the list of the ones I watch and have watched since then (not including cartoons and the classic ones they did on Disney Channel):
Game of Thrones, American Horror Story, The Vampire Diaries, The Originals, Legacies, Pretty Little Liars, Ravenswood, Pretty Little Liars: The Perfectionists, The 100, Orange is the New Black, Riverdale, Arrow, The Flash, Dcās Legends of Tomorrow, Batwoman, Supergirl, Superman & Lois, Supernatural, Charmed (2018), Motherland: Fort Salem, The Wilds, Squid Game, Cruel Summer, Step Up: High Water, Orphan Black, Shameless, The Bold Type, Tell Me A Story, V Wars, 13 Reasons Why, Glee [Brittana forever ā¤], Gossip Girl, Gossip Girl (2021), Smash, Once Upon a Time, Teen Wolf, Scream, Shadowhunters, Lost Girl, Hart of Dixie, 2 Brooke Girls, Suburgatory, The Secret Circle, Faking It [the one in which 5H appeared as guests star in the 2x06 by singing the cover āYou Got It (The Right Stuff)ā by New Kids on the Block], Beauty and the Beast, The Carrie Diaries, Scream Queens, Beyond, Famous In Love, Penny Dreadful, The L Word, Moonlight, Dallas (2012), Instant Star, Covert Affairs, Chuck, Kyle XY, Wildfire, Smallville, Veronica Mars, One Tree Hill, Gilmore Girls, Nip/Tuck, Dawsonās Creek, and the one that made me fall in love with TV series: The O. C. š.
Whenever I update the list, I always have the doubt that Iāve forgotten some, so itās not 100% complete. Oh and, these are the ones I used to watch every now and then but that Iāve never watched in full or in order of episodes: The Big Bang Theory, Sex and the City [Iāve watched the movies and The Carrie Diaries tho š¤], Scrubs, Dr. House - Medical Division, Charmed (the original one), and Buffy The Vampire Slayer.
2) Thanks, dear, and Iām happy about it š. A lot of people find it offensive, yeah, but personally speaking, I donāt. It doesnāt seem like that, but bisexuality isnāt taken seriously by people. I already mentioned some reasons in the last post, but very often weāre discriminated against and represented with negative and completely wrong stereotypes by both straight people and people from the LGBTQIA+ community itself. Many still today refuse to recognize bisexuality as a specific sexual orientation, and thereās a lot of biphobia around. Reason why bisexual people are prone to higher rates of depression, anxiety, self-harm, and suicide. And bi teens have a higher incidence of suicidal thoughts and suicide attempts than gay and lesbian teens. All this, because they are consequences derived from the biphobia ingrained in other people.
Due to constant discriminations, biphobia or general homophobia, many bisexuals and many LGBTQIA+ people see the term bicurious as offensive. Also because as I told you before, bisexuality is not taken seriously by people, and therefore they (bisexuals and LGBTQIA+ people) see the term bi-curiosity as an injustice towards people who are truly bi. A bicurious person may turn out not to be bisexual but just to be straight or gay/lesbian, so people find it offensive and not fair because the term bicurious is derived from bisexuality: BI.
I also know that many bisexuals and many LGBTQIA+ people find it an offensive term because they see bi-curiosity as basically a temporary sexuality. They see it as just a justification that those people use. Like a temporary pass they use to experiment. As an āokay, theyāre confused and want to try to have the confirmationā, ergo āthey just want to use one of us, perhaps deluding them at the same time because theyāve played with their feelingsā.
I understand the reasons why many are against the term. I understand them with my whole being because Iām bisexual too. But in my opinion, weāve all gone through the confusion and insecurity phase before knowing for sure, and curiosity, in this case bi-curiosity, is exactly that phase. I donāt mind exactly for this. Again, I understand why many are against it, but at the same time, I believe that if a person wants to use āIām bicuriousā because thatās what they feel at the moment, they can do it because only that same person can define themselves, and the others are nobody to tell them itās wrong.
Now. I donāt know the reason behind your question, my dear. I donāt know if youāre asking me this because you used the term bicurious and someone told you it was offensive, or if you witnessed something like that, or if you read it somewhere. I told you, I donāt mind š¤·š»āāļø, but many do and take it seriously as an offense. My first piece of advice is, fuck what other people think and use it if thatās really what you feel. Donāt use it lightly or if youāre just kidding. Only do it if thatās what you really feel. But my second piece of advice, especially if you want to avoid arguments, is to use queer or just curious instead of bicurious. Donāt use a label that doesnāt belong to you yet. Donāt say phrases like āIām confused and I think Iām bisexualā, or āI think Iām bicuriousā. Say something like āIām questioning my sexualityā or āI think Iām queerā or āIām confused because I feel attracted to both gendersā. You canāt go wrong and you donāt offend anyone in those ways š.
3) Oh yeah. 100%. Zach (and Dan too) has known them since 2015. Zach has been with them at parties and said it in the interview with Mila. Plus, have you seen all the joking digs, teasing, and laughs made with Zach and Dan during this interview with Lo? Of course they know š¤£. They know everything, especially about their PRs, and as you noticed too about Tympanumās momentary forgetfulness š¤£, thing that has been really hilarious š¤£, Zach even tried to help her when her mind was only in Camiland šš¤£š¤£š¤£. By the way, the music industry is small even if it doesnāt look like it, and everyone knows everything about everyone. So yeah. They know 100%.
4) Yes, of course she lied, my dear. Iāve already given my opinion about it in that previous ask as youāve seen. Anyway, I honestly love what you said here: āI donāt think they broke up as many cs think just because someone pointed it outā. The just because someone pointed it out deserves a round of applause šš¼šš¼šš¼ because youāre right. Iāve seen this happen for years in this fandom. Someone gives their opinion on something, and everyone automatically thinks like the person who said it. They donāt think with their brains. They donāt question it. They simply follow like a herd of sheep. And Iām sorry. Iām sorry because they prefer to join the common thought rather than distinguishing themselves with their own. And itās the same thing that happens with fake proofs or misinformation. People donāt go check if theyāre real when someone puts them around. They just believe in it, and thatās how the spread of something completely wrong happens even more. Ugh! š¤¦š»āāļø
Thank you for the support and for reporting them, my dear š¤. Iām losing hope though because they arenāt taking action yet, and thatās honestly making me question again whether to create posts like that in the future š.
Iām much better now, my dear, but not 100% healthy yet š. Thank you so much for your concern and for always being so kind in your asks ā¤. I love you too and have a beautiful day too š.
I know you werenāt talking to me but, girls like me, dear? What do you mean by that? And, my love (romanticentropyĀ š)? That last part is for you š.
Hi to you, dear Anon šš¼š. You know what, dear? You did absolutely right to have doubts about whether or not to believe it because thatās straight-up bullshit. Sometimes I donāt understand the people in this fandom. Do they all really have a short-term memory, or do they just enjoy misinforming people?
Did they forget that the girls werenāt always allowed to write songs for the group? Have they forgotten how they were actually worked to the fucking bone to record songs written by others and how much they didnāt like that because they didnāt feel them authentic? Have they forgotten all the times that the 5 of them said it during and after the group? Have they forgotten that theyāve been treated like literal slaves for years? I can even give you the first three examples that come to my mind:
1) Interview with BUILD Series in August 2017. Right after Lo exposed the shit behind the scenes, Mani: āSongs that we were given.ā Ā Laur: āExactly! We werenāt even like, believing in those songs either, so.ā
2) The New York Times article on Mila released in January 2018: āāshe had asked to help write lyrics for Fifth Harmony songs and was rebuffed. /// Mila: āI was just curious and I wanted to learn and I saw all these people around me making music, writing songs and being so free. I just wanted to do that and it did not work.ā
3) Very recent interview with Zach Sang. Laur: āA lot of what happened to us wasnāt even us. It was-ā Ā Zack: āOh, totally.ā Ā Laur: ā-all of the pieces around us.ā Ā Zack: āThat you really had no control over(?)ā Ā Laur: āAbsolutely none.ā
No Way was both produced and written ENTIRELY and ONLY by Victoria MonƩt in 2014. The only songs the girls had a chance to co-write with other songwriters for their albums were:
- Me & My Girls, Donāt Wanna Dance Alone, and Who Are You for Better Together (+ even the unreleased one: Drown on Solid Ground).
- All in My Head (Flex) for 7/27.
- And for the self-titled album: Sauced Up: Arlen - Make You Mad: Normally - Lonely Night: Norminah - Messy: Normally - Bridget: Alren.
Thatās all. Periodt. Do those people really believe that with all the restrictions they had, Camren could have ghostwritten something when all five of them couldnāt even officially write? š¤£ This is hilarious š¤£š¤£. Not even the chosen one alone had that chance. If thatās why, she got the chance to be in studios and officially create something only afterward, which was in December 2016 when she started the process for āThe Hurting. The Healing. The Loving.ā with Frank Dukes (executive producer of her album Camila). Because, the only other permits she had? They were granted to her only for collaborations (I Know What You Did Last Summer, Bad Things, Know No Better, and other unreleased ones with Diplo). So what the hell are they talking about? š¤£š¤¦š»āāļø
Did the girls feel a particular attachment to No Way? Of course, but not just Lauren. All five of them! Have they forgotten how Ally cried the first time they sang it live? How all five fought for having it in 7/27 and how especially Dinah and Laur did it? It was Loās favorite for sure, and the other girls each had their own favorite, but it meant a lot to all of them. The fact that the lyrics represented Camren in a way, doesnāt mean that they ghostwritten it with Victoria. The fact that Laur cried during it thus giving even more emotional attachment to the song in the eyes of us fans, doesnāt mean that she and Camila contributed to the lyrics. It doesnāt even mean the other bullshit I saw myself years ago, which was that Victoria wrote it for the two of them and based on the two of them. Like, no. Hell no.
Victoria is an amazing artist. Sheās an amazing producer and even more, an amazing songwriter. The fact that these people want to shift the credits of her own creation, written and based on her personal life because yes, Victoria MonĆ©t is fucking bisexual, just to make their own fantasies real and validate, IS WRONG! Itās so damn wrong and unfair to her. I can understand who consider No Way āa Camren songā for obvious reasons. I mean, I myself canāt help but think of them when I listen to it. But I canāt and I refuse to understand when someoneās imagination is spread around as the truth by consequently discriminating against someone elseās work, in this case Victoriaās. Itās just not fair to her, her hard work, and her personal story behind the song.
As I said before, I really donāt understand these people. Donāt they understand that spreading fake pieces of information just because they want it to be true doesnāt make it true, but it makes them and consequently all the rest of the CS delusionals? Do they like being called delusionals? Because I hate it. Because Iām not. I hate it mostly because there are billions of proofs that prove Camren, but with their bullshit, they make even the real proofs pass off as bullshit. Canāt they see it? And I hate being categorized as delusional just because those people make all of us, and therefore even those who arenāt, consequently so.
News flash for all those who like to spread this bullshit: that behavior, helps the narratives. That behavior, doesnāt make you real fans. It just makes you unreliable assholes. Sorry not sorry.
P.S. Iām better, my dear. Donāt worry and thanks for asking and for your concern š. Hope youāre well and have a good day š¤.
Hey to you, dear Anon šš¼š. Iām better, thanks for asking, and I hope everythingās going well for you too, bud š„°.
So. In my opinion, they chose November for a few reasons, and when I say they chose, I mean when they changed the dates because of covid. Keep in mind that these things are always decided beforehand. Before telling you the reasons, however, Iād like to first explain the time frame of what in my opinion was decided at the beginning; the initial contract.
Their āstoryā began on July 4, 2019. If this pandemic hadnāt happened, they wouldnāt have postponed the release of Cinderella (which was originally supposed to be released on February 5, 2021), yogurt majesty wouldāve released the original documentary (he himself said that it was a different one last year and that they had to cut many parts to make room for the new ones created after his tour dedicated then to his album; reason why the documentary was based on the creation of Wonder and no longer on his life on tour) and Mila wouldāve gone on tour. The Romance Tour was supposed to start on May 26, 2020, and finish on September 26, 2020.
Now, do you remember the bullshit about their break that lasted from August 13, 2020 (when the news came out thanks to that oh so casually āsourceā who claimed they were in crisis) to October 2020 (when oh so coincidentally Skittles started doing interviews to promote Wonder)? You know, the excuse that he himself said that he hadnāt been open and vulnerable to her? That was supposed to be the real period of the original breakup! Their farce was supposed to begin as planned on July 4, 2019, and end around the end of The Romance Tour with the excuse of the distance, their work and their ever-hectic schedules, the misunderstandings, and the bullshit that he too used to justify that break. It was supposed to last for 1 year and 2/4 months as a basic PR contract, but it didnāt. Because of the fucking pandemic, every single one of their schedules was changed and adapted!
I can give you an example to make you understand better. The PR with Macaque lasted from February 9, 2018 (paparazzi pictures in Mexico) to May 11, 2019 (the last time they were photographed together), for 1 year and 2 months. Laurās PR with Tijuana instead, lasted from February 12, 2017 (Grammy Awards 2017) to April 15, 2019 (both did a post on their social media), for 2 years and two months. Why in that case? Because the PR was divided into two parts. The first part for Lo, and the second part for Tymbal. Milaās, on the other hand, were one-sided. The one with Matchbox was for her, and the one with Shaved was for him. Oh and, the one with Lubricant lasted 1 year and 8 months and it was one-sided as well and it was for Laur, so, you see? Same thing here.
Although it was only for Senseless, their PR was brought to the same amount of time as a bilateral one to compensate for the lost time and huge amount of money lost and which theyād have gained if everything had gone as scheduled. Therefore, it lasted for 2 years and four months (from July 4, 2019, to November 17, 2021). Now back to the question that started this, why November? Well, in my opinion, first of all because it was the month decided. As I told you before, these kinds of things are planned in advance, so theyāve calculated that month based on whatās coming next.
They got December covered thanks to Iāll Be Home for Christmas, and letās say Milaās second official single will be released in late January/early February. Sheās even shot the music video for it already, and that means sheāll have plenty of time to promote it, do interviews, make appearances, and start re-promoting the album which oh so coincidentally will be ādifferentā from the initial project, when not a comma has been changed in reality. So, yeah. Itās also for Milaās album and to change the narrative around it as you thought and asked me. And if you think about it, itās the same tactic they used with the self-titled. They used her exit from the group and that overcome change/suffering as an excuse to āradically changeā the direction and the title of the album when in reality, nothing had been changed and everything had been planned for the narrative. Now I think theyāll do the same thing since āsheās getting over the breakup with what she believed was the love of her lifeā š¤¢. Donāt fall for that shit.
Besides that, I think they chose November to have a month off. In addition to the little appearances that Mila is making, theyāre both free from interviews and free to relax until the ārealā work awaits them in January, so theyāre finally both free to enjoy these holidays and spend their time with their families and friends without having to pretend anymore and divide their time between Miami and Toronto just for narrative purposes. So yeah. This is my opinion on the reasons for the choice of November. I could obviously be wrong, but thatās what Iāve been thinking since last year because it makes the most sense to me, and I even wrote some of that in my PR stunt relationships post.
As for the questions about Shrimp instead, the release day decision is a lot easier than you might think. The reason why singers release their songs on Fridays, is because the charts of the streaming platforms (Spotify, Apple Music, Amazon Music, YouTube, etc.) and a very important one especially in the United States like Billboard, which report the weekly popularity of songs and albums, start counting and tracking sales by starting from Friday until Thursday every week. So releasing on Friday, allows singers to enter the charts of singles or albums the first week, and have the whole rest of the week to gain streams and sales. Thatās why itās simply better to release on Fridays. Shuttleās song wasnāt a music move in this case. It wasnāt about a hit and get numbers. It was obviously out of attention.
When you release on Friday, your song competes with all the others released on the same day, plus, those already released in the past that are still on the charts. Releasing mid-week in this case, it was more like a āHey, I just broke up with my girlfriend. Iām not competing with anyone. Thatās just my broken heartā. It was like everything thatās always been about him, a āgive me attention, give me attentionā. It doesnāt matter that the song isnāt even on the charts right now. They got the post-breakup attention boom they wanted from both shitmila and curious people, and thatās all for now. Theyāll start using the breakup again and Camila herself next year for publicity whenever they need it.
Oh and, of course heās already working on his breakup album. He probably even already finished it š. Also because, heās been saying for years that he wanted to have a relationship only to be able to write (yeah, sure, because he āwritesā) a breakup album, so š¤¦š»āāļø.
And thatās pretty much it. Donāt thank me, my dear, and have a good day/night too š¤.
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. Thank you all for your asks and I hope Iāve been helpful this time too š. As usual, Iām always available for those who have questions, so ask away š.
Once again, happy holidays to you all!!!!! š„ššāØšš
Remember to be nice. Always. Both with others and with yourselves. Be a good example. Be patient. Be safe and take care of yourselves. Donāt let our ship sink. Keep shipping them, but please respectfully šš¼. Sending you virtual love and hugs š¤š¤š¤. I love you, babies. Always with love, F ā¤ļø.
