Being adventurous while being in control always enhances every spanking you give. He should not know what exactly is going to happen when he needs to be spanked. Try having him flailing during the s panking

Appreciation Caption #26-22-3 - @atvrider1

At first, your wife simply refused to spank you when you first brought up the idea. It took a few years to convince her that it was a way of solving problems, and stopping your dominance and bad behavior.

The first few spankings were timid, but after a few years, she came to be a really effective spanker, and actually even said that she now enjoyed spanking you when it was necessary.

And now, the evolution is complete

She expects you to cooperate! Slow and steady and seems like it is lasting forever

but you know, after cornertime, she still intends ot use the brush

We usually calmly discuss and problems or issues with our marriage at least two a week and if I know they are my own fault, they I have to nicely spank me. This does make her happy and I am forgiven.

This way we don't have fights or arguments like other couples because any issues are quickly resolved by my wife. I always have to thank her for spanking me too. It seems to be the right thing to do.

But I am glad she married me and watches over me. Even on our first date we did find out that we were both Christians and we share the same beliefs and values, that do include accountability, justice, and doing the right thing.

Giving up control is a very liberating experience

Everytime you displease me, expect to be spanked. At one time, she simply put you over her knee and used her hand, rather effectively.

but as the years go by, you backslide from time to time, and she enjoyed using the brush

However, as you both mature, hair styles change, and so does the type of discipline, and recently, she bought a strap

A stage of personal growth for males is to accept that their wife will spank them when she feels it is needed.

Apologizing before being spanked, and saying it was truly a minor mistake, is really unacceptable. Hoping it is a spanking you might find not too bad, is a mistake. Asking for it to be not too hard is a bigger mistake

please bring me the paddle, then bare your bottom and ask me to spank you.

It has been three days in a row, that I have been spanked. Simply a small disagreement in the kitchen. Cindy picked up the wooden spoon,

and said: Bare your bottom and bend over!"

This was the strongest wooden spoon spanking she has ever given. The day before she set a timer (at my suggestion for one minute), and she lasted about 45 seconds of intense spanking.

Today, she spanked for maybe thirty seconds, but as I started to stand up she said " stay in position, I am just resting"

Then the spanking started again!

She visited other spots of my bottom and back of the top of the legs, and I was very sore, and raising up on my toes. She stopped again after maybe 30 seconds, and immediately said:

"I am just resting, I am NOT finished"

and again a long spanking where I was gyrating around and owwing. Again she paused, and said " stay put"

one more round, extremely hard had my bottom on fire, before she said you can get up now.

The color of the wall, and the light from the window, do not do justice to how red my bottom was.

Many wives, like mine, will spank you if you ask, after explaining your desire to be spanked. (This might take a few years, as some might find it too extreme and too kinky)

However, requesting a real spanking, where you end up crying and the spanking does not stop until your wife decides eventually, will probably never happen.

Cindy always stops when I appear to be in distress, which is precisley when I wish she kept spanking.

Her spanknigs have gotten much harder in the last year, so maybe thismight still happen

I would be game once, but being given a real s panking once, all future spankings might just be as REAL, or worse.

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