I think one interesting thing that transfeminism does is that once you're hooked into agreeing with the movement with the normie trans talking points, it then drops them to tell the truth and trusts you just still support them.
Trans women don't transition because they have a fetish, autogynephilia isn't real -> Actually, it's fine if someone transitions because he thinks he'd be sexy as a woman. Fetish isn't inherently harmful, forcefem is liberating
Trans women fought at Stonewall so you owe them your rights -> actually Stonewall never supported trans women. You support trans women, so now you must say Fuck Stonewall
Trans women just want women to respect them as one of them, not to take over. Trans women will cause no disruption in female spaces, they just want to blend in -> Trans women are uniquely marginalized so that they actually encapsulate everything about womanhood, therefore actually need women to center them in feminism. If trans women completely dominate a women's space that's fine, it's good if trans women win every female competition ever from now on and it's fine if they speak over every "TME" everywhere
Trans women are respectful and kind to all women and trans men -> trans women are allowed to complain about women and trans men because they do not return this supposed love and time and kindness -> trans women are at the bottom of the gender hierarchy and don't owe anyone anything, everything they could say is punching up -> ...Just take a look at how transfeminists talk about "TME"s for this one, lol
Trans women are not pedophiles or rapists, this is a false stereotype -> Actually, we need to destigmatize paraphilia for the good of the trans women, and rape is punished too much because it's used as a trope against trans women
This is to get you to feel like you're understanding the ~ultimate truth~, being a true radical, gradually removing all of the things that got you to feel like you need to accept trans women until all you have is this blind MTF worship. So when anti-trans people state these points, you can go "Heh, you're right, but checkmate, I still support trans women anyway!"