tadc episode nine spoilers
jax being transfem is actually so important to me because how she handles her identity is kind of similar to how i handled mine before i started socially transitioning. i really did try for so many years to embrace femininity, but that only made me feel more miserable and angry. it felt like i was failing at something that should be natural. i especially felt irritated towards people who (i assumed) found an easier time with coming to terms with their identity and would end up keeping a lot friends at arms length. my point is, a character like jax is a character i hope will help other trans people realize that things can get easier if you want it to get easier. the only person who decided it was too late for jax was jax.
